Think I Regret Letting My Wife Try A Huge Dick

You know you're letting your mind and your emotions get the better of you right?

Consider it as a lesson learned. Get her the dildo and get yourself a cock ring. It'll make your cock thicker and feel better for her too.
While giving you the satisfaction of knowing you're the one making her cum on your dick.

how safe is a cock ring? have you ever had any issues? about how much more girth does it add to your dick, around 0.25?
 
Yeah I mean I guess I did. I still don’t know if I fully regret it or not. On one hand I am feeling jealous and insecure on the other hand our sex life has been better since. Can only wonder if she’s always thinking about him though

From my experience, cuckold relationships only work successfully when the husband can set aside his ego and insecurity, and focus on his wife's pleasure. You said that you have a good marriage, and her experiences with him have improved your sex life together. You can't put the genie back into the bottle, so my suggestion is that you not try to compete with him, but to let her enjoy herself with him, and you enjoy getting to watch and make love with her afterwards.
 
From my experience, cuckold relationships only work successfully when the husband can set aside his ego and insecurity, and focus on his wife's pleasure. You said that you have a good marriage, and her experiences with him have improved your sex life together. You can't put the genie back into the bottle, so my suggestion is that you not try to compete with him, but to let her enjoy herself with him, and you enjoy getting to watch and make love with her afterwards.


That only works if he's into sph. Somehow I get the impression that he is not. Until I joined this site I never heard of sph and I doubt that he from what he's said isn't small.
 
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how safe is a cock ring? have you ever had any issues? about how much more girth does it add to your dick, around 0.25?

As far as I know cock rings are safe. But I'm sure there are men here with more experience on using a cock ring than I have. You'll need to find one that fits comfortably and snugly on to your limp cock. The idea of the cock ring is to keep more blood flowing in less blood flowing out of the cock. Causing it to become more engorged. Hope that helps.
 
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That's what can happen when you try these things without thinking it through properly bruh, I've been on the swing scene for years and got my wife into it too when we met. We always meet couples first to discuss and explain as much we can the dangers of the lifestyle especially for the insecurities of the guy that's being cucked or even a straight swap, we totally avoid threesomes it's couples or nothing, what you describe I've seen many times with couples we've been with that weren't really ready or suited to the lifestyle, in the big picture size may not matter, but for recreational sex size can make a huge difference especially if it's a woman's first time with a hung guy bruh.

What do you find the huge difference is to woman is in your experience when fucking a well hung guy for the first time? Is it the way it touches spots in their vagina or do they like the visual looks of it or some else. Just cause on other websites where women talk about sex with a big cock alot of them say ,its painful for them
 
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What do you find the huge difference is to woman is in your experience when fucking a well hung guy for the first time? Is it the way it touches spots in their vagina or do they like the visual looks of it or some else. Just cause on other websites where women talk about sex with a big cock alot of them say ,its painful for them
it can hurt sooooo good
 
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But has she had sex with other hung guys before?
We had a break in college for a little bit (like Ross Gellar lol) and she said she hooked up with a guy. She played soccer in college and he was a football player ‍♂️. I never got that much detail but I If course asked if he was bigger than me and she said yes just a little bit.
 
That only works if he's into sph. Somehow I get the impression that he is not. Until I joined this site I never heard of sph and I doubt that he from what he's said isn't small.
I don’t think I’m into SPH. Maybe a little? But yeah I don’t have a small dick lol. Did it turn me on when she kept talking about how big his cock was? Yeah it did. And there was light teasing involved. I really don’t think my wife even did it intentionally I think she was just in aw of a very large dick lol. So I dunno about SPH
 
From my experience, cuckold relationships only work successfully when the husband can set aside his ego and insecurity, and focus on his wife's pleasure. You said that you have a good marriage, and her experiences with him have improved your sex life together. You can't put the genie back into the bottle, so my suggestion is that you not try to compete with him, but to let her enjoy herself with him, and you enjoy getting to watch and make love with her afterwards.
Yeah that is good advice. I’m definitely trying to do that. I loved watching her cum like crazy and that little jealousy adds to the intensity and makes it even hotter. When we have a fight or are on bad terms I find it becomes an issue ya know
 
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My 2 cents.
You keep asking her if the other guy(s) are bigger.
She keeps on telling you they are (a little bit)
If you do not ask, will she still tell you they are bigger?
And it turns you on (a little bit)
So if it is not SPH, May it be that you are into their cocks?
You seem to focus a lot on other cocks and not a lot on using yours to please both of you.
My interpretation.
 
