Thoughts on guys calling it “pussy” or saying “get me pregnant”, etc during gay sex

[milkystick]

Just curious about your personal preference.

 

[Daz30]

I really get turned on when guys refer to their holes as ‘cunts’.. But the ‘get me pregnant’ thing leaves me cold..

 

[Armyguy202]

Love hearing a top say it often and especially right when they cum.

 

[LatinBubbleButt1]

As a bottom I enjoy hearing it.

 

[Topher the Gopher]

I like it. My first live-in boyfriend used to call it "making butt-babies."

 

[dergreg]

As total bareback top with a strong breeding instinct, some "straight" talk turns me on, but I voted "other" because none of the options quite encompasses my preferences. I'll elaborate.

I have always had a fascination with the act of penetrating and ejaculating inside a willing hole situated between a pair of spread legs; I just have this primal urge to do it over and over. Cumming in a mouth is a far second-best option, and outside is not even an option lol. I mostly prefer manly-acting bottoms. They can be twinks, otters, cubs, average, DILFs, but I want them to talk and behave masculine. Bonus points if they have well-groomed facial hair and keep natural chest, pubic and butt hair.

That said, dirty talk can really spice things up and I love back and forth bareback/breeding talk, the more descriptive the better, BUT not "effeminating" and/or demeaning terms nor talk falling into the mpreg fantasy. Name-calling, such as bitch, slut, whore, etc., I can tolerate, although I prefer to avoid it, whereas referring to male body parts as female ones, such as pussy, cunt, and so on is a turn off. To me, raw sex between men feels more like a super intimate male bonding experience, and I kinda like the bro talk in it, although I know many guys find it really cringy, but hey, each to their own! I'll give an example of the kind of dirty talk that drives me crazy with a hypothetical married guy with kids:

Me: Fuck yeah, dude, take this big fuckin' dick. Keep those big muscle legs open for me, man.
Bttm: Yeah, bro, your cock feels so good in my hole.
Me: You love taking this dick inside you without a condom, don't you? It turns you on knowing that I'm inside you bareback, doesn't it? Fuck yeah, you love it.
Bttm: Fuck yes, bro, I can feel you leaking precum inside my ass, shit! Feels so damn good!
Me: Hell yeah, stud, I can see in your face how much you love taking my big raw dick inside you, skin on skin. Look at you, big sexy fucker, naked and legs spread for me, moaning as you take my raw dick balls-deep in your hole. This is how you knock up your wife, huh? You know I won't pull out, right? I'm gonna shoot my load deep inside you, make you feel what she feels when you put your babies in her belly. Gonna send you back to her with my fertile seed dripping from your hole.
Bttm: Fuck yeah, man, please! Breed me! Cum in me, bro. I want to feel your cum deep in my guts. Fill me up with your babies!
Me: Fuck yes, dude, legs wide open, fuck! Here it comes. I'm gonna breed you, man! Fuckin' take it...

I guess you get the idea lol. Some stuff, such as references to fertility, pregnancy and calling cum "babies" I find hot, but in a male-bonding context. Not demeaning my partner, not calling his masculinity into question, if that makes sense. Also references to the "feel" of being inseminated, not the resulting pregnancy of a male. Of course, this is all hypothetical and highly-specific, and few guys will find the exact same stuff hot, but it's cool when there's a match. I've had one or two encounters where this sort of dirty talk just flowed naturally and it made us both cum haaaard!

Sidenote, I've also had the occasion to fuck actual (meaning not post-op) vagina, and in that case, the thought of an actual pregnancy has been a real turn on, BUT I have been very careful to keep that as a fantasy only and I do NOT endorse irresponsible parenthood.

 

[Southeasterner]

Personally, I don't like hearing these terms or saying them.
I don't like hearing the word "pussy" because I'm not a woman. It sounds like the partner is pretending the bottom is a woman.
I also find uninteresting to hear something like "get me pregnant." Women get pregnant, men don't. It sounds like internalized homophobia.
However I understand that there are people who like these terms.

 

[chrisrobin]

It's my asshole not a male cunt, I can't be got pregnant and I loath the expression breeding - cos it's not accurate.
If a guy is into breeding and getting someone pregnant they he should stick wth a real cunt.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

it's an ass or arse. or anus, to use the proper term. it's not a pussy. it's cringe.

 

[dergreg]

It's my asshole not a male cunt, I can't be got pregnant and I loath the expression breeding - cos it's not accurate.
If a guy is into breeding and getting someone pregnant they he should stick wth a real cunt.

Personally, I don't like hearing these terms or saying them.
I don't like hearing the word "pussy" because I'm not a woman. It sounds like the partner is pretending the bottom is a woman.
I also find uninteresting to hear something like "get me pregnant." Women get pregnant, men don't. It sounds like internalized homophobia.
However I understand that there are people who like these terms.

