What makes a GREAT pussy eater?
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Like all things, different women like different things.
General rule, don't go straight for the clit and avoid "pointy tongue".
Personally, I like it when a guy flattens out his tongue and licks all over. Its called pussy eating not clit poking for a reason. Suck on labia, suck lightly on the clit. Maybe even tongue fuck her vagina. I love that.
Enthusiasm makes a difference. Think about how you like a blow job. The same thing over and over the entire time is no good. Mix things up. Then when she starts arching her back and moaning and grabbing your head, DON'T STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING. DON'T CHANGE RHYTHM. Just keep doing exactly what you are doing to get her that excited.
General rule, don't go straight for the clit and avoid "pointy tongue".
Personally, I like it when a guy flattens out his tongue and licks all over. Its called pussy eating not clit poking for a reason. Suck on labia, suck lightly on the clit. Maybe even tongue fuck her vagina. I love that.
Enthusiasm makes a difference. Think about how you like a blow job. The same thing over and over the entire time is no good. Mix things up. Then when she starts arching her back and moaning and grabbing your head, DON'T STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING. DON'T CHANGE RHYTHM. Just keep doing exactly what you are doing to get her that excited.
I don't want re-iterate anything written above (which I agree with), so I'll add that you shouldn't let your hands be idle. Grab my hips, pinch a nipple, rub my thighs or breasts. Finger fuck my mouth and tell me that those fingers are going in my pussy. Let me taste myself. Don't be afraid to eat me out from behind or experiment with different positions for oral. Tell me how much you like the way I taste.
In other words, do not forget about the rest of me or shy away from mixing things up just because your face is in my crotch.
In other words, do not forget about the rest of me or shy away from mixing things up just because your face is in my crotch.
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Like Paigexox said,"I don't want to re-iterate written above". Take your time and read her body and ask her , for me it's part about rhythm and tempo, it has to change from soft and slow to hard and fast but timing is important. I don't think it's too hard to read my body language when you are that close 
another thing Paigexox said, use your fingers and mouth at the same time, licking my clit and using your fingers is usually something I like. Good luck, I think because you are asking you will be good at it.
another thing Paigexox said, use your fingers and mouth at the same time, licking my clit and using your fingers is usually something I like. Good luck, I think because you are asking you will be good at it.
Remember this: men are WWI biplanes - just grab the joystick and fly. Women are 747s and the instrumentation is varied and complex. Flip all the switches, but flip them in the right order. But dammit, flip the effin' switches! And don't forget to steer. Know where you're going but don't tell her. She'll follow if you're flying right.
Remember this, too: one wrong move and even a course correction might not help you get back on track.
This is not for the faint hearted. Now get in there and fly, flyboy!
Remember this, too: one wrong move and even a course correction might not help you get back on track.
This is not for the faint hearted. Now get in there and fly, flyboy!
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I agree with what's already been posted, especially by paigexox and EllieP. I would add at to me what separates good from great is paying attention.
How am I responding to you? Am I still, relaxed, and totally silent? If so, I'm bored, and you should try something else.
Am I pulling away? Counterintuitively, you should DEFINITELY keep doing what you're doing, and either follow me or pull me back to you, and hold me down. I scoot away when pleasure is overwhelming, but if what I really wanted was for you to stop, I'd have said so. Based on conversations with past partners, I'm far from the only woman who does this. In fact, it's your duty to drive me to scoot along the floor/mattress/sofa. If I don't scoot, you can do better.
Scooting is different from shifting. If I'm shifting, or raising my hips, or twisting into a different angle and then holding the new pose, or moving with you so that I can keep you at the angle I'm choosing, don't move with me. I'm politely, non-verbally directing your skills to the spot that needs them most. I'm acting on base instinct, and all you have to do is keep at what you were doing, but on his new spot.
Am I saying anything? Take my words seriously. If it's praise? Well done! If it's requests or directions, oblige me; don't be discouraged, just honor my requests. Requests don't mean I never liked what you were doing, only that I know what I want/need next.
Have fun. The worst thing in the world is unenthusiastic head. So lame. If you have fun, so will I, and I will be eager to return the good deed.
How am I responding to you? Am I still, relaxed, and totally silent? If so, I'm bored, and you should try something else.
Am I pulling away? Counterintuitively, you should DEFINITELY keep doing what you're doing, and either follow me or pull me back to you, and hold me down. I scoot away when pleasure is overwhelming, but if what I really wanted was for you to stop, I'd have said so. Based on conversations with past partners, I'm far from the only woman who does this. In fact, it's your duty to drive me to scoot along the floor/mattress/sofa. If I don't scoot, you can do better.
