Spit or swallow - what do you do and why?

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anon9999978 said:
It really depends. If I was choosing for myself I would prefer him to cum on my face. I like the dominance aspect of it - like he is marking his territory. It’s less intimate but (maybe for that reason) hotter in my opinion. But I often like to let him choose and if he wants to cum in my mouth or down my throat I’m fine with that too. Love to be with a verbal big dicked top who shoves it down my throat and tells me to take him cum. And I look up at him with his cock buried in my throat and I feel it pulsating while he shoots ropes directly into my stomach. It’s also fun to take the cum in my mouth and let it dribble out, like his massive load was too much to handle
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Oh man definitely this. I think i prefer it on my face or body, but no issue with swallowing and if thats what they want I will definitely do it. Sometimes though if I dont know what he is going to do i will be verbal about them cumming me. As you said I think its the dominance part of it.
 
abapl said:
Here's the thing though, what or how do you tell him that you'd like for him to swallow? There were three exes where I just didn't know how to bring it up:

1. I was dating someone who I wanted to tell before it got sexual, but I didn't want to scare him off.

2. I also wanted to tell someone well into the relationship, but I also felt it was too far in to mention.

3. In another case, I knew he didnt like to swallow (not a huge hate to it but just not preferred it), so I didnt want to force him even though I really wanted him to swallow.

Haha I wouldnt even know how to bring it up (pun intended).
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I wouldnt probably discuss it, just say it in the moment. If they dont want to they will then just tell you. As someone who is vocal during (love dirty talk etc) never had a problem with that. Just dont be a dick lol
 
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bd30 said:
Oh man definitely this. I think i prefer it on my face or body, but no issue with swallowing and if thats what they want I will definitely do it. Sometimes though if I dont know what he is going to do i will be verbal about them cumming me. As you said I think its the dominance part of it.
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I love to be verbal about it when I’m on my knees. “Please… give it to me… I want it… bless me with your seed” and that sort of thing.
 
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tinylatinsub said:
both but I love it more when they cum on my face, like someone said above, I feel more submissive while the top feels more dominant.
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I love being cummed on, face, chest etc but I love swallowing and licking it up, especially off their dick and I like it when a guy returns the favour and licks it off mine. I’m getting hard typing this.
 
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bi2 said:
Loved your post, especially the dominance aspect about it.

My fuckbuddy and I have pretty clear boundaries in regards to the dominance and control, he has all of it and I am to be completely passive and subservient to his needs, the power dynamics and role plays works well for us. So he generally likes to blow his load deep inside me and breed me. Its like he is marking his territory and reminding me of what he completely owns and totally belongs to him, that is my arse. in effect treating me like a piece of property. His preference to breed me though is because after his blown his load down my hole, he will often get me to suck on his dick so that those last drops of cum come out so to speak. I feel privledged that he allows me to take the opportunity to care of him in this manner. Getting a few drops of cum is a rewarding experience.
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I also agree with cleaning him up after he has cum in my ass. It’s such a subservient thing to do - to lick clean the cock that just penetrated you and made your body his plaything. I always want to clean him up as a thank you.
 
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anon9999978 said:
I also agree with cleaning him up after he has cum in my ass. It’s such a subservient thing to do - to lick clean the cock that just penetrated you and made your body his plaything. I always want to clean him up as a thank you.
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I was surprised how instinctively I did that the first time I was fucked bareback. I wanted his seed in me so bad. After he came I put my hand back to catch any cum that dripped out and licked it up.

Even though it was just in my ass I had no hesitation to put my mouth on his cock to lick him clean. I began milking his shaft and working him so hard it caught him off guard and he assured me he only had the one load for me. I felt so honored to receive cum.

I even fingered my ass to get more to lick up!

I was so horned up for more he was eager to give my ass more of a workout with some big dildos. He loved how much of a slut I was!
 
Even in my very first experience I was very much in a dom/sub situation and was told to swallow. I found I truly enjoyed following orders and swallowed every time for everyone from them on. Only once did I have a buddy that would recip, and he'd spit mine out... I wasn't displeased, but was certainly shocked. I remember thinking,"you can do that?!?"
 
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Cum is the most precious substance to a man. If he blesses me with it, be it in my mouth, ass, face, or anywhere else it is my honor and responsibility to take all of it and not spill a drop. It’s also the best lube. How dare there even be a debate: he is giving you his most cherished gift and it needs to be shown the required honor and respect.
 
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TylerB said:
I prefer to swallow, but, I've a massive fantasy of being in the centre of a blow bag and just being covered in cum - sorry if that is over sharing, lol.
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I have the same fantasy! I need enough guys to fill my insides and outsides in cum... mouth, belly, ass filled ...and my body entirely covered in it!
 
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Scott8361 said:
I have the same fantasy! I need enough guys to fill my insides and outsides in cum... mouth, belly, ass filled ...and my body entirely covered in it!
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I would love to feel someone cum in my ass. But my situation does not allow that to happen. So it's condom only. But for oral..? Always swallow (after a quick dick inspection). ;)
 
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