Teased due to size?

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I was teased in High School because someone spread a rumor saying I was small, and ppl messed with me about it. It sucked...
 
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Wondering if anyone else here was teased due to the size of their package?

A little background. I faced both sides of the extreme. Before puberty, I was kind of small. I had undescended testicles as an infant and underwent corrective surgery for the condition. The doctors had informed my parents that either everything would turn out OK or I'd be sterile/unable to conceive.

During my teens, nothing was happening. All my other classmates were growing like weeds and experiencing puberty--me--you guessed it--zilch! As a result of course, kids teased me. "When are you going to change?", "What, are you like 12?", "You call that a cock?" etc. Of course I was miserable. This continued until the summer of '82. I finally went through puberty. Actually, it felt like I rocketed through puberty. It's like I went to bed one night and awoke the next completely changed. I went from a really small penis to my current 8" plus. I was a little freaked out by the rapidity of the change and the new size of my penis. Doctors told me everything was normal, I was just large.

When school started, I thought things would be OK--hey after all, I finally went through puberty. Yeah right! First thing I remember was having to change for gym and everyone pointing at me because now I was "huge." One kid came up with the brilliant new nickname "Donkey Dong" after the song Donkey Kong. Things couldn't get better. I now had new taunts--"It's a wonder he can walk without falling over." "Wait, don't close the door, "Dick" is "cumming!" you get the point.

Being shy and very self conscious, this bothered me a great deal. It's taken quite a while to deal with the embarrassment. I'm just wondering if any other people have had similar experiences and what did you do to deal with/overcome them? I appreciate any help. Thanks.

BigSki



I usually tell my gfs not to tease about a guy's size. It's like the equivalent of teasing a girl about her breast size. Then again, I've never had size as a priority with sex in real life. Glad you 'blossomed' though. lol Not sure if this was answered already, but I'm assuming the sudden growth spurt meant everything in your package works fine? Or were there still issues of sterility and such?
 

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i was teased by one of my classmates when i was about 12. there was a guy called simon pissing at the urinal next to me. he starred at me and shouted,'what a small penis and long foreskin'.... i was so embarrassed. i hit puberty very late at around 13-14. i had a rather small penis at that time and due to the small size, it made my foreskin look a bit long.
 

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Actually, when the girls in my group of friends from back home during college started to find out how big I was from some of the girls I had slept with I was actually confronted by one of them and her friend about how big I was.

I actually thought about how one of my other friends was labeled as having a big dick and I really didn't want to deal with it. I lied and said I was 6". It was the only girl I've lied to about it and lied about being smaller than I really am.

I just didn't want to have to put up with the label of "The guy with the big cock" with my friends. It worked for about 4 or 5 years, but you can't have sex with your friends and expect them not to talk to each other.
 

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M:

Glad to hear that you advise your gfs not to tease. I think guys can be more difficult, because they think they have something to prove.

Yeah, after a lot of testing, the doctors told me everything was working fine. I've been given a clean bill of health, so I really have nothing
to gripe about. I guess my main point is to alert people to the negativity of teasing and the damage it can cause.

Thanks again for the positive comments!

BigSki
I usually tell my gfs not to tease about a guy's size. It's like the equivalent of teasing a girl about her breast size. Then again, I've never had size as a priority with sex in real life. Glad you 'blossomed' though. lol Not sure if this was answered already, but I'm assuming the sudden growth spurt meant everything in your package works fine? Or were there still issues of sterility and such?
 

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I am a grower not a shower and sometimes if the ladies are a little too drunk, and horny. I'll get comments like "I feel sorry for your gf or wife". well, there are a still a few ladies around who I fucked before getting married, and can attest to my size. one night, a comment like above was made and a former lover heard it. she told'em my wife was a very lucky woman, she got a nice guy with a big cock to fuck her every night. "oh, what do you know?" the gals said. she just told them she used to slept with me.
Unless you're getting naked for them or drinking with them in your speedos, why the hell would they make comments about your dick size?
 

