Think I Regret Letting My Wife Try A Huge Dick

Not sure if this helps or not, but last year I had my first really big cock and it was amazing. Like super crazy amazing. !

Would love the details from the recipient side of the story. How big do you estimate? How much bigger then anything before? How did you handle it? Details please!
 
Would love the details from the recipient side of the story. How big do you estimate? How much bigger then anything before? How did you handle it? Details please!
Well I'm sure the story would be a big turn on, but I don't know if this is the thread for it lol. This guy is in pain and I'd rather not rub it in, you know. Let's make sure OP is doing ok and if you want you can DM me :)
 
Yeah I think we’re fine. Like I said this isn’t gonna ruin us or anything just a little hurdle. We talked about it a little and I think as long as it’s just physical it won’t really upset me that much. She admitted that she was really turned on by being with a guy with a huge dick but she said she was more turned on by his body. As long as it’s just physical I can deal with it because that’s what I wanted. We had a good talk we both were honest about alottt of things. And ultimately yes I do think there probably will be a 2nd meeting with him. I really think she wants that

Honestly and respect are so critical in a good long term relationship. It's great you are so honest with each other, that's so important. You're right a large cock or even his great body isn't going to be enough to ruin your relationship. It sounds like she appreciates you being so interested and keen to sexually satisfy her. I think you will find that is way more important to her, than any particular big dicked guy. The main thing is to both be close and enjoy the sex you're both having, maybe you enjoy fucking her after the bull has finished. Maybe a second hookup with your bull would be fun for both of you and you both would be more relaxed the second time. Please record some video you can post if you do it again, even a audio recording of your hookup with the bull would be exciting to listen to. Good luck
 
I think if the 'bull' is a threat to you, you should not set up a second encounter, the jealousy will be hard to deal with... if it's working for both of you, it's healthy, if it's all about her, then the balance is off
 
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Thanks to all! Sorry haven’t responded been kinda dark lately lol. Appreciate everybodies response though didn’t expect so many. Trying to hit everybodies points, we have been fine I’ve learned to accept it as just a physical thing and it’s been pretty hot, little jealousy of course but that’s part of it no? I’ve talked to my wife and we are good she assured me it’s just a physical thing and her just letting loose which I totally get. She doesn’t drink or do drugs or anything so this is her way of letting loose lol not pun intended. Somebody asked if she had a hung guy before and I know she messed around with a guy in college but they didn’t fuck. So she says at least. We did have another “meeting” with her bull as I guess you can call him now lol. The 2nd one was intense I must say. Before hand he asked if he could turn it up a little because it turns him on to tease the husband a little. My wife was fine with it and I was too as long as he’s not like being an asshole to me. It went fine I didn’t feel like he disrespected me he just did some teasing and it was fine she was into it and I was too. I didn’t like at first when they made out but that turns my wife on so I understand. Afterwards I talked to my wife and I asked her why she does more things with him and is subvmissive to him and she explained to me it’s just her way of blowing off steam and it’s part of the fantasy to be his “slut”. This concerned me at first but I thought about it more and it makes sense, she’s not a slut in real life only one time when she’s with him so I get it, I’m not a playboy but sometimes I get wild in a strip club or bachelor party so I get her point. So I’m cool with that. I know people want like details and stuff but I don’t know if other people wanna hear it, feel free to message me if you want because I don’t wanna our details on here and possibly offend or annoy people that don’t wanna hear it. Long story short she came like she never came before and he did whatever he wanted to do to her.
 
Somebody asked his size he said 10inches. Not sure if it was but he is obviously huge. Put it this way it goes from her chin to the top of her head lol we know from experience. No clue what the girth is but I can say about as thick as my wife’s forearm lol I know this because my wife put it against her forearm because she thinks she’s a pornstar or something lol. I don’t think you can call it SPH. I don’t have a small penis nor am I small or in bad shape. I think it’s more the fact he is built like a Greek God and is hung like a horse. Maybe more of like an alpha dog thing? I dunno. I’m 5-11 190lbs muscular and just under 7in. I think I’m decent size. He’s well overt 6 feet probably 220lb and jacked and 10in. (Supposably). So I think it’s just an alpha thing. Oh any my wife is 5-1 110lbs lol so you can imagine how much of a pounding she took
 
She also loves the fact he is tan and his body is smooth. She said it turned her on how smooth his ass is. So maybe that’s something I can work on?
 
