I have no qualms about sex on the first date, or whatever. The stories in that thread didn’t offend me in the least. But I’ve never looked at men as conquests, or notches, or categories I was trying to fill in. I was trying to get one musician, one athlete, one model to fill in some scorecard. Or freakin’ racial categories.
I used to have a robust sex life. I slept with men I thought were interesting, sexy, funny, cool. I didn’t even count. I had sex with them if and when I felt like it. First date, third date, no date.
But I’ve never had my vagina dry up like it has like it does on this site! Omg. Makes practicing celibacy super easy!