Too Big To Take Frequently

I can really relate to this thread..

When I met my husband, he was a vers bottom with not much experience in being a top. However, that all changed when we got together. Very early on we tried anal sex (me being top) and it became clear that we had some work to do..!

Fast forward 12 years, and here we are.. I am, and have been for quite some years, bottoming for him: despite MANY attempts during our relationship, he is simply unable (and quite possibly now unwilling) to take me comfortably.

Being a vers top with a ridiculously high libido, I’m sure you can imagine the frustration of needing to top regularly. I’ve contributed to another thread on LPSG about adultery and my feelings on cheating, and since between us, we are unable to fulfil my sexual needs, I find a willing bottom elsewhere
 
Im not a monster cock like some of u guys on here lol but pretty girthy. My gf wants it every day but she gets sore as hell, which is not helped by the fact it takes me a long time to cum. Im a lot bigger than both her ex's. They were 2 minute men. So she gets frustrated since she wants to fuck every day but after 15 mins or so she just cant take it. i Have had this experience with ex's too.

I remember an interview with Gianna Michaels where she said she loved Shane Diesel's massive cock but said theres no way she could take it on the daily lol

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I am having a "huge" problem w my girl. She loves it but went off the extra strength advll and is done after once a day for 2 days. I barely move as she rides me to 50+ orgasms w aftershocks. She is amazing in bed, deep throats w no teeth, orgasms when she blows me, but after 3-4 minutes of agressivd riding, she is all fucked up, explaing that i "destroyed her pussy and you destroy it every time." She is so tight that she scheduled a caesarian for her kid, so her tiny pussy could avoid the pain. Huge natural tits and a tiny pussy. A great combo except she can't handle me especially my girth.

Advil and coffee are no longer enough. Any advice? This is a serious problem. I did her 7 days in a row a few years ago and now she is a total wreck.
 
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I can definitely relate to this thread! My partner and I have been together for five years now and I’ve only managed to top him once in all that time. I’d really love to top him more but whenever we try he winces in pain and we have to stop very quickly. We’ve tried training his arse to take bigger toys but it’s a real challenge to keep up with training him to take my size. This usually leads to me bottoming to him which is a problem because he’s a complete submissive so all the effort ends up being on my end.

We’ve been trying again recently following an experience with another couple and wanting to be able to do more of the same stuff without the need for other people involved but we’re now considering whether we need to open our relationship up just so that I can actually experience what it’s like to properly top someone, not ideal but it feels like our only choice at this point!

Any suggestions from people who’ve had a similar problem would be welcome!
 
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My wife says the same, but she can take much larger ones daily, sometimes multiple times. Don't really understand that. lol
 
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My wife says the same, but she can take much larger ones daily, sometimes multiple times. Don't really understand that. lol

Your wife sounds like she is a very special and magnificent woman....you are very, very, very fortunate to be married to her and have her in your life....I have never envied anyone...but you, because of how you have described your wife and her interests and "abilities"...I do envy her being in your life and not mine...lol
 
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