The Injustice Of Having A Tiny Dick

[deleted955030]

Yes, also means inclusive of. You speak English?

No, I said what I meant. You noted that you not liking a small dick doesnt exclude others from like a small dick. And im saying just because you do not like a small dick does not mean than it includes, or is inclusive of, everybody else feeling the same way.

In other terms, you not liking a small dick has no influence on whether others like a small dick or not, neither excluisve or inclusive of as a direct result of your dislike of a small penis.

 

[deleted1138933]

My point is you don't find it desirable, so you would never believe anybody else would find it so unless there was a grand gesture to show the same. You arent vying for any one person that finds it desirable. You feel that an accessible group of likeminded people that you know must exist for you to find having a small dick to be desirable. And thats your prerogative.

No it is not. It is just a fact. So where are these you state find small dicks the ultimate desirable trait. I am still waiting.

 

[deleted1138933]

No, I said what I meant. You noted that you not liking a small dick doesnt exclude others from like a small dick. And im saying just because you do not like a small dick does not mean than it includes, or is inclusive of, everybody else feeling the same way.

In other terms, you not liking a small dick has no influence on whether others like a small dick or not, neither excluisve or inclusive of as a direct result of your dislike of a small penis.

I am saying nobody does. Point them out

 

[deleted955030]

No it is not. It is just a fact. So where are these you state find small dicks the ultimate desirable trait. I am still waiting.

And here, yet again, you are with extreme polarity in your thought process you refuse to acknowledge. Earlier, you harped on my statement - a reflection on one reason why some men may not like someone being attracted exclusively to them based on their penis size, by responding with, "No one is not talking about having to be the biggest, only not small," which was actually beside the point in the context in which it was brought up.

But, that noted, an implication of your statement was that it is not a competition. However, now, you are talking about somebody, well people, finding smalls dicks to be of the "ultimate desirable trait," which in fact, they were in Rome, even if only within the context of social status. Secondly, I never said they were the "ultimate desirable trait," and in that same frame, a big dick is not the "ultimate desirable trait" to WOMEN; it is, without argument, to MEN, however.

Your statements and general demeanor thus far imply that you do not simply want someone to find a small dick desirable, you want them to find it to be of the the ultimate desirability to the EXCLUSION OF other sized dicks. It is not enough for you that someone likes a small and average sized dick because YOUR dislike of a small dick is such that both cannot exist without a higher premium being placed on the average size dick, in your mind. It is a case of someone wanting to be the best for having been made to feel like the worse.

At the end of the day, unless there is an undeniable popularity for small dicks where you feel like you are in the "in-crowd," with an overabundance of attention and desire, it won't do anything to appease or validate you at all, which is the reason I feel there is no point in my continuing with this convo with you. You take anecdotal evidence of things as "facts" though they have not been proven - a matter of objectivity, not subjectivity. You refuse to acknowledge the gaps you make in leaps and bounds from assumption to proof. Even if somebody were to come on this thread and announce what you request - rejecting big dicks and stating small dicks were of ultimate persuasion, it wouldn't make you feel better nor would YOU believe them, because you are operating within trauma.

Regardless, I hope the best for you. Maybe one day you will stop disliking small dicks. Who knows. Its highly improbable if you continue to allow your desire to be vindicated for the rude things people have said/do say/have done/do cause you to choose to continue to dislike your dick and small dicks in general. But I am out as I know nothing I say as an individual to you will matter to or make a difference for you.

 

[deleted1138933]

And here, yet again, you are with extreme polarity in your thought process you refuse to acknowledge. Earlier, you harped on my statement - a reflection on one reason why some men may not like someone being attracted exclusively to them based on their penis size, by responding with, "No one is not talking about having to be the biggest, only not small," which was actually beside the point in the context in which it was brought up.

But, that noted, an implication of your statement was that it is not a competition. However, now, you are talking about somebody, well people, finding smalls dicks to be of the "ultimate desirable trait," which in fact, they were in Rome, even if only within the context of social status. Secondly, I never said they were the "ultimate desirable trait," and in that same frame, a big dick is not the "ultimate desirable trait" to WOMEN; it is, without argument, to MEN, however.

Your statements and general demeanor thus far imply that you do not simply want someone to find a small dick desirable, you want them to find it to be of the the ultimate desirability to the EXCLUSION OF other sized dicks. It is not enough for you that someone likes a small and average sized dick because YOUR dislike of a small dick is such that both cannot exist without a higher premium being placed on the average size dick, in your mind. It is a case of someone wanting to be the best for having been made to feel like the worse.

