What opened your bi side?

[WilliamG]

WTF? Why does "sucking" make one a "bottom"? It has nothing to do with penetration. Is this more about the "I'm a top so I just put my dick in any hole and make zero effort" that give tops a bad name?

As I was trying to explain... MANY guys who ONLY suck without reciprocation call themselves "bottoms". Sure the correct term could be "oral bottom"... But this is what folks put down in their profiles. And tops are highly regarded in the online cruising world... Why? Maybe one out of ten profiles list themselves as "tops".

 

[aninterestingguy]

Congrats..how many creampies?

No creampie. I’m married to a woman so I have to stay safe and discreet. That said I’ve added 3 more guys to my list since August and now been fucked by 10 guys which is exactly the same number of women I’ve fucked. I need one more guy to fuck me for guys to take the lead. Took me 13 years of having sex to fuck 10 women and less than 3 to get fucked by 10 men.

 

[aninterestingguy]

As I was trying to explain... MANY guys who ONLY suck without reciprocation call themselves "bottoms". Sure the correct term could be "oral bottom"... But this is what folks put down in their profiles. And tops are highly regarded in the online cruising world... Why? Maybe one out of ten profiles list themselves as "tops".

Back when I only sucked dick and didn’t fuck I still considered myself a bottom because I only wanted to suck dick and didn’t care if the guys sucked me.

Now I’m a bottom because my hole is a ravenous little thing.

 

[d3m3trius]

No creampie. I’m married to a woman so I have to stay safe and discreet. That said I’ve added 3 more guys to my list since August and now been fucked by 10 guys which is exactly the same number of women I’ve fucked. I need one more guy to fuck me for guys to take the lead. Took me 13 years of having sex to fuck 10 women and less than 3 to get fucked by 10 men.

So are you saying men are whore and we drop our underwear quicker because you racked up your male partners with a quickness. Not judging just asking

 

[WilliamG]

So are you saying men are whore and we drop our underwear quicker because you racked up your male partners with a quickness. Not judging just asking

Not whores... Men are sluts. Whoring is pro-level. But with an app, a cruising location, and some free time... A guy in average shape can get fucked by a different guy at least once a month. As I've said, for men it's mostly transactional.

 

[aninterestingguy]

I won’t speak for all men but as a bottom I’m a total slut. The only criteria I have is halfway in shape and a big cock.

 

[TrynBi]

No creampie. I’m married to a woman so I have to stay safe and discreet. That said I’ve added 3 more guys to my list since August and now been fucked by 10 guys which is exactly the same number of women I’ve fucked. I need one more guy to fuck me for guys to take the lead. Took me 13 years of having sex to fuck 10 women and less than 3 to get fucked by 10 men.

As a bi guy, I’ve always said, it’s easier to get some dick than pussy. Men have standards but not like women. Even those standards can waiver when a guy is really horny too.

We are more drama free and don’t need all the fuss a woman sometimes needs to get in the sack. Ive been with many men who are straight but when drunk or high, will easily try a warm mouth or a hand job to cum if they can’t get lucky

 

[Tomtom10]

I guess I'd always taken a cheeky glance at other guys in the showers, but I assumed every guy did that. At the time, I had a girlfriend and we started experimenting with pegging - something that I was initially dead against, but to my surprise, I actually really enjoyed. After a nasty breakup with her, I went on a holiday to Thailand with some of the lads - it was a blast, and I ended up sleeping with a 'ladyboy' - it was my first sexual experience with another penis and it was an awakening. It felt so much better than pegging with a strapon - softer, yet more direct stimulation. Also, skin on skin was unbeatable.

When I returned home, I just wanted more of that feeling, so I downloaded Grindr and after a couple of days got chatting to a guy who seemed nice. We arranged to meet at his, and that was my first proper gay sex experience. For a while, I thought I was bi, but I now know that only men will do it for me! But that was my bi awakening.

 

[txviewer]

As a bi guy, I’ve always said, it’s easier to get some dick than pussy. Men have standards but not like women. Even those standards can waiver when a guy is really horny too.

We are more drama free and don’t need all the fuss a woman sometimes needs to get in the sack. Ive been with many men who are straight but when drunk or high, will easily try a warm mouth or a hand job to cum if they can’t get lucky

Exactly this. When I mess around with a guy, it's just for the physical pleasure - I don't want to get wrapped up in any drama or emotions. We're both just providing a sexual release for one another.

