Tops thoughts

[arihob]

So just wondering, have any of you tops had a bottom or a women who's into being chocked out with your cock, I mean we're they can't breath and puke all over you, but keep going. Is it a power trip for you and do you enjoy it? I must admit it was a power trip for me, but afterwards was having thoughts about it. And now I've got mixed feelings. Lol I know sounds strange, but I also enjoy a wonderful loving time with someone and being tender. This was way beyond, with smacking of the face spitting and slapping the ass, not gently but full on hard slaps. At first a since of power and then afterwards I'm not sure, I do know he's called and wants to meetup again as in real soon.

 

[gayman23_23]

So just wondering, have any of you tops had a bottom or a women who's into being chocked out with your cock, I mean we're they can't breath and puke all over you, but keep going. Is it a power trip for you and do you enjoy it? I must admit it was a power trip for me, but afterwards was having thoughts about it. And now I've got mixed feelings. Lol I know sounds strange, but I also enjoy a wonderful loving time with someone and being tender. This was way beyond, with smacking of the face spitting and slapping the ass, not gently but full on hard slaps. At first a since of power and then afterwards I'm not sure, I do know he's called and wants to meetup again as in real soon.

Everyone has a fetish. Untill it's discussed what the 2 of you are comfortable with, and it's consensual; it is fine.

Seems like you found your fetish too.

 

[arihob]

Yes sure did was wild, and enjoyed every minute ute of it. And looking forward to alot of other sessions.

 

[vnesebtm]

It happened to me a month ago when I choked and puked on this guy’s dick after a rough and intense throat fucking. I was so embarrassed but the guy was actually very nice and caring. He helped me to clean the mess and kept throat wrecking me again. I guess it’s all about the attitude.

 

[find83]

So just wondering, have any of you tops had a bottom or a women who's into being chocked out with your cock, I mean we're they can't breath and puke all over you, but keep going. Is it a power trip for you and do you enjoy it? I must admit it was a power trip for me, but afterwards was having thoughts about it. And now I've got mixed feelings. Lol I know sounds strange, but I also enjoy a wonderful loving time with someone and being tender. This was way beyond, with smacking of the face spitting and slapping the ass, not gently but full on hard slaps. At first a since of power and then afterwards I'm not sure, I do know he's called and wants to meetup again as in real soon.

This is why after care is very important for both the Top and the bottom. In hard bdsm, the power trip and dehumanization can be fun and exhilarating, but the downside is that it can fuck with your self esteem and image of yourself. No one actually wants to be a bad or sick person (top) or actually wants to be viewed as a piece of shit with no value ( bottom) and you are not once done in the appropriate context. That being with mutual consent and safety.

Like the previous comments have said you can have a discussion with the person about how you feel, limits and things you both really like. Or if you choose to meet this individual again. After the rough hard session (of throat fucking and treating the person like a piece of meat). Try doing a shared activity that humanize your interaction, like cuddling together, having a nice meal together, watching a movie, having a discussion with them to see how they feel and that they are ok. This is what is called aftercare. It does wonders for both Dom and sub.