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Your not alone Ski - a lot of us were teased. Kids can be cruel. I always tended toward the large. My parents didn't 'tease' me, but I knew/and heard them laughing between themselves about how big I was ...In high school, all I could do was wear jock straps, tight underwear, and loose pants. Gym was tough, gym pants never ever loose enough and showers. No way to hide anything there. I was THIN so it was readily apparent. All I could do was ignore the tease and ignore the guys doing the teasing.

As an adult, I try to minimize, but if it shows, it shows and so be it.

It's a good attitude J, but it took me a long time to develop it. Thanks for the support!
 

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Hey BigSki,

I was a late bloomer also. My growth spurt did not begin until my senior year in high school. I am shy and this compounded self esteem problems. My drivers education was delayed one year because I was too short to reach the accelerator and the brake pedal with the seat positioned as far forward as possible. Almost all of my growth took place within an 18 month period. I shot up from 4'8" to 5'8" in a little under two years. My classmates did not tease or torture me during my prepubescent years. I had other interests while I was a student so I did not find it necessary to seek out friendships with who were lightyears ahead of me. I would say now, Ski, that you have had the last laugh!
 

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Hey BigSki,

I was a late bloomer also. My growth spurt did not begin until my senior year in high school. I am shy and this compounded self esteem problems. My drivers education was delayed one year because I was too short to reach the accelerator and the brake pedal with the seat positioned as far forward as possible. Almost all of my growth took place within an 18 month period. I shot up from 4'8" to 5'8" in a little under two years. My classmates did not tease or torture me during my prepubescent years. I had other interests while I was a student so I did not find it necessary to seek out friendships with who were lightyears ahead of me. I would say now, Ski, that you have had the last laugh!

Hey D--It's amazing how many people here had similar experiences. As you can tell, I had a bit of a rough time, but thankfully have gotten through it. I only hope that when people read what I went through, they try to do what they can to prevent it from happening to someone else. Thanks again for the positive feedback. Take care!!

BigSki
 

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Hey man, experienced the the same thing. Entered 9th grade just starting puberty. My erect cock was an embarressing 4" and smaller in girth than lenght, no balls to even speak of, a few sprouts of pubic hair. It was the worst year of my life! I was teased mercilessly in the locker room. Then over the next summer, bam! My cock grew to it's present 8 x 6, with nice size balls, and hairy as all get out. Chest hair sprouted along with that wonderful treasure trail down to my now ample package! Flaccid I hung at a respectable 4 thick inches. I now filled out my briefs showing a nice vpl! I couldn't to get to school as a sophmore and show those jocks what a man's cock looked like. First day back in the locker room the teasing started but eruptly stopped when I removed my very loose slacks. I wore my tightest pair of white briefs and my bulge took them all by suprise! They accused me of stuffing my briefs so I dropped them and I was sporting a semi and so it looked rather impressive. They thought I was erect and I said oh no guys, you've seen nothing yet! Without even stroking my cock I was so full of hormonal rage my cock grew to its veiny 8 throbbing inches. Well that shut their small dicked asses up for good! I have not been teased again and I'm not shy at all. I'll drop my briefs in front of anybody with pride!

Hey freuda: Have to say I was never that confident to show off against the kids who teased me. I've always been shy and happy to keep a low profile.
 

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I've been teased and rejected because of my 'smaller' hands and feet (size 9) from women. Teased by friends and rejected by women. Do I worry about it? No. Why? Because it's not in the superficial. If people 'judge' me for my outward shortcomings that is their loss. Everyone has something they don't like about themselves. You can't base/ judge someone off of a stupid 'myth'. I know what I have between my legs and I've never really been one to brag or flaunt it because then I would be like the superficial people I dislike. Sadly, being teased in h.s. and college for people is part of life. Unfortunately, most people never grow past that. So, just grow beyond their comments and jealousy and enjoy life for what it is...life.

Hey Big:

Good comments and advice. Thx for the post!

BigSki