See, here is where I digress. It's perfectly fine to set your own limits, but I don't like guys who try to police other people's preferences. Since when have sexual fantasies been based on 'accuracy'? In gay porn, 'breeding' has become the standard term for internal cumshots because 'creampie' was annoyingly often being used for external cumshots and pushing in afterwards. For most tops, it means just that, cumming directly inside, nothing to do with the biological use of the term. But there are also some tops who get off on the idea of getting a bttm pregnant, as much as there are many bttms who fantasise about being impregnated and playing the role of a woman. I'm not into that, I had to ask a neighbor to stop texting me as if he was a cheating wife, which I found cringy, but who am I to tell them what they are allowed to enjoy or not with anyone else? And who are we to make judgements about other people's psychology, such as internalised homophobia and the like? Live and let live, guys!

 

[dreambridger]

I don't mind the term "breeding", because to me it just means insemination and not necessarily impregnation. BUT I think "pussy" and "bussy" are horribly cringe.

I don't like feminizing the bottom, it's the fact that he's a man that I find hot. and I don't like being feminized as a bottom, because I'm a man, and the top should respect that.

 

[Southeasterner]

See, here is where I digress. It's perfectly fine to set your own limits, but I don't like guys who try to police other people's preferences. Since when have sexual fantasies been based on 'accuracy'? In gay porn, 'breeding' has become the standard term for internal cumshots because 'creampie' was annoyingly often being used for external cumshots and pushing in afterwards. For most tops, it means just that, cumming directly inside, nothing to do with the biological use of the term. But there are also some tops who get off on the idea of getting a bttm pregnant, as much as there are many bttms who fantasise about being impregnated and playing the role of a woman. I'm not into that, I had to ask a neighbor to stop texting me as if he was a cheating wife, which I found cringy, but who am I to tell them what they are allowed to enjoy or not with anyone else? And who are we to make judgements about other people's psychology, such as internalised homophobia and the like? Live and let live, guys!

This is a forum. So, it´s a place to express opinions. Nobody here said what someone is allowed to enjoy or not. We just informed what we think about the topic, since the author of the thread asked our preferences. I am not judging when I say something seems internalized homophobia in my opinion. It´s my opinion. In America, freedom of expression is constitutionally guaranteed. I don´t care if someone says he has a "pussy", "bussy", "mancut", "vagina" or if he wants to "be pregnant". It´s not my business. However, I can express my opinion about it. As a gay man, I think there are several terms that I find more interesting: anus, "asshole", "butthole", "hole", that I think are sexy and accurate when we talk about gay sex. But people express their sexuality in different ways and I understand it.

 

[dergreg]

This is a forum. So, it´s a place to express opinions. Nobody here said what someone is allowed to enjoy or not. We just informed what we think about the topic, since the author of the thread asked our preferences. I am not judging when I say something seems internalized homophobia in my opinion. It´s my opinion. In America, freedom of expression is constitutionally guaranteed. I don´t care if someone says he has a "pussy", "bussy", "mancut", "vagina" or if he wants to "be pregnant". It´s not my business. However, I can express my opinion about it. As a gay man, I think there are several terms that I find more interesting: anus, "asshole", "butthole", "hole", that I think are sexy and accurate when we talk about gay sex. But people express their sexuality in different ways and I understand it.

Oh great, a Murican of the kind that thinks that freedom of speech only exists in the US and not even understands what it actually means. That gratuitous comment about the [hopelessly outdated] US constitution has zero relevance here.

Anyway, it is true that this is a place to express opinions and that's what I did. In my previous reply to another user and yourself, I addressed two things. Firstly, the other lad said "If a guy is into breeding and getting someone pregnant they he should stick wth a real cunt," which sounds a lot like trying to police what other people like. And secondly, you both complained that using certain terminology is not 'accurate,' which is what I contested because the point about fantasies is precisely that they are not reality. I personally don't like using language that feminizes my partner either, but who am I to tell other people what is correct/accurate/appropriate to like in bed or to accuse them of internalised homophobia for it?

I don't mind the term "breeding", because to me it just means insemination and not necessarily impregnation. BUT I think "pussy" and "bussy" are horribly cringe.

I don't like feminizing the bottom, it's the fact that he's a man that I find hot. and I don't like being feminized as a bottom, because I'm a man, and the top should respect that.

Exactly! I'm a 100% with you. I'm full top, but I don't see my partner as any less masculine than myself. I use "breeding" a lot because the same as you, to me it simply means ejaculating inside his ass, nothing else.

 

[dreambridger]

Exactly! I'm a 100% with you. I'm full top, but I don't see my partner as any less masculine than myself. I use "breeding" a lot because the same as you, to me it simply means ejaculating inside his ass, nothing else.

nice, I love that attitude. and yeah when I'm able to take a big hard cock, it makes me feel even more like a tough man, not less of one.

 

[dergreg]

nice, I love that attitude. and yeah when I'm able to take a big hard cock, it makes me feel even more like a tough man, not less of one.

Thanks man, love yous too, and your albums more! I would absolutely love to spend a whole weekend barebacking your hole and dumping as much seed as I can balls deep inside you. Such a sexy stud to bond with!

