Watching porn with your gf/wife...

[badfitness]

For those of you that have done this ... do you have nay video suggestions? shes 25 and believe it or not has only watched porn once..... she brought it up about watching together while we mess around and am looking for suggestions. I know most are going to say she lying but i turned some on the other day and you could see it in her expression she has not watched much of it.

 

[BWPHOENIX]

Watching porn with a significant other is always fun. I’d recommend starting off with the tamer, vanilla porn, meaning girl/guy with oral and vaginal sex. You wouldn’t want to go too extreme (DP/gang bang/bukkake/BDSM) right off the bat, and turn her off to porn.

Also, have fun with it. Two games I like to play while watching porn with my GF are “let’s do whatever they do” or “let’s see how long we can go before we tear each other’s clothes off.”

Either way, just make sure she’s relaxed, take It slow, and make it a positive experience for her. If you do it right she’ll be the one taking the lead in the future.

 

[marriedasian]

porn is more about fantasy and nothing more. i would talk with her and find out what her fantasies are and then find porn to match those. start with the tamer stuff then work up as you go. you never know what crazy shit she might be into if you just let her show you a little at a time. it's like bringing her sexual fantasies and curiosities to life plus it might be a way for you two to deepen your connections sexually.

 

[twoton]

For those of you that have done this ... do you have nay video suggestions? shes 25 and believe it or not has only watched porn once..... she brought it up about watching together while we mess around and am looking for suggestions. I know most are going to say she lying but i turned some on the other day and you could see it in her expression she has not watched much of it.

I would Ask A Woman for suggested titles. Too much at risk if you get one you think is hot but freaks her out in a bad way.

 

[554279]

For those of you that have done this ... do you have nay video suggestions? shes 25 and believe it or not has only watched porn once..... she brought it up about watching together while we mess around and am looking for suggestions. I know most are going to say she lying but i turned some on the other day and you could see it in her expression she has not watched much of it.

Shop around for the boy-girl stuff, avoid the gonzo shit and the like until or if she settles into it. See what she likes and go slow, if you want it, otherwise she may take some of it the wrong way.

Also make sure your ready to not be offended by her likes or dislikes.

 

[Tripod228mm]

I actually don't like it. My wife only likes porn that is over the top, cliché, fake everything. I prefer porn that is real people doing real things. She says that is too realistic for her, like she is watching her friends. I understand. But I would rather watch my friends that cliché porn. So we don't watch porn together. But my wife and I will watch foreign films with lots of lesbian action, which she really enjoys but doesn't always admit it.

 

[french_lp]

My advice is to show her the porn you like. It's a good conversation started to be perfectly open about your fantasies, what turns you on etc. and to discover and pinpoint with her the thing she enjoy or not.
I've shown a lot of different stuff to @Adle, she was curious about everything, and now we perfectly know exactly the kind of porn WE like to watch together.
To sum up, it's a way to bond and open a good communication with her, that will only enhance and make your sex life better.
And the best porn to show her, is the porn you'll enjoy both.
No point in hiding your kinkiest fantasies with your SO, just find the thing that's will turn you both on.

 

[BigBen]

I actually don't like it. My wife only likes porn that is over the top, cliché, fake everything. I prefer porn that is real people doing real things. She says that is too realistic for her, like she is watching her friends. I understand. But I would rather watch my friends that cliché porn. So we don't watch porn together. But my wife and I will watch foreign films with lots of lesbian action, which she really enjoys but doesn't always admit it.

Porn in nearly all cases is boring to me...the only time I find it remotely entertaining is when it is usually amateur and the woman is extremely busty....and I too would rather watch my friends or be watched than watch a tv with porn...

 

[shaved and trimmed]

Wife likes porn with story lines or parodies of shows she's watched.