What Makes A Tribute Particularly Sexy?

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Oh, I'm still waiting for an answer as to why we needed to be lectured..

I'm waiting for credentials of the all knowing @nailz which state why I should base what I am or am not ok with as a member of LPSG upon what she says is or is not on for me to be "scandalized" by.

Maybe I'll just wait for the next time she does it. This is not the first.

 

[286798]

I'm mostly playing devil's advocate here, but I still think as far as fetishes go they're pretty harmless.
If they're stealing your pics from social media and messaging them back to you covered in spooge then you need to be very, very concerned .. but here on LPSG? This is a sex site: If you're uploading pics of yourself naked you shouldn't be scandalized when guys do gross things with them

I mostly agree... which is why I don’t have pictures posted.., but strongly, STRONGLY believe that consent should be given before tribute pics are made and sent. The same logic applies for pictures that are uploaded here and posted to other sites without consent, or when an old boyfriend shares sexts with his friends, or whatever. It’s not ok! Is that the risk you assume when you sent/uploaded them... yes. But it doesn’t make it ok.

@nailzTake your little and fuck off with it. Notice, most if not ALL of the other women who replied don't even have pics uploaded? Women here who do have open galleries don't even answer in this section. So who's the lecture for?

I interpreted this (especially the ) the same way. I don’t have any prior beef to be torqued off by, but I offer that as feedback to @nailz as how you’re coming across IF it wasn’t intentional.

if the “lecture” was for the anonymous reader, so be it... no problem on my end. If it was for the regular participants of this forum... ummmmm, I think it’s mostly misdirected. FWIW.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

if the “lecture” was for the anonymous reader, so be it... no problem on my end. If it was for the regular participants of this forum... ummmmm, I think it’s mostly misdirected. FWIW.

The face and the tone of the post communicate to me that it was a way of saying "I'm not sure why the other women here act like it's so horrible, they should expect it being on a sex site".

In her post history here she's done this shit before. I'm over it, which is why I replied the way I did. I have no doubt it wasn't just for the passing reader. And the passing reader was being told, "the other women here get 'scandalized' by tributes, but I'm a cool chick so I don't freak out over it".

It's the "pick me!" crap, if you will..

 

[286798]

I get it, and see the other side of the coin, too. On one hand, she’s 100% right that is pretty harmless... a spoogey pic is NBD, BUT if it’s ok to use pic for tribute without consent, it’s not a far stretch to say it’s therefore ok to share to other sites or doxxing is a reasonable expectation. Which those clearly aren’t cool.

And I think some people (especially dudes) get comfortable with crossing these boundaries because they do it often.

 

[nailz]

I mostly agree... which is why I don’t have pictures posted.., but strongly, STRONGLY believe that consent should be given before tribute pics are made and sent.

An example of someone here on LPSG asking for consent.

Politeness goes a long way. I once had some random guy ask me if I could please send him a foot pic, and he asked so unbelievably politely, respectfully and nicely I thought why not? and took one for him It's a relatively harmless request.
Sites like this are supposed to be fun places for people to unwind and socialize, not bicker and antagonize and berate or shame people for their fetishes.

if the “lecture” was for the anonymous reader, so be it... no problem on my end.

It wasn't a lecture, and it was just a totally general statement for the anonymous reader

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

@nailz you say:


"It wasn't a lecture, and it was just a totally general statement for the anonymous reader "

Ok. I'm not sure why that remark about:

This is a sex site: If you're uploading pics of yourself naked you shouldn't be scandalized when guys do gross things with them

was posted for... What did you mean by this if you're not lecturing us or implying that we're up-tight and you're totally chill?

With that sarcastic face?

Not buying it.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

This makes complete sense to me. I’d like to apologize for presuming these odd pics from strangers would be appealing in some way. I sincerely apologize and I appreciate the ladies on this site who help me to better understand My sexuality.

It's cool, thank You for taking the time to read our replies and take them to heart.

I've had many requests for this and never accepted, and was never surprised by finding one randomly that I didn't give permission for so all in all my experiences with "tributes" here are no harm done.