At the end of the day, unless there is an undeniable popularity for small dicks where you feel like you are in the "in-crowd," with an overabundance of attention and desire, it won't do anything to appease or validate you at all, which is the reason I feel there is no point in my continuing with this convo with you. You take anecdotal evidence of things as "facts" though they have not been proven - a matter of objectivity, not subjectivity. You refuse to acknowledge the gaps you make in leaps and bounds from assumption to proof. Even if somebody were to come on this thread and announce what you request - rejecting big dicks and stating small dicks were of ultimate persuasion, it wouldn't make you feel better nor would YOU believe them, because you are operating within trauma.

Regardless, I hope the best for you. Maybe one day you will stop disliking small dicks. Who knows. Its highly improbable if you continue to allow your desire to be vindicated for the rude things people have said/do say/have done/do cause you to choose to continue to dislike your dick and small dicks in general. But I am out as I know nothing I say as an individual to you will matter to or make a difference for you.

It is not BESIDE THE POINT. It is THE point. Nothing good about being small. No woman desires it. You have not been able to prove that any do. The thread is not about having to be the biggest, it is about being small. You do not know. You do not live it. You have no basis to speak.

In Rome, small penises were never the ultimate desirable sexual trait: it was the antithesis of it. And to women it is, even if you or anybody pretend to deny it, if woman can have their ideal physical mate, none will want a guy with a small dick. Granted there may be other varying traits as well in height weight hair etc., but regardless it will NOT INCLUDE A SMALL DICK. So your argument there is flawed.

Women find big dicks highly desirable and idealized, so yes it would have to be equivalent on the other spectrum, otherwise they are just settling, not desiring in the same way. It is not MY dislike of anything, I have to live with it, you don’t. Now you are bringing in average (do you mean medium?) it is not the same as small.

You are ending this convo because you have no valid point or argument. I at lest have anecdotal experience (which are real and factual examples). You cannot even provide that on the other spectrum.

Check out the thread on Best reaction to your size for the first time (legal age only). That is desire, Do you think there is an actual equivalent for guys with small dicks?

And you still have not answered in all honesty, would you yourself want and desire to be small?

 

[deleted955030]

In Rome, small penises were never the ultimate desirable sexual trait: it was the antithesis of it. And to women it is, even if you or anybody pretend to deny it, if woman can have their ideal physical mate, none will want a guy with a small dick. Granted there may be other varying traits as well in height weight hair etc., but regardless it will NOT INCLUDE A SMALL DICK. So your argument there is flawed.

And you still have not answered in all honesty, would you yourself want and desire to be small?

No, I am ending the conversation because there is no point going forward. My arguments, acknowledgements, and even secondhand anecdotal evidence that would show otherwise - not that you would believe any of it anyways because my dick would not be considered small, still and always will mean nothing to you; but believe as you will. There is no point in having a conversation with somebody when they wont believe you.

Desirability of dick size has EVERYTHING to do with social context whether you believe it or not. In Rome or Asian culture, I would not want a big dick, not that you'd believe that either. I hadn't answered your question because dick size triumphs everything for you, so anything that does not directly vindicate or reaffirm your feelings on the matter will again, do nothing for you. But again, believe as you will.

Have a good night.

 

[El90]

It is not BESIDE THE POINT. It is THE point. Nothing good about being small. No woman desires it. You have not been able to prove that any do. The thread is not about having to be the biggest, it is about being small. You do not know. You do not live it. You have no basis to speak.

In Rome, small penises were never the ultimate desirable sexual trait: it was the antithesis of it. And to women it is, even if you or anybody pretend to deny it, if woman can have their ideal physical mate, none will want a guy with a small dick. Granted there may be other varying traits as well in height weight hair etc., but regardless it will NOT INCLUDE A SMALL DICK. So your argument there is flawed.

Women find big dicks highly desirable and idealized, so yes it would have to be equivalent on the other spectrum, otherwise they are just settling, not desiring in the same way. It is not MY dislike of anything, I have to live with it, you don’t. Now you are bringing in average (do you mean medium?) it is not the same as small.

You are ending this convo because you have no valid point or argument. I at lest have anecdotal experience (which are real and factual examples). You cannot even provide that on the other spectrum.

