What causes so many married men to have a suck buddy?

Recently, I corresponded briefly with a married Man who expressed an interest in finding regular servicing. He is located one town over from what I am; a 15-20 minute car ride.

Initially, He expressed an interest in receiving service. He even went on to explain to me the type of service He wanted and expected. I was ecstatic.

I explained He would maintain control of our meetings, and that they would take place at His discretion. He would be free to message me, and if I were available (which He would be a priority), I would meet with Him wherever He directed me to meet.

But after establishing ourselves, I never heard from Him again. I was disappointed.

In the beginning when corresponding with potential Feeders, I try to establish that They will always maintain control of the “relationship.”

What more, or less, should I do to help alleviate any misgivings, if any, of a potential Feeder?

And it could also be a moral dilemma He struggles with, to which I totally understand.

I would like some feedback, if anyone feels like sharing.
 
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