What do you consider to be a small dick?

[25yoguy96]

Also says out of 15 guys I’m the longest and 3rd thickest, she starts to consider big at 6-6.5

 

[VIIby5]

My gf says in her experience average is 4-5 and she doesn’t really know girth right off the top of her head but said she could give a range for width and that’s 1-1.75 wide more around 1.25. And I’m decently big at 7.75x5 and she absolutely could care less ab size as long as it isn’t too big, she says 95% of girls r this way too. She’s also 23 and very beautiful so she has had her fair choice of guys and I lucked up being very attractive myself so I was able to attract her and we connected, I say all this bc she said she wasn’t worried ab my size at any point before we became intimate, sorry for the long post but I say all this bc I used to worry I was small and being attractive I still missed opportunities bc I worried ab it, come to find out I was pretty big and as it also turns out…it’s true what girls say, it doesn’t matter bc they won’t cum from sex anyway and the vagina is a muscle and it contracts to what’s in it, so she says that in the end even between below average and big there’s not much sensation difference

Thanks for articulating your girlfriend's perspective. Reference women not orgasming . Many women are capable of it. I used to think my wife was one of those that it was not possible for. Then one day they just started happening and fairly frequently. Unfortunately I never got the feeling for the most part that they were particularly intense "move the world" ones though. Close to that a few times but certainly not the norm.

I honestly think for most women the main problem isn't that they are not capable of them its that they perhaps haven't encountered a penis of a sufficient size to to properly stimulate the right spots. For some even with perfect technique you are just not going to overcome size deficiencies, unfortunately. I believe this is something so called size queens are well aware of. They like big dicks for a reason and it isn't just because they like the looks of them in most cases. They stretch them right a get to the deep spots.

Speaking of looks or appearance. I also have a theory that if they get really turned by the appearance they may be more psychologically predisposed to achieve orgasm. On the other hand some women just have mental blocks that just wont allow it to happen. I believe this was the case for my wife for many years. She admitted to me that she had been having "weird sensations" and didn't know what they meant so she would employ avoidance techniques to make them go away. Specifically she had a had to pee pressure sensation that sounds a lot like the sensation i get before i ejaculate.

 

[SmallDguy]

Thanks for articulating your girlfriend's perspective. Reference women not orgasming . Many women are capable of it. I used to think my wife was one of those that it was not possible for. Then one day they just started happening and fairly frequently. Unfortunately I never got the feeling for the most part that they were particularly intense "move the world" ones though. Close to that a few times but certainly not the norm.

I honestly think for most women the main problem isn't that they are not capable of them its that they perhaps haven't encountered a penis of a sufficient size to to properly stimulate the right spots. For some even with perfect technique you are just not going to overcome size deficiencies, unfortunately. I believe this is something so called size queens are well aware of. They like big dicks for a reason and it isn't just because they like the looks of them in most cases. They stretch them right a get to the deep spots.

Speaking of looks or appearance. I also have a theory that if they get really turned by the appearance they may be more psychologically predisposed to achieve orgasm. On the other hand some women just have mental blocks that just wont allow it to happen. I believe this was the case for my wife for many years. She admitted to me that she had been having "weird sensations" and didn't know what they meant so she would employ avoidance techniques to make them go away. Specifically she had a had to pee pressure sensation that sounds a lot like the sensation i get before i ejaculate.

Dude, couldn't have worded that any better. Yes on everything you just wrote. I do believe not all woman drool over big penis. I do however believe some don't know what they are missing until they get big dick then they don't want to go back to normal. It happened with an ex a while back. We took a break she had sex with bigger men tried to get back with me but she admitted it wasn't the "same".

 

[VIIby5]

Dude, couldn't have worded that any better. Yes on everything you just wrote. I do believe not all woman drool over big penis. I do however believe some don't know what they are missing until they get big dick then they don't want to go back to normal. It happened with an ex a while back. We took a break she had sex with bigger men tried to get back with me but she admitted it wasn't the "same".

When ever I hear the "size doesn't matter" mantra I cant help but agree but for different reasons. It doesn't matter to a woman that hasn't found one yet that it makes it "matter".

From a guys perspective:

Having never driven a Ferrari I am perfectly content driving a Dodge. Horsepower and refinement is overrated!

After driving that Ferrari I now realize what I was missing out on driving that low horsepower Dodge. Never thought driving could be so fun and exciting.

How weird. It didn't matter before.