Scooting is different from shifting. If I'm shifting, or raising my hips, or twisting into a different angle and then holding the new pose, or moving with you so that I can keep you at the angle I'm choosing, don't move with me. I'm politely, non-verbally directing your skills to the spot that needs them most. I'm acting on base instinct, and all you have to do is keep at what you were doing, but on his new spot.
Am I saying anything? Take my words seriously. If it's praise? Well done! If it's requests or directions, oblige me; don't be discouraged, just honor my requests. Requests don't mean I never liked what you were doing, only that I know what I want/need next.
Have fun. The worst thing in the world is unenthusiastic head. So lame. If you have fun, so will I, and I will be eager to return the good deed.
That quick filck thing you see in porn? Yeah. Don't do that. It annoys me. Other than that, the biggest turn on for me is your desire. If you are just putting in the time, or giving only to get, I'll pass.
But if you love my pussy and let me know it, That is incredibly hot.
But if you love my pussy and let me know it, That is incredibly hot.
There is no tried-and-true way to eat all pussy. Every woman likes something different. For me, my clit is so sensitive that too hard or fast hurts more than helps/feels good. Light licks, slow and steady, and I'll be cumming on your face in no time. Being fingered during the act doesn't hurt either. :smile:
I rarely cum from this, and have never cared much for it. It's either too little when I am already wanting a lot more, or done so poorly (porn habits) that I can hardly wait for it to stop. That being said, I have encountered three men this year who have really changed my mind about it all..... I will separate out all the amazing fingering they have done in conjunction with it and focus on their tongue techniques.
Definitely a more flat, firm tongue. Nice long range and mix of focus on areas. My favorite has some beard growth that is a serious bonus, but he also manages to get his chin stimulating my ass while his tongue works deep into my pussy. THAT works great!
Another guy says he just took a lot of time with one girl (over many days) & did the trial & error method. She loved it, and he got to try a bunch of ideas he had without pressure or fear of rejection. She had a million orgasms throughout, so she was blissed out. He says that is where he learned all his techniques. He was just as good without the beard as the other guy. He also used a more flat tongue approach.
The third guy came highly recommended by a bi gf who thinks he eats pussy better than a lot of women. I, like some of the women above have already put very well, believe it has a lot to do with your enthusiasm.
I have gotten several men to cum through blowjobs that have NEVER cum that way, and another few that rarely do, and I believe it's because I am not just working their shaft to get them to an end point. I do it because I like the feeling of my tongue on them and even more so just using a variety of stimulation to hear that involuntary moan...
If you can enjoy the process & focus on what feels good for the woman you are with, then you are going to be great!
Definitely a more flat, firm tongue. Nice long range and mix of focus on areas. My favorite has some beard growth that is a serious bonus, but he also manages to get his chin stimulating my ass while his tongue works deep into my pussy. THAT works great!
Another guy says he just took a lot of time with one girl (over many days) & did the trial & error method. She loved it, and he got to try a bunch of ideas he had without pressure or fear of rejection. She had a million orgasms throughout, so she was blissed out. He says that is where he learned all his techniques. He was just as good without the beard as the other guy. He also used a more flat tongue approach.
The third guy came highly recommended by a bi gf who thinks he eats pussy better than a lot of women. I, like some of the women above have already put very well, believe it has a lot to do with your enthusiasm.
I have gotten several men to cum through blowjobs that have NEVER cum that way, and another few that rarely do, and I believe it's because I am not just working their shaft to get them to an end point. I do it because I like the feeling of my tongue on them and even more so just using a variety of stimulation to hear that involuntary moan...
If you can enjoy the process & focus on what feels good for the woman you are with, then you are going to be great!
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It used to be that I had a VERY specific technique that I preferred. It was really the only way I could orgasm via oral. Things have changed since I met socal. He has used different positions and techniques and still never failed at making me orgasm with his mouth. The factors that have always remained the same in these different occasions? He pays attention to my responses and when he finds something that's really working... he keeps doing it until I cum. He knows that if I go completely still and maybe stop breathing... it's because I don't want to move and screw it up lol He's aware of my body, my breath, and my movements... and he responds accordingly. Bottom line, learn about how your girl responds. Talk to her. Ask her questions... and when you find what she likes... for chrissake, KEEP DOING IT
