How was I being disrespectful? I was actually doing the opposite. LOL
If I misread your post then my apologies. But to me...

Your comment came across as a backhanded shady remark, worded as a compliment. Implied he isn't attracted to DJ physically, They just have an "emotional bond"? Just reinforces that he couldn't find DJ attractive.
 
If I misread your post then my apologies. But to me...

Your comment came across as a backhanded shady remark, worded as a compliment. Implied he isn't attracted to DJ physically, They just have an "emotional bond"? Just reinforces that he couldn't find DJ attractive.
That's not what I meant. I was responding to the person who said he could do better. I was saying it was more than just physical. Simple as that.
 
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This seems to be more of an emotional bond. I don't think Ty identifies as being gay. He just really cares for DJ and it's beautiful.

This is post is still messed even after attempting to clean it up. You kinda implied that being gay-presenting means that you’re mostly into guys for their looks. You kinda implied DJ is unattractive and a guy would only be into him “emotionally”. And you sorta assumed you know Ty’s current identity, his sexual attractions and his place in the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum.

There’s a lot of assumptions and wrong-mindedness in that brief post even if your sentiments were designed to be uplifting.
 
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This is post is still messed even after attempting to clean it up. You kinda implied that being gay-presenting means that you’re mostly into guys for their looks. You kinda implied DJ is unattractive and a guy would only be into him “emotionally”. And you sorta assumed you know Ty’s current identity, his sexual attractions and his place in the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum.

There’s a lot of assumptions and wrong-mindedness in that brief post even if your sentiments were designed to be uplifting.
Oh god. Please let this die. I didn't attempt to clean up anything. I feel like I was pretty clear. I was responding to the person who said Ty could do better and gave context on how the connection between them could be deeper and beyond the surface. That's a good thing! I never said DJ was unattractive. I was saying something positive and it got spun into something else. I was merely speculating. And yes, I'm making assumptions. So are you. I still don't understand the push back with what I said, so let's just drop it. I'll keep my thoughts to myself in the future then. Maybe that will stop the replies if I promise to shut up.