 

[Southeasterner]

Oh great, a Murican of the kind that thinks that freedom of speech only exists in the US and not even understands what it actually means. That gratuitous comment about the [hopelessly outdated] US constitution has zero relevance here.

Anyway, it is true that this is a place to express opinions and that's what I did. In my previous reply to another user and yourself, I addressed two things. Firstly, the other lad said "If a guy is into breeding and getting someone pregnant they he should stick wth a real cunt," which sounds a lot like trying to police what other people like. And secondly, you both complained that using certain terminology is not 'accurate,' which is what I contested because the point about fantasies is precisely that they are not reality. I personally don't like using language that feminizes my partner either, but who am I to tell other people what is correct/accurate/appropriate to like in bed or to accuse them of internalised homophobia for it?


Exactly! I'm a 100% with you. I'm full top, but I don't see my partner as any less masculine than myself. I use "breeding" a lot because the same as you, to me it simply means ejaculating inside his ass, nothing else.

Despite your rude response and use of the derogatory word "Murican", I will continue to think that the British are polite people, because the ones I know are. I never said that freedom of speech only exists in the US; don't put words in my mouth. I said it is guaranteed here. And more respect for the American Constitution, right? So, according to you I don´t know what freedom of speech means. Really? How arrogant to underestimate someone´s intellectual capabilities! Very impolite conduct. Have a good night, Sir!

 

[chrisrobin]

See, here is where I digress. It's perfectly fine to set your own limits, but I don't like guys who try to police other people's preferences. Since when have sexual fantasies been based on 'accuracy'? In gay porn, 'breeding' has become the standard term for internal cumshots because 'creampie' was annoyingly often being used for external cumshots and pushing in afterwards. For most tops, it means just that, cumming directly inside, nothing to do with the biological use of the term. But there are also some tops who get off on the idea of getting a bttm pregnant, as much as there are many bttms who fantasise about being impregnated and playing the role of a woman. I'm not into that, I had to ask a neighbor to stop texting me as if he was a cheating wife, which I found cringy, but who am I to tell them what they are allowed to enjoy or not with anyone else? And who are we to make judgements about other people's psychology, such as internalised homophobia and the like? Live and let live, guys!

Just pointing out the biological facts

 

[dergreg]

Despite your rude response and use of the derogatory word "Murican", I will continue to think that the British are polite people, because the ones I know are. I never said that freedom of speech only exists in the US; don't put words in my mouth. I said it is guaranteed here. And more respect for the American Constitution, right? So, according to you I don´t know what freedom of speech means. Really? How arrogant to underestimate someone´s intellectual capabilities! Very impolite conduct. Have a good night, Sir!

I must say it was really easy to rile you up, but this is not the place for petty arguments, so let's de-escalate, shall we?

I will just point out that you are very prone to making assumptions and judgements, such as believing that I'm British (possibly because I use British spelling), but I'm not. I said nothing about your mental capabilities either, but rather contested your beliefs. Freedom of speech means that you cannot be prosecuted by the state for expressing your opinions, and even that has limitations such as hate speech. Also, freedom of speech does not mean freedom of consequence. LPSG is not the state and they have their own community rules, so if you violate them and get banned as a consequence, you can't cry freedom of speech because banning from a platform is not prosecution done by the state. And clearly, disagreeing with another user isn't either. That's why I said that your comment was not relevant here, but you played the offended card rather than defending your point.

And about the US constitution (which you insist on calling American as if there weren't 35 independent countries there) there's a ton to say, but we've already posted a lot of off-topic rubbish on this thread, so I'll spare you what could otherwise become a long rant lol.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

As a cisgender male, I've never felt the need to equate gay sex with straight sex. or think my arse is a pussy. it's not something I relate with, and it's pretty cringe as others have said.
we can accept others' tastes. for sure, sex positivity IS BASED. however, we still have our own views. and merely saying somebody finds something "cringe" doesn't mean it's a categorical condemnation. If a person says "Kirk was a shit captain" and one is a massive TOS fan, so what? just that person's opinion.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

See, here is where I digress. It's perfectly fine to set your own limits, but I don't like guys who try to police other people's preferences. Since when have sexual fantasies been based on 'accuracy'? In gay porn, 'breeding' has become the standard term for internal cumshots because 'creampie' was annoyingly often being used for external cumshots and pushing in afterwards. For most tops, it means just that, cumming directly inside, nothing to do with the biological use of the term. But there are also some tops who get off on the idea of getting a bttm pregnant, as much as there are many bttms who fantasise about being impregnated and playing the role of a woman. I'm not into that, I had to ask a neighbor to stop texting me as if he was a cheating wife, which I found cringy, but who am I to tell them what they are allowed to enjoy or not with anyone else? And who are we to make judgements about other people's psychology, such as internalised homophobia and the like? Live and let live, guys!

Why do you then ask questions and get offended at peopel's responses? Nobody has said you cannot do it. Others have said they find it odd. and? what's to get so hyped over?