I have been seeing this moan for a couple months and yesterday at lunch, she ran upstairs and sent me a text that said "come up and see me". She was wearing this beautiful & sexy lace gown & panties. We began kissing and she looked at me and said "take control and do what you want with me, I like that". I obliged but didn't expect it and didn't really know what she wanted me to do. Ideas?! In general , what kind of actions seem controlling and would give her what she wants? I never expected this, or the surprising midday lunchtime fun!