Check out the thread on Best reaction to your size for the first time (legal age only). That is desire, Do you think there is an actual equivalent for guys with small dicks?

And you still have not answered in all honesty, would you yourself want and desire to be small?

This sounds like some incel shit

 

[chesticles55]

No, I am ending the conversation because there is no point going forward. My arguments, acknowledgements, and even secondhand anecdotal evidence that would show otherwise - not that you would believe any of it anyways because my dick would not be considered small, still and always will mean nothing to you; but believe as you will. There is no point in having a conversation with somebody when they wont believe you.

Desirability of dick size has everything to do with social context whether you believe it or not. In Rome or Asian culture, I would not want a big dick, not that you'd believe that either. I hadn't answered your question because dick size triumphs everything for you, so anything that does not directly vindicate or reaffirm your feelings on the matter will again, do nothing for you. But again, believe as you will.

Have a good night.

Your arguments sound like a lot of virtue signalling quite honestly. Yes, the cold truth is it blows to have a tiny dick. Just like it blows to be a 5 foot tall man, a heavily overweight woman, or have an extremely unattractive face. Life is brutally unfair, what else is new?

 

[deleted1138933]

No, I am ending the conversation because there is no point going forward. My arguments, acknowledgements, and even secondhand anecdotal evidence that would show otherwise - not that you would believe any of it anyways because my dick would not be considered small, still and always will mean nothing to you; but believe as you will. There is no point in having a conversation with somebody when they wont believe you.

Desirability of dick size has everything to do with social context whether you believe it or not. In Rome or Asian culture, I would not want a big dick, not that you'd believe that either. I hadn't answered your question because dick size triumphs everything for you, so anything that does not directly vindicate or reaffirm your feelings on the matter will again, do nothing for you. But again, believe as you will.

Have a good night.

You have no valid arguments or evidence, nor provided even anecdotal facts as examples. Desirability has nothing to do with social context and culture. Desirability is primal, instinctive, hard-wired. In Rome, the physical sexual desirability was for big penises. The small ones were the antithesis of wanton desire and primal lust. So you do admit that you would not want a small dick. Yeah, I figured. The fact that you will not say it, says it.

 

[deleted955030]

Your arguments sound like a lot of virtue signalling quite honestly. Yes, the cold truth is it blows to have a tiny dick. Just like it blows to be a 5 foot tall man, a heavily overweight woman, or have an extremely unattractive face. Life is brutally unfair, what else is new?

Yes, the cold truth is it blows to have a tiny dick IN THIS SOCIETY! While you think it blows to be a 5 foot tall man, I would love to be dominated by an average sized dwarf/little man. I honestly don't care if you or he thinks my character is of morale correctness, or that I am attempting to do so.

 

[deleted1138933]

This sounds like some incel shit

Yeah, because it is great to be small?

 

[deleted1138933]

Yes, the cold truth is it blows to have a tiny dick IN THIS SOCIETY! While you think it blows to be a 5 foot tall man, I would love to be dominated by an average sized dwarf/little man. I honestly don't care if you or he thinks my character is of morale correctness, or that I am attempting to do so.

Or in any society

 

[deleted955030]

You have no valid arguments or evidence, nor provided even anecdotal facts as examples. Desirability has nothing to do with social context and culture. Desirability is primal, instinctive, hard-wired. In Rome, the physical sexual desirability was for big penises. The small ones were the antithesis of wanton desire and primal lust. So you do admit that you would not want a small dick. Yeah, I figured. The fact that you will not say it, says it.

And yet that statement still does not speak of anything with Asian culture. Are small dicks the antithesis of wanton desire and primal lust in Asian cultures? Again, believe what you want. In fact there are studies that show the increase of penis size is bad as an evolutionary thing, so no, I do not agree that it is a primal as you would like to think it is. And if it were, it could in fact be to the extinction of the human race. How is desirability not a SOCIAL thing? My gawd. You just noted wanted to be desired for your dick by others and that's somehow excluded outside of a social parameter.

 

[chesticles55]

Yes, the cold truth is it blows to have a tiny dick IN THIS SOCIETY! While you think it blows to be a 5 foot tall man, I would love to be dominated by an average sized dwarf/little man. I honestly don't care if you or he thinks my character is of morale correctness, or that I am attempting to do so.

