It really depends. If I was choosing for myself I would prefer him to cum on my face. I like the dominance aspect of it - like he is marking his territory. It’s less intimate but (maybe for that reason) hotter in my opinion. But I often like to let him choose and if he wants to cum in my mouth or down my throat I’m fine with that too. Love to be with a verbal big dicked top who shoves it down my throat and tells me to take him cum. And I look up at him with his cock buried in my throat and I feel it pulsating while he shoots ropes directly into my stomach. It’s also fun to take the cum in my mouth and let it dribble out, like his massive load was too much to handle
Spit or swallow - what do you do and why?
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Swallow, my wife always swallows and when I suck cock I want to swallow it too. Not waste it
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When I'm sucking a cock , I'm giving pleasure and I want to please my guy or Ts , so I swallow their jizz. I like getting a facials too
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Always swallowed. I think its disrespectful not to. I respect all choices here.
When I get together with a guy to give him a blowjob, I enjoy sucking his cock until it cums. I feel like I have sarisfird him by taking his cum. I look at cum as a reward for showing him a good time. It is kind of disppointing when I am getting suck and he tells to tell him when I am about to cum, because he says he does not swallow. It makes me feels like i wasted my load.
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For me, it changed as my experience grew. When I first started giving blowjobs I used to pull back when he was close, so that the cum hit my face. Then one time I remember this particular suck bud who really liked fucking my face. I was laid back with my head over the arm of a sofa and he was standing there really pounding my throat with his big, juicy cock. I was aware of his moans building and knew he was getting close but I was just so turned on by then I let him carry on pumping until he shot what felt like a massive load straight down my throat. I could feel his balls pulsing against my face as he shot rope after rope. Ever since that baptism of fire I lost all my reservations and have always been very happy to swallow. I've turned into a real cum lover.
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I always swallow unless he wants to cum on my face instead. I feel if I am chosen to suck his cock, polite manners dictate it is only proper to swallow his cum. 
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I will continue to suck and swallow but if they pull out and wish to put it elsewhere that is fine. Facial or cumming all over my hairy chest is great too.
- bi2,
My fuckbuddy doesnt really care where he blows his load, as long as it is not spat out. I think for me at least its rude and disrespectful to do that.
I prefer and enjoy to be bred by him, so if he is close to cumming from oral, he will literally aggresively manhandle me from the oral positon into an anal position (massive turned on to be treated in this manner) and shove his dick into my arse and blow his load deep inside me, in some instances, its literally in the nick of time too, lol.
My fuckbuddy has never swallowed me. However, I do respect him for that and to be honest, I dont want him to ever do something he doesnt like or is reluctant and its not something I care about with MM sex. I normally will just rub one out after he has cummed inside me, while he spoons me when we rest or sleep together in bed. If however, I cum before he does, if he will either rub his cock with my cum and get me to suck on it and clean it up for him or he will use it as lube, which seems to work well for him as he often cums soon afterwards.
It’s unfortunately been a while but I generally like to swallow but sometimes I can’t take all of it and when that happens which I kind of love, the best situation is to lick it up with the guy who just shot
Always have swallowed and will continue love the feel and taste it gets me hard even thinking about it.
Might try a facial after he feeds me one load but I crave cum in my mouth every the time.
Might try a facial after he feeds me one load but I crave cum in my mouth every the time.
- bi2,
Loved your post, especially the dominance aspect about it.
My fuckbuddy and I have pretty clear boundaries in regards to the dominance and control, he has all of it and I am to be completely passive and subservient to his needs, the power dynamics and role plays works well for us. So he generally likes to blow his load deep inside me and breed me. Its like he is marking his territory and reminding me of what he completely owns and totally belongs to him, that is my arse. in effect treating me like a piece of property. His preference to breed me though is because after his blown his load down my hole, he will often get me to suck on his dick so that those last drops of cum come out so to speak. I feel privledged that he allows me to take the opportunity to care of him in this manner. Getting a few drops of cum is a rewarding experience.
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I had a guy dominate me a month ago or so... I suddenly found myself bent over and he was fucking me bareback... and i was loving it! He was the first guy to ever fuck me bareback, and the thought of his cum filling my ass was turning me on! I wanted his cum in me!
When he finally came hard inside me I had my hand ready for when he pulled out. I quickly caught what cum came dripping out of me and I licked it up. I then turned onto my knees and took his still stiff cock into my mouth and licked it clean. I was trying to milk every last drop out of him. I was sucking it like a man possessed and he finally had to stop me saying, "There was only one in there!" I wanted his cum so bad!
Fortunately for me he still was eager to use me. I picked out a big, thick dildo from a collection of his and he had me get on my back and pounded my hole some more with it. His cum was lube! He had me oozing from prostate orgasms! I felt like such an insatiable slut! He loved being in charge and having me be a submissive little slut!
I agree that if a guy wants to blow his load inside, that is ok. Whatever he wants. But I like facials because I imagine he can look down at me to see what he’s done with his alpha male libido, and anyone else who saw would know how well he owned me
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I love that I can bring someone to orgasm by using my mouth and I get a thrill out of tasting sexual fluids whether it’s from a man or a woman. Having a guy shoot his load down my throat is deeply satisfying.
Here's the thing though, what or how do you tell him that you'd like for him to swallow? There were three exes where I just didn't know how to bring it up:
1. I was dating someone who I wanted to tell before it got sexual, but I didn't want to scare him off.
2. I also wanted to tell someone well into the relationship, but I also felt it was too far in to mention.
3. In another case, I knew he didnt like to swallow (not a huge hate to it but just not preferred it), so I didnt want to force him even though I really wanted him to swallow.
Haha I wouldnt even know how to bring it up (pun intended).
1. I was dating someone who I wanted to tell before it got sexual, but I didn't want to scare him off.
2. I also wanted to tell someone well into the relationship, but I also felt it was too far in to mention.
3. In another case, I knew he didnt like to swallow (not a huge hate to it but just not preferred it), so I didnt want to force him even though I really wanted him to swallow.
Haha I wouldnt even know how to bring it up (pun intended).
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