What does this mean, am I gay or what?

[Rooker]

It’s just a label. It really doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but for some reason it does to some people.

I’m not sure if this goes by the colloquial definition of sexuality, but the definition of “gay” is to be sexually or romantically attracted to someone of the same gender.

So your sexuality is who you want to be sexually or romantically involved with. Seems like you’re masturbating to non gender specific body parts, like maybe you probably just prefer the look or a woman’s foot over a man’s. I’m not sure if that makes you legitimately sexually attracted to women or not though.

I’d say you’re gay if I had to throw a label on you.

It is odd that the label matters. I like athletic brunettes, but it doesn’t define any other aspects of my personality.

I get there are layers to it, societal layers. So much focus on who consenting adults want to fuck.

(Not clowning on anyone in this conversation)

 

[thickcockjames]

It is odd that the label matters. I like athletic brunettes, but it doesn’t define any other aspects of my personality.

I get there are layers to it, societal layers. So much focus on who consenting adults want to fuck.

(Not clowning on anyone in this conversation)

Yup. Seems like it just shouldn’t matter.

 

[BifuriousJoel]

It’s just a label. It really doesn’t or shouldn’t matter, but for some reason it does to some people.

I’m not sure if this goes by the colloquial definition of sexuality, but the definition of “gay” is to be sexually or romantically attracted to someone of the same gender.

So your sexuality is who you want to be sexually or romantically involved with. Seems like you’re masturbating to non gender specific body parts, like maybe you probably just prefer the look or a woman’s foot over a man’s. I’m not sure if that makes you legitimately sexually attracted to women or not though.

I’d say you’re gay if I had to throw a label on you.

I was going to disagree with that because I don't think I usually masturbate just to specific body parts, I like to see the whole person. But yesterday at the gym, some guy's arms had me drooling. Not the whole dude, just the arms.

 

[misterpianhasbigass]

Muscle dudes kissing each other in a general sense? Like 50-50. Depends on how hot they are, tbh.

Lesbian sex? Yes, pretty much always, super effective.

Male celebrities? Yes, but just a few of them. Is that weird?

 

[Almagest88]

It's cute that we're still believing in the myth of the bisexual man. You have 3 paths before you - you marry a chick and maybe even blow a load or two into her and become a dad that hangs out a little too long in the locker room and eventually shows up at a truck stop glory hole. You become gay and have a gay life. Or you become some hermit who is too befuddled about how he feels that you metamorphose into celibacy and blossom in social awkwardness.

Also, dude, you used the word limerence. You're gay.

 

[bigboaster]

It's cute that we're still believing in the myth of the bisexual man.

I love how proud you are of your narrow minded-ness.

 

[LittleBlade]

It's cute that we're still believing in the myth of the bisexual man. You have 3 paths before you - you marry a chick and maybe even blow a load or two into her and become a dad that hangs out a little too long in the locker room and eventually shows up at a truck stop glory hole. You become gay and have a gay life. Or you become some hermit who is too befuddled about how he feels that you metamorphose into celibacy and blossom in social awkwardness.

Also, dude, you used the word limerence. You're gay.

I had to look up "limerence" - I have/am experiencing it. Who said a website full of naked men wasn't educational?!

 

[Sexedup]

I reckon it's just time.
When you were younger, the mere though of a nipple would likely have you blow your load
Then you found pussies, then mf sex, then FF sex etc etc.

As you grew, there was always something new and exciting to motivate you for years.
And like most people you likely developed kinks etc as you strived for something new and dangerous to get yourself off.

Also, likely time has dulled the imagination possibly. Sounds like you are in love with this celeb some way, so sexually she may not get you hard like a page 3 girl might.

As for the "am I gay" question.
Everyone has a label definition.
But for me it's simple, if you are attracted to men, and/or fantasize sexually about being with one, then yes, likely gay or bi.

But erotic shit varies. My wife has thrust a realistic dildo in my mouth and I have sucked it happily. She gets off on it, which gets me off more.
She's pegged me, and it felt good. She dirty talks about bukake and double blowjobs etc, and I join in.
But I am not attracted to any real man in any way, it's all just fun.

 

[BifuriousJoel]

It's cute that we're still believing in the myth of the bisexual man. You have 3 paths before you - you marry a chick and maybe even blow a load or two into her and become a dad that hangs out a little too long in the locker room and eventually shows up at a truck stop glory hole. You become gay and have a gay life. Or you become some hermit who is too befuddled about how he feels that you metamorphose into celibacy and blossom in social awkwardness.

Also, dude, you used the word limerence. You're gay.

Well, you have only 2 paths before you: You can eat my shit or suck my balls.

Huh, look at that, maybe I AM gay after all.