Thick dick guys, did she adapt to it or never a problem ?

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Unicorn question for straight guys with a big dick, especially huge girth. If your GF or wife can take your dick with no problem, did she adapt to your size or was it never a problem?

My wife had previously been with only 3 guys and all were average size. The first time we had sex, I was concerned about my girth. To my amazement, she barely had problem with it. Plus we are actually able to have quickies. She's a size queen now.
 
My current wife struggled a little in the early days of our relationship but she's a true trooper and adapted well. My first wife never really adapted and always had a hard time during sex, she always claimed it would be ok before we married but after we married she increasingly avoided sex saying it was far too painful for her, there was too much wrong with that marriage including the sex and her inability to comprise with me having other partners for sex and ultimately that's why I finished it.
 
I'm not hung (6" fully hard) so my wife of 46 years never had a problem adapting to it. However, now in our late 60s, PIV sex is not comfortable for her. It seems that she has lost a lot of elasticity and no amount of lube really make it very enjoyable for her. She does take me in her pussy from time-to-time but our sex play is mostly oral and handjobs for me and fingering and vibrators on the clit for her.
 
In my experience, girth is only a problem getting it in sometimes. I pretty much always have to lube the head up well with spit to get in.
The real problem is length. Girth is not an issue once you get going, she gets into it etc.
Length can be, especially doggy style. You can and will hit her cervix if you fully thrust. And that hurts them.
 
Agree...pussy is not an issue...anal with lube never gets used to it...always soreness
never been able to fuck girls up the ass constantly. I got lucky a couple of times but it was an exception
 
So, just because a woman gives birth doesn't correlate with pleasurable sex. Let's leave that analogy out of the equation and discussion.

Let's acknowledge that there is no uniform, height, breast size, smile, shoe size, vagina size, penis size, or anything. Some girls have tiny vaginas in depth and width and every iteration possible.

With that said, most all can accommodate a 7"+ girth.

Some of the KEYS are lube, lube, lube. Did I mention "lube"?

Excitement and passion are highly important.

A relaxed girl is VERY different from a tense one. Your job is to make her relaxed so she opens up like a flower. Everything changes when they reach the state of full relaxation.

For whatever it's worth, the best position to connect and get her to open up is missionary.

To the question - I've only had a handful of women who could easily take me from the start.
 
Pretty much Ditto on what magnum,mikehung, paget54,iamme have said.
One lady told me I may have given birth to a couple of large babies but it wasn't pleasant and it's not like you are sliding kids out every day.
Women like men come in different sizes FOR Sure!
Some Women can take anything or try anything and then go big or go home is them.
Others let's say Lube by the case and on hand is a must when you have girth.
In my experience carry it with condoms and don't even ask or hesitate just lube up. This is especially for ladies after child birth and/or medical conditions.

The main question is a few have but still require lube and time and warming the engine!
Others NOPE! Which led them looking and fucking elsewhere. Ending the relationship.
 
So, just because a woman gives birth doesn't correlate with pleasurable sex. Let's leave that analogy out of the equation and discussion.

Let's acknowledge that there is no uniform, height, breast size, smile, shoe size, vagina size, penis size, or anything. Some girls have tiny vaginas in depth and width and every iteration possible.

With that said, most all can accommodate a 7"+ girth.
I have a 6 inch girth and I'm the thickest most of the women I've been with have ever had. A 6 inch girth is already in the 99th percentile, so those that are larger may have an issue with penetration, buth the there's always ....
Some of the KEYS are lube, lube, lube. Did I mention "lube"?
I learned very quickly with my first girlfriend (18+) that even though she got wet very easily and quickly, lube was always going to part of our sex together. Many decades later, lube is still an essential part of ensuring that I'm able to easily penetrate every single time.
Excitement and passion are highly important.

A relaxed girl is VERY different from a tense one. Your job is to make her relaxed so she opens up like a flower. Everything changes when they reach the state of full relaxation.

For whatever it's worth, the best position to connect and get her to open up is missionary.

To the question - I've only had a handful of women who could easily take me from the start.
Every woman has been able to take me all the way in, with or without lube (lube helps a lot!!!) I may have to insert an inch or so, slightly withdraw, insert a little bit more, slightly withdraw, etc until I'm all the way in, but I've always been able to go balls deep in every woman I've been with!

With my wife, I lube up (Wet Platinum is our favorite) and I am able to go fully inside her on the first stroke 99% of the time. When we met she wasn't so sure, but she was up for it! We just made sure lube was available and everything worked out!
 
I am in full agreement with all here. I do want to say lube is your best friend but I will tell you at my age even using lube last year I ripped my wife internally! Did not mean to but at 70 her skin is just not elastic as it used to be,
 
They will adapt, or they walk. My wife has a medium to large sized frame, and is about 155 lb, and muscular. There doesn't seem to be any real corollary between a woman's size and her vagaina. I have had petite, skinny woman who could take all of me, and larger women who simply could not.

My wife loves my big cock and orgasms hard every time we have sex unless there is some serious hormonal or emotional issues at hand.

I am over 7 1/2" in girth, (8" long) so we use varieties of Pjur silicone based lubes. We average about 2 1/2 to 3 days between sex, and only have vaginal sex now.

Before sex, I have my wife "fluff" for at least 15 minutes with her favorite porn, then I rub, gently slap and tease her clit with my glans until she is fully dilated.

After over 5 years, it still takes some time to move the lube throughput her vaginal canal, and get myself fully inside her.

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I am in full agreement with all here. I do want to say lube is your best friend but I will tell you at my age even using lube last year I ripped my wife internally! Did not mean to but at 70 her skin is just not elastic as it used to be,
Even the young'uns can tear when you have serious girth, lube all the way.
 
Excellent thread and agree completely! Lube is a MUST.
Especially as you get with ladies of age and or medical problems like a hysterectomy!
I put together a small travel sex kit, that way it's always with me easier to get to vehicle than a store depending on location and it time if day/night!