Wondering if anyone else here was teased due to the size of their package?
A little background. I faced both sides of the extreme. Before puberty, I was kind of small. I had undescended testicles as an infant and underwent corrective surgery for the condition. The doctors had informed my parents that either everything would turn out OK or I'd be sterile/unable to conceive.
During my teens, nothing was happening. All my other classmates were growing like weeds and experiencing puberty--me--you guessed it--zilch! As a result of course, kids teased me. "When are you going to change?", "What, are you like 12?", "You call that a cock?" etc. Of course I was miserable. This continued until the summer of '82. I finally went through puberty. Actually, it felt like I rocketed through puberty. It's like I went to bed one night and awoke the next completely changed. I went from a really small penis to my current 8" plus. I was a little freaked out by the rapidity of the change and the new size of my penis. Doctors told me everything was normal, I was just large.
When school started, I thought things would be OK--hey after all, I finally went through puberty. Yeah right! First thing I remember was having to change for gym and everyone pointing at me because now I was "huge." One kid came up with the brilliant new nickname "Donkey Dong" after the song Donkey Kong. Things couldn't get better. I now had new taunts--"It's a wonder he can walk without falling over." "Wait, don't close the door, "Dick" is "cumming!" you get the point.
Being shy and very self conscious, this bothered me a great deal. It's taken quite a while to deal with the embarrassment. I'm just wondering if any other people have had similar experiences and what did you do to deal with/overcome them? I appreciate any help. Thanks.
BigSki
I usually tell my gfs not to tease about a guy's size. It's like the equivalent of teasing a girl about her breast size. Then again, I've never had size as a priority with sex in real life. Glad you 'blossomed' though. lol Not sure if this was answered already, but I'm assuming the sudden growth spurt meant everything in your package works fine? Or were there still issues of sterility and such?
Unless you're getting naked for them or drinking with them in your speedos, why the hell would they make comments about your dick size?I am a grower not a shower and sometimes if the ladies are a little too drunk, and horny. I'll get comments like "I feel sorry for your gf or wife". well, there are a still a few ladies around who I fucked before getting married, and can attest to my size. one night, a comment like above was made and a former lover heard it. she told'em my wife was a very lucky woman, she got a nice guy with a big cock to fuck her every night. "oh, what do you know?" the gals said. she just told them she used to slept with me.
There was a song "Donkey Kong"? I thought that was just a video game.
Your not alone Ski - a lot of us were teased. Kids can be cruel. I always tended toward the large. My parents didn't 'tease' me, but I knew/and heard them laughing between themselves about how big I was ...In high school, all I could do was wear jock straps, tight underwear, and loose pants. Gym was tough, gym pants never ever loose enough and showers. No way to hide anything there. I was THIN so it was readily apparent. All I could do was ignore the tease and ignore the guys doing the teasing.
As an adult, I try to minimize, but if it shows, it shows and so be it.
Hey BigSki,
I was a late bloomer also. My growth spurt did not begin until my senior year in high school. I am shy and this compounded self esteem problems. My drivers education was delayed one year because I was too short to reach the accelerator and the brake pedal with the seat positioned as far forward as possible. Almost all of my growth took place within an 18 month period. I shot up from 4'8" to 5'8" in a little under two years. My classmates did not tease or torture me during my prepubescent years. I had other interests while I was a student so I did not find it necessary to seek out friendships with who were lightyears ahead of me. I would say now, Ski, that you have had the last laugh!
Hey man, experienced the the same thing. Entered 9th grade just starting puberty. My erect cock was an embarressing 4" and smaller in girth than lenght, no balls to even speak of, a few sprouts of pubic hair. It was the worst year of my life! I was teased mercilessly in the locker room. Then over the next summer, bam! My cock grew to it's present 8 x 6, with nice size balls, and hairy as all get out. Chest hair sprouted along with that wonderful treasure trail down to my now ample package! Flaccid I hung at a respectable 4 thick inches. I now filled out my briefs showing a nice vpl! I couldn't to get to school as a sophmore and show those jocks what a man's cock looked like. First day back in the locker room the teasing started but eruptly stopped when I removed my very loose slacks. I wore my tightest pair of white briefs and my bulge took them all by suprise! They accused me of stuffing my briefs so I dropped them and I was sporting a semi and so it looked rather impressive. They thought I was erect and I said oh no guys, you've seen nothing yet! Without even stroking my cock I was so full of hormonal rage my cock grew to its veiny 8 throbbing inches. Well that shut their small dicked asses up for good! I have not been teased again and I'm not shy at all. I'll drop my briefs in front of anybody with pride!
I've been teased and rejected because of my 'smaller' hands and feet (size 9) from women. Teased by friends and rejected by women. Do I worry about it? No. Why? Because it's not in the superficial. If people 'judge' me for my outward shortcomings that is their loss. Everyone has something they don't like about themselves. You can't base/ judge someone off of a stupid 'myth'. I know what I have between my legs and I've never really been one to brag or flaunt it because then I would be like the superficial people I dislike. Sadly, being teased in h.s. and college for people is part of life. Unfortunately, most people never grow past that. So, just grow beyond their comments and jealousy and enjoy life for what it is...life.