Cut at birth... Gay guy.... truly HATE being CUT; but have taken a lot of time to work it out mentally and always had great compliments... but I have always been so worried from about the age of 10; we moved into another city where my cousins lived. My male cousin and I would change etc and bath together; he was uncut!
I grew up in a pretty open family ie. sauna steam etc all males etc of the family; having seen my beautiful many cousins, uncles friends etc I found out that my WHOLE side including father was all UNCUT my father pushed my mother to have me cut at birth. Being done in South Africa in late 80’s it was not done well!
I saw a urologist and plastics surgeon 4 years ago; he confirmed my worries!! They were indeed Valid!
I had “too much skin taken off” (FYI - I AM NEW ON THIS CHAT LPSG- will load photo when I figure our) ;-)
Either way it was taken off WAY too far/ much; and when I got erection it was sore/ uncomfortable felt so tight at pubic bone area.
finally with the urologist and then separately the plastic surgeon/2nd urologist... they confirmed that the skin and technique used in South Africa was taken far too much off! It was done using wrong tools!
You will see picture when I upload.
There for about two months after these appointments, that you came back to me with two options, one being the scrotal skin flap; and another being skin flap.
I went with the scrotal flap, given I have rather large testicles and scrotum. Furthermore the skin is more akin to being used on penile shaft... so I was informed. The cost was outrageous in Australia I’m almost $18,000 time however post this operation the evidence spoke for itself… The surgeon said post operation that my penis literally nearly jumped out when they made the incisions… It added 3.5cm in length.
Sadly the room it is now been 3 1/2 years, and still tight… It is getting better, they used 18 months ago filler – Penile Filler - at the cosmetic surgeon clinic in Sydney. Incredible results and helps fix the unevenness from the scars at the base of the penis. This helped immensely and heading to have the second round done with laser to remove hair and reduce scar!
Either way I’m extremely happy… However would absolutely love a foreskin!
This seems to be the only threat to add this information on my post, as the “cut guys and quote for Em hates the word mutilation and also hates the terms of “not being given a choice” either way I’m extremely happy… However would absolutely love a foreskin!
This seems to be the only thread to add this information on my post, as the “cut guys“ forum hates the word mutilation and also hates the terms of “not being given a choice“ - to which I 100% disagree! The entire nature of parents deciding that they are going to mutilate their little boys is absolutely horrific! The documentary on Netflix was really helpful.
I personally think the word mutilated is a bit extreme! But that was the term the doctors years on the show. I feel rather that a major decision was taken from me, and should be left to an adult boy / man to decide!
It’s frustrating it affected puberty and growth; on a hormone now for TRT as my doctors have shown I have significant low T! So with the operation and the filler it’s turned out much better!
Will upload pics shortly - any advice on penile filler and other penile enlargement for the POST scrotal skin flap / added skin to help with foreskin restoration or a bit more size would be most appreciated!
thanks all - keep safe through this crazy time