Two str8 friends hotel room shared but one of them …

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Hey folks, this is my situation. I am bi, definitely not out, but I am headed to a business trip and will share room with a str8 friend. We are both married to a W. He has never shown signs of being attracted to men, and me neither. But I am def attracted to him. He does kiss my neck when we see each other (which happens once per year, as we live far from each other). I am masterminding to break the ice when we spend time together. How can I do this? All I want is to suck his dick. Do you think it is possible? Again he doesn’t suspect anything about me being bisex. Help please!!!!
 
Thats tricky bro, u gotta make sure thing aren’t awkward in case it goes south.
Maybe bring up porn see how he reacts, say that u been horny and maybe suggest watching it together? but honestly u gotta think if it’s worth it, seems like too close to u maybe? Sounds hot but remember U guys r sharing a room, if he doesn’t like the whole thing u will be forced to face him and stuff. When is this ??
 
On a business trip I'll share rooms with another married friend. He's kissed my neck, per year, as we live far apart. How do I break the ice with him? I want to suck his dick. Think it's possible? he doesn’t suspect I'm bisex. Help please!!
You said he's kissed you before Calvin. Haven't you done the same? No icy barrier lies between you. Greet each other with kisses & embraces. I personally would find out if he'd be willing to receive and give a total body massage. I'd be content were he to allow that. Let me know how things went.
 
The OP is closeted Bi; and his friend is Str8.

OK here goes : The OP is married to a woman. So he is living a straight life. The friend he sees once a year is also married to a woman, with no other reason to be labeled Str8, other than he kisses the OP on the neck. The OP indicates he is from NY/ NJ. Dude many cultures men hug and yes kiss on the cheek / neck as a term of friendship / respect. Not really a premise to hey i want you to blow me.

But, back to the married thing. Leaving home with the intention of cheating / pre planning a series of events that lead to you cheating and possible affecting not only your marriage but your friends also.

My post is not about being Gay, Bi, straight,Str8; or what ever makes one happy. It is more about cheating and not thinking about possibly hurting others.


 
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You said he's kissed you before Calvin. Haven't you done the same? No icy barrier lies between you. Greet each other with kisses & embraces. I personally would find out if he'd be willing to receive and give a total body massage. I'd be content were he to allow that. Let me know how things went.
That could be a possibility, and no, I never kissed him. He kisses my neck only when we hugh each other. I will try the massage but need to find the excuse to give him a massage. Help me find it please!!!!
 
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I'll refer to your friend as Hugh. You can't change the past Calvin, but please demonstrate your affection, as Hugh does, by kissing etc., henceforth. Assuming you know how to give massages, and their benefits, you can give reasons for doing this -as opposed to excuses - such as pain relief & improved blood circulation. He's supposedly someone who knows and trusts you. Just ask and receive an answer to the massage question and avoid the "May I suck your dick?" question period.

Re: Post#4: Sadly Russia banned public same-sex PDA in 2022 :(
Russia to prosecute same-sex public displays of affection
 
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If he kisses you on the neck every time he sees you.. just kind of ask him why he does that see what he says.. ..

Kiss his in return..

I really do t know how to say this but you are adult men.. so just talk about things .. talk about sex ( if it’s a normal thing for you two to talk about ). And ask him about what thinks about guy on guy sex .. see his reaction..

If he asks why you ask that question.. tell him every time he kisses you on the neck it sends chills all over your body ..
 
ok… here’s my uneducated opinion

As a submissive bisexual…

The only man I am kissing in the neck… is a man I want to be intimate with.
I’ve given my best friend a handjob… and I wouldn’t nuzzle him on the neck. That’s an intimate gesture.