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I'm pretty sure (physical) superiority is the basis of fulfillment (ie "real love"). Everything else is just rhetorical gymnastics and settling which is apparently really, really bad these days because it's devaluing to the self and your finite existence. And with the relatively new concept of "full access shopping" available to everyone, women in this case, the only thing stopping "endless shopping" to occur is shopping fatigue or scarcity/"no supplier available". Like, after the kids can walk, why stay with someone? Nostalgia? (another dirty word...)

At least this is mindset that comes from the the maximalist, everything-available nature of an ever more connected culture. Better is better. Can't argue with that. Might as well join the incels and mass-suicide if you can't take your role as inferior cuck hubby that bucks while they fuck. Keep fetishizing it, might be the only thing that justifies your continued existence.
 
Question, you ever consider tanning or bodybuilding and steroid use? Plastic surgery? Penis enlargement exercises like jelqing and vacuum pumping and stretching? Maybe you could catch up and replace your replacement? You're like...80-90% of the way there... and now some other dude is satisfying the woman you married. Maybe just let her go and be free. You might be the one impediment to her happiness; I doubt she's cumming as hard as she could if you weren't there selfishly demanding attention from her as if you were the one doing the fucking. This is basically her building an offramp, you know, right? But like, w/e, after a certain time it's all just jaded pumping. Too bad you're no the one doing it.
 
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it's soo difficult to not smell bullshit!!! I really wanna believe...but the perfection of the Greek Statue body...the 10 inches..perfection is not present on Earth!!!
plus second time and not a single picture??!!!!

plz let us see that its all true!!!
 
You are normal for having regrets. Not only did the guy have a huge dick, he knew how to treat a girl. So yeah, your wife will def pine for him. And you are left to wonder if and how often she thinks of him... wants him again... and whether you might be the odd man out. But then, you knew the risk when you loaned her out.
 
Yeah I understand that but I mean she was into it too she’s just more conservative so it took me convincing her. But she definitely seemed into the kink of me watching her. She referenced a few times while exchanging emails with him how much bigger he was than me. “My husband is above average but your so much bigger” “My husband is pretty thick but yours is a lot thicker and longer”. I mean to me that totally sounds like she was kind of turned on by a guy with a bigger dick than her husband doesn’t it?

Crazy thought: You say that she did this for you, and that you've been watching a lot of cuckold porn. Maybe, just maybe, she loves you and wants you to be happy, so she played a role and is continuing to play a role.
 
I'm pretty sure (physical) superiority is the basis of fulfillment (ie "real love"). Everything else is just rhetorical gymnastics and settling which is apparently really, really bad these days because it's devaluing to the self and your finite existence. And with the relatively new concept of "full access shopping" available to everyone, women in this case, the only thing stopping "endless shopping" to occur is shopping fatigue or scarcity/"no supplier available". Like, after the kids can walk, why stay with someone? Nostalgia? (another dirty word...)

At least this is mindset that comes from the the maximalist, everything-available nature of an ever more connected culture. Better is better. Can't argue with that. Might as well join the incels and mass-suicide if you can't take your role as inferior cuck hubby that bucks while they fuck. Keep fetishizing it, might be the only thing that justifies your continued existence.
THATS ROUGH WHAT A RESPONSE EWWW
 