 

[deleted1138933]

My gf says in her experience average is 4-5 and she doesn’t really know girth right off the top of her head but said she could give a range for width and that’s 1-1.75 wide more around 1.25. And I’m decently big at 7.75x5 and she absolutely could care less ab size as long as it isn’t too big, she says 95% of girls r this way too. She’s also 23 and very beautiful so she has had her fair choice of guys and I lucked up being very attractive myself so I was able to attract her and we connected, I say all this bc she said she wasn’t worried ab my size at any point before we became intimate, sorry for the long post but I say all this bc I used to worry I was small and being attractive I still missed opportunities bc I worried ab it, come to find out I was pretty big and as it also turns out…it’s true what girls say, it doesn’t matter bc they won’t cum from sex anyway and the vagina is a muscle and it contracts to what’s in it, so she says that in the end even between below average and big there’s not much sensation difference

It is easy to say not to worry abkut it when you are 7.75" X 5" because you really do not have anything to worry about. Not so for someone who truly is small.

 

[deleted1138933]

Outside of studies and in terms of real size. Erect anything smaller than 6" X 4.5" is small. Flaccid, small any length that does not hang and less than 3.5" girth

 

[Derringer]

Anything less than 5 inches is small and anything over 7 is large. To me average is around 6. If you are 7+ you are very well endowed and larger than the average man. I'm sure many will argue with that but I think guys exaggerate their size.

I knew a Malasian ladyboy/ escort who I was embarrassed by because his flaccid cock was way bigger than my tiny dick.

 

[JayPR]

What about when people react to nude photos of celebrities? I remember a few years ago that some women and men were commenting on the famous Brad Pitt nude paparazzi pic. Most of them were saying that he was small. For me, it seems average, and it was flaccid so I don't know how big is when erect.

The same has happened with a few porn performers. Once, I was on a website and most comments from gay guys were that he has a tiny dick, and for me was average as well, maybe like 6 with decent girth. I guess for a porn star, 6 is rather small, but in the real world is not.

 

[malakos]

It's worth questioning whether the question as articulated is truly coherent.

"Small" and "large" and other such descriptions of size mainly make sense as matters of comparison. In some relations of size comparison, there are some statements we can make that are universal, or near universal. For example "Mice are smaller than elephants." Outside of those sorts of statements, none other sort really can have that sort of universality. What is a small mouse? Are mice simply small? Well no, not relative to ants they're not, though they are relative to elephants.

But when we ask "What do you consider a small mouse?" there is a good chance we are asking about mice relative to other mice, with respect to an idea of a normal size of mice. But here, the demarcation of smallness becomes arbitrary (whereas mice being smaller than elephants is a non-arbitrary observation). Are "small" mice the 1% most small mice? Or the 10% most small mice? There is no objective answer to be had here. It's just a matter of legislation.

Asking what is a small (human) penis is undoubtedly the latter sort of question. And like in the "small mice" case, there is no way to non-arbitrarily define the boundaries of smallness. Thus, there is a sense in which it is incoherent to discuss what are small and large penises as if there were an objective answer to this question.

A final observation: I've noticed a lot of responses are effectively saying that small penises are everything measuring below the absolute average length. I'm sure most of the posters who have approached the question this way would not say that everything above that average measurement is a large penis. Thus, they imply that what they consider the range of "average sized" penises is the same as what is in fact the range of above average sized penises, below a certain arbitrary point where above average becomes large. "Average" identifying above average of course is absurd. To avoid this absurdity, either everything above the absolute average measurement must be large, while everything below is small, or there must be some arbitrarily limited range of average that includes both above average and below average. For example, if we take 5.5" to be the absolute average, we could say that 4.5"-6.5" is the average range. Saying 5.5" is average, and everything below is small, but large doesn't start until above 7" is absurd.

 

[yyzstevie]

Kinda small myself I like 8 and up 6 inch girth n up too

 

[ItalTony9]

Kinda small myself I like 8 and up 6 inch girth n up too

are those pics of you in the attachments?
Evne if not 8" long, I cannot look at a thick cock and call it small, yours included...it's thick and substantial

 

[Hakan1]

Everything under 5 Inches hard

 

[SmallDguy]

Pro tip:
Guys... Lose the fat pad (the best you can). How much is it worth to add almost an inch to your cock without surgery or stretching contraptions? Your partner will think you grew an inch. And yes it, will go in deeper.

Just a thought.

Will go in deeper? I'm sorry but if she rides you it will go in as deep as she can control. In my case I've been so small to them when they get on top they leave me sore from my pelvic bones/area cause they just grind for clitoris stimulation. Anyone else been sore like this? I know I'm not the only one.

 

[SmallDguy]

It's worth questioning whether the question as articulated is truly coherent.

"Small" and "large" and other such descriptions of size mainly make sense as matters of comparison. In some relations of size comparison, there are some statements we can make that are universal, or near universal. For example "Mice are smaller than elephants." Outside of those sorts of statements, none other sort really can have that sort of universality. What is a small mouse? Are mice simply small? Well no, not relative to ants they're not, though they are relative to elephants.