What do you find the huge difference is to woman is in your experience when fucking a well hung guy for the first time? Is it the way it touches spots in their vagina or do they like the visual looks of it or some else. Just cause on other websites where women talk about sex with a big cock alot of them say ,its painful for them

It's a combination of things really bruh, the pain issue is very individual if a woman isn't used to being stretched both width and depth wise, some women experience a little discomfort and or pain, some feel a lot of pain to the point of tapping out sometimes. With regard to the visual that's often a big impact in its own right, again individual whether it's shock, surprise, excitement, fear or a combination of all.
Obviously a large cock is going to have the potential to fill the whole vagina at once stretching it deeper and wider than a small cock can, stimulating all parts at once.
Foreplay and warming up is essential for an inexperienced woman that's not used to a large penis along with lube etc, angle of penetration and pace are important to try and avoid too much discomfort too early and the risk of vaginal tearing.
Once all's going well I've had women cumming all over my dick that have said that they've never experienced even the slightest orgasam with their usual partner or husband, in my opinion that's what makes the biggest difference, the experience as a whole with a large penis, the anticipation, the challenge, the way it takes their breath away, giving their body a full workout, the pleasure they experience, the way they react body mind and soul, the way they're left exhausted and shattered but truly satisfied. One of the biggest changes sex with a large penis can make is on a woman's mind in my experience, the way it raises the bar, changing their expectations for what great sex should feel like and what it can do. Once the mind knows how good it was there's no way to go back to what her expectations were before, that's what truly makes the difference.
 
Think you hit the nail on the head. I watched as my wife went through that. He ate her out for a long time and warmed her up. Like you said the anticipation was hot for her. I can see her practically cumming as she played with and sucked his dick. She was really into it an squirming. She always said a big cock was visually hot to look at when we watched porn but she didn’t wanna try it. After a while she finally gave in. He started very slow and worked his way in and before long he was all out fucking her. The fact that he was huge is a big factor but he was actually good at sex so I think that was the biggest factor
 
Been married to my wife for 8 years and together since high school. She’s very very sexy and guys always hit on her. Over time i developed a curiosity or fetish for sharing my wife. After a lot of convincing my wife finally agreed to try another guy. She was sort of seduced by this guy who was built like a God and had a huge dick. At first in the moment it was reallyyyy hot. I am recently having regrets though. My wife warned me that this guy could ruin sex between us because he’s so big and she may be rite. I can’t shake the feeling that I can’t and won’t ever make her cum like he did. She went crazy with him and even did things she never did with me and that kind of bothers me. The way she sucked his dick is what bothers me the most when I think about it because she’s never given me head with that type of enthusiasm before. I know 100% it is what I wanted and not her fault at all but I am starting to have a lot of regret. Any thoughts?? Thanks All!
It’s the old saying— “Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.” Fantasy does not always march reality. Let it go and don’t repeat.
 
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Think you hit the nail on the head. I watched as my wife went through that. He ate her out for a long time and warmed her up. Like you said the anticipation was hot for her. I can see her practically cumming as she played with and sucked his dick. She was really into it an squirming. She always said a big cock was visually hot to look at when we watched porn but she didn’t wanna try it. After a while she finally gave in. He started very slow and worked his way in and before long he was all out fucking her. The fact that he was huge is a big factor but he was actually good at sex so I think that was the biggest factor

Yeap well there you go bruh, now you have some decisions to make with regard to your sex life. If you don't want to get into the sharing lifestyle then have you considered using a cock sleeve or other aids to increase your wife's satisfaction?
When my wife and myself are meeting a couple for a straight basic swap and fun she'll often ask a guy to use a sleeve with her, toys or his hands. Obviously I guess it doesn't help the visual of having a large dick to play with but it may help your confidence and your wife's satisfaction bruh.
 
It's a combination of things really bruh, the pain issue is very individual if a woman isn't used to being stretched both width and depth wise, some women experience a little discomfort and or pain, some feel a lot of pain to the point of tapping out sometimes. With regard to the visual that's often a big impact in its own right, again individual whether it's shock, surprise, excitement, fear or a combination of all.
Obviously a large cock is going to have the potential to fill the whole vagina at once stretching it deeper and wider than a small cock can, stimulating all parts at once.
Foreplay and warming up is essential for an inexperienced woman that's not used to a large penis along with lube etc, angle of penetration and pace are important to try and avoid too much discomfort too early and the risk of vaginal tearing.
Once all's going well I've had women cumming all over my dick that have said that they've never experienced even the slightest orgasam with their usual partner or husband, in my opinion that's what makes the biggest difference, the experience as a whole with a large penis, the anticipation, the challenge, the way it takes their breath away, giving their body a full workout, the pleasure they experience, the way they react body mind and soul, the way they're left exhausted and shattered but truly satisfied. One of the biggest changes sex with a large penis can make is on a woman's mind in my experience, the way it raises the bar, changing their expectations for what great sex should feel like and what it can do. Once the mind knows how good it was there's no way to go back to what her expectations were before, that's what truly makes the difference.


I think you are totally right Mike, maybe some women physically can't take a large cock, but for most women its proper arousal and technique to get her to adjust and appreciate the extra size of a large cock.