Been married to my wife for 8 years and together since high school. She’s very very sexy and guys always hit on her. Over time i developed a curiosity or fetish for sharing my wife. After a lot of convincing my wife finally agreed to try another guy. She was sort of seduced by this guy who was built like a God and had a huge dick. At first in the moment it was reallyyyy hot. I am recently having regrets though. My wife warned me that this guy could ruin sex between us because he’s so big and she may be rite. I can’t shake the feeling that I can’t and won’t ever make her cum like he did. She went crazy with him and even did things she never did with me and that kind of bothers me. The way she sucked his dick is what bothers me the most when I think about it because she’s never given me head with that type of enthusiasm before. I know 100% it is what I wanted and not her fault at all but I am starting to have a lot of regret. Any thoughts?? Thanks All!
Hopefully it is just a passing fancy. It may have been a a fantasy of hers too. Big dicks don’t keep a relationship together nor will it break up a marriage. Hope it works out for you
 
Thanks to all! Sorry haven’t responded been kinda dark lately lol. Appreciate everybodies response though didn’t expect so many. Trying to hit everybodies points, we have been fine I’ve learned to accept it as just a physical thing and it’s been pretty hot, little jealousy of course but that’s part of it no? I’ve talked to my wife and we are good she assured me it’s just a physical thing and her just letting loose which I totally get. She doesn’t drink or do drugs or anything so this is her way of letting loose lol not pun intended. Somebody asked if she had a hung guy before and I know she messed around with a guy in college but they didn’t fuck. So she says at least. We did have another “meeting” with her bull as I guess you can call him now lol. The 2nd one was intense I must say. Before hand he asked if he could turn it up a little because it turns him on to tease the husband a little. My wife was fine with it and I was too as long as he’s not like being an asshole to me. It went fine I didn’t feel like he disrespected me he just did some teasing and it was fine she was into it and I was too. I didn’t like at first when they made out but that turns my wife on so I understand. Afterwards I talked to my wife and I asked her why she does more things with him and is subvmissive to him and she explained to me it’s just her way of blowing off steam and it’s part of the fantasy to be his “slut”. This concerned me at first but I thought about it more and it makes sense, she’s not a slut in real life only one time when she’s with him so I get it, I’m not a playboy but sometimes I get wild in a strip club or bachelor party so I get her point. So I’m cool with that. I know people want like details and stuff but I don’t know if other people wanna hear it, feel free to message me if you want because I don’t wanna our details on here and possibly offend or annoy people that don’t wanna hear it. Long story short she came like she never came before and he did whatever he wanted to do to her.

I'd like to hear in the long term how you two and your bull all evolve relationship wise as well as sexually. If in the coming months this sexual desire your wife has for her bull, eventually loses steam. As we've said sexual fulfillment alone shouldn't be enough to risk your relationship, there are probably many qualities she finds in him annoying and many qualities she really likes in you.

I have read about many women who have left a partner that is sexually great and satisfying but a jerk for one that has many of the qualities that she is looking for, but is not a porn star in bed.

Thinking about it from a man's perspective. I had a girlfriend who had a amazingly sexy body, who was a nice woman, but over the course of years we grew apart to the point where I found her really annoying and we argued and disagreed a lot. In the end even though she still had that same sexy body, I had no interest in having sex with her because I found her so annoying and irritating. Needless to say that we broke up and later I met and married my wife. Even though my wife doesn't necessarily have the really sexy physical body of my ex girlfriend, there's absolutely no comparison of who I want to be married to, you guessed it, my wife, because on so many levels we are connected and are soulmates.

Knocking it out of the park sexually is a itty-bitty part of a relationship, it's nice to have, but it ain't going to save the day.
 
Yeah I understand that but I mean she was into it too she’s just more conservative so it took me convincing her. But she definitely seemed into the kink of me watching her. She referenced a few times while exchanging emails with him how much bigger he was than me. “My husband is above average but your so much bigger” “My husband is pretty thick but yours is a lot thicker and longer”. I mean to me that totally sounds like she was kind of turned on by a guy with a bigger dick than her husband doesn’t it?
I think you’re taking some inner dick issues out on this. Sounds like her pressured (convinces) her to do some sexual kinks as you’d like, she did it, and enthusiastically TO TURN YOU ON, so if anything you should be more turned on because she FUCKED ANOTHER DUDE, for you!
 
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