Well “this society” is where we live. So what’s your point? Because some ancient societies might have not idealized larger dicks, it holds some sort of relevance today? Bottom line is having a small dick sucks, just like being a short man, overweight woman, ugly/deformed person or being born into a poor family. Gaslighting and ignoring the struggles of people with these afflictions is extreme immaturity. Not interested in a back-and-forth, but I can’t stand when I see gaslighting like this.

 

[deleted1138933]

And yet that statement still does not speak of anything with Asian culture. Are small dicks the antithesis of wanton desire and primal lust in Asian cultures? Again, believe what you want. In fact there are studies that show the increase of penis size is bad as an evolutionary thing, so no, I do not agree that it is a primal as you would like to think it is. And if it were, it could in fact be to the extinction of the human race.

Yes it does speak volumes of Asian culture where big dicks are also the desired ideal. What does being bad for evolution have anything to do with desire? Desire does not work that way.

 

[deleted955030]

Yes it does speak volumes of Asian culture where big dicks are also the desired ideal. What does being bad for evolution have anything to do with desire? Desire does not work that way.

Show me where "big dicks" are the ideal in Asian culture

 

[deleted955030]

Well “this society” is where we live. So what’s your point? Because some ancient societies might have not idealized larger dicks, it holds some sort of relevance today? Bottom line is having a small dick sucks, just like being a short man, overweight woman, ugly/deformed person or being born into a poor family. Gaslighting and ignoring the struggles of people with these afflictions is extreme immaturity. Not interested in a back-and-forth, but I can’t stand when I see gaslighting like this.

Because he wants to make it out as a universally accepted thing. And whereas, yes it sucks - nobody on this thread has implied or said that it doesn't suck to include myself, having a small dick is not AFFLICTION in and of itself. Its the perception and everything else that comes with it in context. But not going to go back and forward with you on that either. I am not trying to make him question his insanity, because by large it is generally accepted that a majority don't like small dicks, nor did I even imply that this wasn't the case. There isn't a big group of people who like small dicks to the exclusion of all other sized dick, but that doesn't mean there also none that do was my point, has always been my point. Accepted or not, it can be left right there.

 

[deleted1138933]

Show me where "big dicks" are the ideal in Asian culture

You are the one trying to prove it, show me where it is not.

 

[deleted1138933]

Because he wants to make it out as a universally accepted thing. And whereas, yes it sucks - nobody on this thread has implied or said that it doesn't suck to include myself, having a small dick is not AFFLICTION in and of itself. Its the perception and everything else that comes with it in context. But not going to go back and forward with you on that either. I am not trying to make him question his insanity, because by large it is generally accepted that a majority don't like small dicks, nor did I even imply that this wasn't the case. There isn't a big group of people who like small dicks to the exclusion of all other sized dick, but that doesn't mean there also none that do was my point, has always been my point. Accepted or not, it can be left right there.

It is a universal primal desire. And it is a affliction in and of itself. There is nothing inherently good about it. So show me where are these groups.

 

[Ua23]

I just LOVE when bigger guys tell me I'm average or I'd be a good bottom. How condescending is it that these bigger guys think they can tell me how I should feel or how I should behave once they see my cock. Nobody says to them "Oh you'd be a good bottom" if they have a huge cock. The truth is my cock is about the smallest I've ever seen. 4.5 inches is NOT average and it is so ridiculous that these 7 and eight inch guys try to tell me that it is. While at the SAME TIME basicallyView attachment 31095471 View attachment 31095471 View attachment 31095471 ignoring me on GRINDR or any sex app or rejecting me after they sleep with me. But "oh it's fine - you're average" - FUCK YOU. It does make me mad. I've been with probably over 100 guys and i've been with ONE - ONEEEEEE guy who was smaller than me. That puts me in the very bottom of cock size. So you try having a dick like mine for a day and see how you feel when guys tell you "oh you're average" and then won't pay any attention to you after they see it. You big cock guys just try it for a day. It isn't fair and you big cock guys don't make it better by trying to say "Oh it's cute" or "oh i'd suck it" when you really wouldn't. So yeah. It isn't fair to be gay with a 4.5 inch dick. It just isn't!

I guess I'm lucky I'm a total bottom. I've never been ashamed of having a smaller cock. But definitely conscious of it. I'm under 5 when completely hard. I tried topping a few times and just didn't really enjoy it.

I don't think you should feel negative towards yourself about this. You should feel sorry for the size queens who lose out on getting to know you.