But when we ask "What do you consider a small mouse?" there is a good chance we are asking about mice relative to other mice, with respect to an idea of a normal size of mice. But here, the demarcation of smallness becomes arbitrary (whereas mice being smaller than elephants is a non-arbitrary observation). Are "small" mice the 1% most small mice? Or the 10% most small mice? There is no objective answer to be had here. It's just a matter of legislation.

Asking what is a small (human) penis is undoubtedly the latter sort of question. And like in the "small mice" case, there is no way to non-arbitrarily define the boundaries of smallness. Thus, there is a sense in which it is incoherent to discuss what are small and large penises as if there were an objective answer to this question.

A final observation: I've noticed a lot of responses are effectively saying that small penises are everything measuring below the absolute average length. I'm sure most of the posters who have approached the question this way would not say that everything above that average measurement is a large penis. Thus, they imply that what they consider the range of "average sized" penises is the same as what is in fact the range of above average sized penises, below a certain arbitrary point where above average becomes large. "Average" identifying above average of course is absurd. To avoid this absurdity, either everything above the absolute average measurement must be large, while everything below is small, or there must be some arbitrarily limited range of average that includes both above average and below average. For example, if we take 5.5" to be the absolute average, we could say that 4.5"-6.5" is the average range. Saying 5.5" is average, and everything below is small, but large doesn't start until above 7" is absurd.

Forgive me but in the real world nerd stats don't matter. Sometimes it depends I think on the lifestyles you live and perhaps you attract woman predisposed to consciously or unconsciously into bigger sized men. For example I think in the club/bar scene cute or hot woman tend to go for bigger dudes. It's a ONS after all. These are my observations and opinions throughout my life. When I was younger (I'm Mexican) my father told me "if I were you I'd go for a small village virgin who hasn't been with many if any men, it's your best bet". I suspect he is small to average as well. I do believe however most men lie about size. Even on this SITE. Dudes claim a size then when they measure it's pressed in all the way to the bone kinda side measured and it's a tape measure not straight ruler. The girth is loosely measured and the tape measure is wrinkled lol if you're already big why lie?

 

[Perfectsix]

I don’t get hung up on numbers and judge by sight alone. Personally I would say I am small when flaccid but average when hard - who agrees?

 

[stesir]

They will judge it flaccid and won’t even give it a thought or a chance to think about it’s erect size. I workout am and sometimes I wear the shorts (more in galleries)like in my prof. pic and I get looks/laughs/comments. So small flaccid, but large hard, won’t even give it a chance that it can get be big hard cock,but draw more attn to it because of its small limp size..so for a small dick , guys have 2 sizes..for flaccid mine’s small (1 1/2”)and for erect mine’s big.(7 1/2”)

 

[SmallDguy]

They will judge it flaccid and won’t even give it a thought or a chance to think about it’s erect size. I workout am and sometimes I wear the shorts (more in galleries)like in my prof. pic and I get looks/laughs/comments. So small flaccid, but large hard, won’t even give it a chance that it can get be big hard cock,but draw more attn to it because of its small limp size..so for a small dick , guys have 2 sizes..for flaccid mine’s small (1 1/2”)and for erect mine’s big.(7 1/2”)

I feel your pain so to speak. On both sides.

 

[WilliamG]

They will judge it flaccid and won’t even give it a thought or a chance to think about it’s erect size. I workout am and sometimes I wear the shorts (more in galleries)like in my prof. pic and I get looks/laughs/comments. So small flaccid, but large hard, won’t even give it a chance that it can get be big hard cock,but draw more attn to it because of its small limp size..so for a small dick , guys have 2 sizes..for flaccid mine’s small (1 1/2”)and for erect mine’s big.(7 1/2”)

Where do you go that folks give you "looks/laughs/comments"? And who are "they"? I mean were you asking for reviews of your cock? That's just silly to me.

 

[tyfromtexas]

What do you consider to be a small penis?

I am asking just to understand better people's expectations because it seems that penis size categories vary depending on who you ask. If I ask a straight guy, usually the answers vary, but it seems like someone in the 6 inches even if not considered big by most guys, it's still considered a good size. On the other hand, most gay guys, in my experience, tend to consider small, not average, SMALL anything below 7 inches. And when I ask some of my girlfriends, their expectations are way off, like they expect most guys to have 7 to 8 inches. Also, a soft dick is hard to judge. Some people tend to forget the whole grower and shower aspect.

How do you categorize small, average, or big? Do you take girth into consideration or just the length?

i say if it’s under 5 inches

 

[Assman1]

It is easy to say not to worry abkut it when you are 7.75" X 5" because you really do not have anything to worry about. Not so for someone who truly is small.

Do you really know how rare a cock this size is?