I agree with pretty much everything you guys are saying.
The guy's romantic choices are questionable at best and I think the truth may lie in some comments I saw him make either on his instagram or in an interview not too long ago (definitely within the last year). On that occasion he basically said that he can't help but be drawn towards complex, complicated, difficult women and relationships- that there is something somehow exciting and alluring about unpredictability and drama in his romances. And that he can't help himself - that's what he likes.
I hope somebody else here saw those comments and can find the quotes.
But that would explain a lot- that for every seemingly normal ,sweet and sane acting girl like his former fiancee Seana or the very beautiful Sophia Ali, he winds up with people like Bella and now Phem.
As has already been stated here, Phem identifies herself as out and out lesbian, so maybe the challenge of getting her to commit to penis is what will give him the drama and complications he seems to crave. At the same time, he has also recently stated that he's really looking forward to becoming a dad and having a family one day. Hands up anyone who thinks Phem would be the babymama from heaven that he's looking for?
At 29, he still seems as confused and misguided as an adolescent, and I agree that the company he seems to be keeping doesn't really appear to help. Assuming he is still a non drinking, non weed smoker at this point , does anybody think being around Phem and her crew will lead to continued sobriety?
I really miss Sophia being in his life, but honey, for her own sanity and well being, she must have got to a point where she just couldn't do it anymore.