Turned Completely Off!

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You live a life. You work, tend your gorgeous plants, etc.

Indeed! Which is true of at least 90% of people I personally know who consume the plant

Anecdotal, I know.. but I do think the "lazy stoner" stereotype is just as harmful as any other. Of course there are people who smoke weed who are lazy. But they don't represent all people who use it. That's just how society keeps portraying us all.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Indeed! Which is true of at least 90% of people I personally know who consume the plant

Anecdotal, I know.. but I do think the "lazy stoner" stereotype is just as harmful as any other. Of course there are people who smoke weed who are lazy. But they don't represent all people who use it. That's just how society keeps portraying us all.

I’d have to agree overall, but I have personally known and lived with a couple.
I should have tossed the other culprit in there....beer.
But beer started at noon, pipe at sunrise.
And, I have the right to not want lazy in my world as a main personality component.
Taking on work that should have been shared desiccated my Lilypad to Sonoran levels.

 

[JackM]

Bad hygiene. Smoking. Lip piercings. Wilful ignorance, or being proud of not knowing something.

Makeup, including nail varnish (I don't think it benefits women or men or even anyone non-binary, unless it's so subtle it can hardly be seen). Drag queens need makeup, of course, but I suspect many or most of them don't wear drag to attract mates. I'm baffled by the idea that huge predator nails, inflated lips, unnatural eyebrows or eyelashes that look like large spiders can be seen as attractive.

 

[BubbleButtHungBoy]

Bad hygiene. Smoking. Lip piercings. Wilful ignorance, or being proud of not knowing something.

Makeup, including nail varnish (I don't think it benefits women or men or even anyone non-binary, unless it's so subtle it can hardly be seen). Drag queens need makeup, of course, but I suspect many or most of them don't wear drag to attract mates. I'm baffled by the idea that huge predator nails, inflated lips, unnatural eyebrows or eyelashes that look like large spiders can be seen as attractive.

Thank you, someone else finally said it, they're creepy and complete cringe.

 

[Ahhh Ha]

Someone who is always complaining, nothing is good enough, negative outlook of everything and everyone. Basically a mood/vibe killer.

 

[885840]

Eh... Depends solely on the person. I smoke a lot, every morning. On my lunch breaks. After work. Before bed. Pretty much all day. Just not around people who don't want to be around it. Basically I only smoke at home. But it is an all day, every day event.

I know more people who sleep on the couch all day because they drink than those who smoke weed. Actually, almost every weed smoker I know has a full time job. And the ones who don't are retired after working long enough to do so.

I consume plenty of edibles, but I consume edibles as a stress reliever from the massive amount of working I have to do to pay the bills. And even when I'm lit like a firecracker on edibles, I am still far more productive than any of the people who stereotype those who indulge in marijuana.

 

[Andrej_u]

Horoscope. Total turn off when someone asks me my zodiac sign.
People who believe in pseudoscience and conspiration theories.

Guys who are rude on Grindr, with high expectations and a list of "no this, no that" on their profile.
Guys who first want to see your dick pic and then decide whether to talk to you (I have my face on dating apps). Typically they text the entire grid on Grindr asking "hi, hung?". No.

 

[deleted19973741]

My worst dates were rude, cold, superficial guys and the ones who lack conversation. One of them invited me to his house and he just tapped on his phone all evening long. He was surprised that I was leaving earlier.

I don't like guys who lack humor, second degree, or who act like princesses or who are too snobbish. I met many gay men who valued their potential partner's social status. And who made me understand that we were not from the same social background. Likewise, I don't like daddy's boys. Without making a generalization, I haven't had very happy experiences with gay people.

In terms of physical appearance, guys whose body is totally hairless turn me off. I'm not a big fan of piercings either.