I wouldn't like finding one out of nowhere, but that's almost impossible now unless someone still has pics of me saved from when the gallery was open. It's been years tho, so since I haven't seen anything floating around I'm thinking I'm ok.

 

[286798]

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An example of someone here on LPSG asking for consent.

Politeness goes a long way. I once had some random guy ask me if I could please send him a foot pic, and he asked so unbelievably politely, respectfully and nicely I thought why not? and took one for him It's a relatively harmless request.
Sites like this are supposed to be fun places for people to unwind and socialize, not bicker and antagonize and berate or shame people for their fetishes.

I get that... but each time someone asked me, my answer has been no... and just because I don’t want to get a spoogey pic back doesn’t mean I’m berating or shaming him for asking. It’s just not my thing.

And I don’t think any of the responses here berated or shamed the OP, any man who digs making these, or women who dig receiving them. There has been a pretty resounding “i don’t get it”, but no judgement. Just my perspective, anyway.

 

[MrsTomt]

Being part of an exhibitionist couple on here I find it's a fun "tribute" (no pun intended) to the voyeurs watching that we know you are and enjoy it. Otherwise we would all be fully clothed. I feel it's all in good fun. Lord knows we need a distraction from 2020 lol.

 

[deleted924715]

Nobody was scandalised by men wanking, so chiding behaviour that hasn't happened comes across as self-promoting and snarky. Not to mention unnecessary. These are some of the kinkiest women I know. You'd think we were standing here clutching our pearls with placards at the LPSG entrance, warning men they'll burn in hell if they have a wank. Tributes seem silly and don't turn me on and I don't have to pretend they do - that doesn't equate to being scandalised.

It's ok not to pander

 

[4388301]

If it is something I have specifically asked for. Otherwise, no thanks.

If done as a task given in a kinky way, it could be fun. I would have requirements given that would make it more interesting/titillating to me, anyway. A reward task after a successful Locktober kind o thing, perhaps

 

[MrsTomt]

I think we need a discussion on who we would do a tribute for. Turn it around on the men for once lol. I don't think I'm alone saying I like to perve as well. So ladies...who is the hottest guy on here?

 

[286798]

I think we need a discussion on who we would do a tribute for. Turn it around on the men for once. Show your goods first then we follow suit. Take a little bit of that power dynamic back.

I think that happens in the galleries and Show Off forum if thats your thing... you'll probably have no shortage of men willing to participate! Knock yourself out, but kindly keep that out of AaW or WI as its not relevant.

 

[MrsTomt]

I think that happens in the galleries and Show Off forum if thats your thing... you'll probably have no shortage of men willing to participate! Knock yourself out, but kindly keep that out of AaW or WI as its not relevant.

Wow for a site that is for escapism you sure are some angry people lol. I'll be on my way. Enjoy your philosophical debates!

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Wow for a site that is for escapism you sure are some angry people lol. I'll be on my way. Enjoy your philosophical debates!

Angry? Fucking LOL.

She was being helpful. You should appreciate it.

 

[MrsTomt]

What I think is everyone comes here for a release from the day to day monotony of life. If that's shallow so be it. But if you come to a place called LARGE PENIS support group most likely your first impression wasn't something akin to a book club. Have fun and relax...Jesus Chist…

[ Mod edit: Quote of inappropriate post from a man other than the OP deleted ]

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

There's no code outside of the ToS. No one is telling her to leave.

If someone can't take honesty maybe this is the wrong section for them. Just a thought.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

What I think is everyone comes here for a release from the day to day monotony of life. If that's shallow so be it. But if you come to a place called LARGE PENIS support group most likely your first impression wasn't something akin to a book club. Have fun and relax...Jesus Chist...

Maybe stop replying to posts which are violating the terms of service? Just another bit of advice from someone who's been here longer than you.

You're welcome

 

[4388301]

The individuals on here who I find attractive are well aware o it without me posting it in some random thread

 

[MrsTomt]

Maybe stop replying to posts which are violating the terms of service? Just another bit of advice from someone who's been here longer than you.

You're welcome

While I appreciate you reminding me you've been here longer please explain why you have an issue with benign statements that aren't controversial or involve you?