I think one thing that a lot of these different sites(quora, reddit, etc.)where women talk about large cocks being painful is that the guys that they were attached to had no love making skills, and you can imagine a guy with a large cock trying to shove it in her vagina when it's dry and not aroused, it would be agony.

Where in your situation it's the opposite spending time getting her ready through mental conditioning, lots of arousal, and being gentle while she adjusts to the extra large size.

Also a lot of women experiences have only been with average sized dicks, they will not be aware of all those areas deep in their vagina, as well as the ones that need more pressure( bigger girth) to be aroused properly. Both of these characteristics can cause those intense mind blowing orgasms that she could only have experienced with a talented lover with a big cock, so in other words, she doesn't know what she is missing.

So when women are asked if size makes any difference and all she's had and has known are either small or average cocks, or a big one where the guy is too dumb to know how to use it properly, can leave a impression that size doesn't matter or they are painful.

Until I suppose until they experience something like the treatment you give them Mike, or the other poster that's wife had a great experience with big cock, women don't know what they are missing.

You can see this genuinely most in amature Videos where the woman is fully aroused and is getting fucked by a very large cock, you can witness the amazing intensity and how rapid her orgasms are by her body or leg shaking, hands grabbing the sheets(on the bed), toe curls, and her eyes rolling in the back of her head. The sexual sounds a woman makes are so different too between the different cock sizes. With a average cock women don't generally make too many sounds of arousal. With a really big cock the sounds the woman makes are usually non stop either OMG, or shit, fuck some words similar. Lots of sounds of pleasure that coordinate with the thrusting of the large cock, as the intensity is so real and greater than a average cock.

I think it's very true a woman will not leave a husband/partner for cock size alone, but sometimes guys will think this way, when infact there are other reasons why in a relationship a woman leaves. Just from a womans sexual satisfaction standpoint, the age old saying "bigger is better" does have a ring of truth to it.

BTW Mike speaking of amature videos, you posted one of you fucking one of your friends, can you please post more videos of you fucking her or different women , thanks
 
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I’d be inclined to buy a large Dildo or Strapon and stretch her when she’s in the mood then she’d have the best of both worlds with the man she loves.

If she still wants the other guy in her bed then consider inviting another female and she’ll soon appreciate your jealousy and concerns :)
 
I think you are totally right Mike, maybe some women physically can't take a large cock, but for most women its proper arousal and technique to get her to adjust and appreciate the extra size of a large cock.

I think one thing that a lot of these different sites(quora, reddit, etc.)where women talk about large cocks being painful is that the guys that they were attached to had no love making skills, and you can imagine a guy with a large cock trying to shove it in her vagina when it's dry and not aroused, it would be agony.

Where in your situation it's the opposite spending time getting her ready through mental conditioning, lots of arousal, and being gentle while she adjusts to the extra large size.

Also a lot of women experiences have only been with average sized dicks, they will not be aware of all those areas deep in their vagina, as well as the ones that need more pressure( bigger girth) to be aroused properly. Both of these characteristics can cause those intense mind blowing orgasms that she could only have experienced with a talented lover with a big cock, so in other words, she doesn't know what she is missing.

So when women are asked if size makes any difference and all she's had and has known are either small or average cocks, or a big one where the guy is too dumb to know how to use it properly, can leave a impression that size doesn't matter or they are painful.

Until I suppose until they experience something like the treatment you give them Mike, or the other poster that's wife had a great experience with big cock, women don't know what they are missing.

You can see this genuinely most in amature Videos where the woman is fully aroused and is getting fucked by a very large cock, you can witness the amazing intensity and how rapid her orgasms are by her body or leg shaking, hands grabbing the sheets(on the bed), toe curls, and her eyes rolling in the back of her head. The sexual sounds a woman makes are so different too between the different cock sizes. With a average cock women don't generally make too many sounds of arousal. With a really big cock the sounds the woman makes are usually non stop either OMG, or shit, fuck some words similar. Lots of sounds of pleasure that coordinate with the thrusting of the large cock, as the intensity is so real and greater than a average cock.

I think it's very true a woman will not leave a husband/partner for cock size alone, but sometimes guys will think this way, when infact there are other reasons why in a relationship a woman leaves. Just from a womans sexual satisfaction standpoint, the age old saying "bigger is better" does have a ring of truth to it.

BTW Mike speaking of amature videos, you posted one of you fucking one of your friends, can you please post more videos of you fucking her or different women , thanks

Got it in one right there bruh, and those deep guttural groans and screams that a woman delivers as I'm sliding my girth deep into her body are such a turn on for me as well, melting a woman's mind with your dick and skill is awesome.
Those guys that got the dick but no skills hopefully will learn, I did, everybody has to start somewhere, thankfully for myself I had some great teachers in the women I chose as sexual partners from a young age.
RE videos I only share what's appropriate (no faces or distinguishing marks or tattoos) and only with consent bruh.