 

[31987991]

I have always fascinated by nice big juicy cocks as long as I had been watching porn growing up but I never did anything till college!

My first real experience touching another man (indirectly) was in college.. I was at a party and ended up in a threesome with a girl friend and her fuck buddy, well we were both nailing her when my balls touched his and it felt fucking ahhh-mazing! Both our nut sacks were all slippery and slimy from her ass and pussy juice and her sucking us both off and on.. it was fucking heaven, pretty sure we both came inside her at the same time.

Then I had another time the same girl was sucking me and a different guy at the same time and she wanted to compare us together.. well she didn't tell me she was going to do it but she kinda knocked / banged my dick and this other guy's cock together and ended up having both our dicks in her mouth at the same time and mannnnnn it was fucking hot LOL! It took A LOT for me not to explode!! He loved it too!

A few days later she asked if I was cool with it and I said hell yeah that was hot as fuck!! She told me she wanted to see which one was bigger and thicker hahaha! He was all but the same length as me but a tad smaller in girth!

Well this guy ended up becoming a great suck buddy of mine.. I did lots of awesome things experimenting together with him and my gal pal LOL! He was the first guy to suck me off and it started my bi-experience journey! I still talk to both of them to this day. They are both married with kids now! (not together LOL)

 

[SatisfactionaryFine]

A threesome with my ex girlfriend. She said it'd be hot if me and the other guy sucked each other off. So we did. Rest is history.

 

[zaratoga]

A threesome with my ex girlfriend. She said it'd be hot if me and the other guy sucked each other off. So we did. Rest is history.

Please share what you remember about that day.

 

[HemmingwayI]

Please share what you remember about that day.

A threesome with my ex girlfriend. She said it'd be hot if me and the other guy sucked each other off. So we did. Rest is history.

I can't help wondering what had led her to believe that you would even consider doing that?

 

[Mister2101]

I love these.......always a small element of truth in each picture and caption......if we are honest with ourselves and each other, we can admit the "truth"......most of us have always been curious about gay sex.....and the pictures and movies of men enjoying sex just looks super hot.....

 

[Mister2101]

I love these.......always a small element of truth in each picture and caption......if we are honest with ourselves and each other, we can admit the "truth"......most of us have always been curious about gay sex.....and the pictures and movies of men enjoying sex just looks super hot.....

 

[Mister2101]

I had the urge and desire for gay sex for years..... Just never acted on those urges until I was married to a woman and in my 30's. But that curiosity and urges never left me.......they just got stronger and stronger...

I remember looking at Gay movies and magazines, thinking it was all about the top....having his dick sucked and fucking another man in the ass......but then I started to notice that the bottoms always seemed to be really enjoying anal sex with big ol hardon's , lots of moaning and huge cumshots of their own........and the guys sucking cock also always seemed to be hard themselves......so that's when my desire to touch, feel and taste another man really took off.....I just knew I had to try sex with another man....

My first time with another man was everything I was hoping for......letting go of any fear, shame or inhibitions was so liberating.......and the feel, smell and taste of his cock was intoxicating.....I was hooked....

 

[BIGBULL29]

I had some big-cock curiosity when i was young, from a few VHS porns I found in moms stash and tapes viewed with buddies from school etc.Peter North in particular, i was fascinated by his dick and how much he could shoot.then we had a tall lanky neighbor that always was out in his yard wearing speedo type shorts and you could see a huge bulge. Mom was talking to him a lot, often she'd be by his side door when i would come home from school, lol always thought she was fucking him. I always peeked at it discreetly, he paid me to help clean his gutters a few times and I was really looking up at it when he was on the ladder.

Yrs later, I'd say the explosion of online porn REALLY peaked my curiosity. Along with intenet hookup sites, When I was 32 I finally sucked a hung guy i met on yahoo chat lol. I think thats the case for a lot of guys, you just simply see a LOT more big hard cocks no on an everyday basis via increased porn viewing, compared to decades past. So I think that in in itself leads many men to be tempted to try it. Couple that with the ease of hooking up online

Great post! Totally relate, buddy. Thanks for being honest.

I have a more bisexual side from so much exposure to male nudity online. Seriously, I never thought I'd find another man's ass hot (but I do now at times). I actually lust after it, even though I like pussy sex more (I'm not real into sex with men without a woman being in scene). To me, it's more just watching the male body, more than interacting with it.

I think a lot of men are curious because of there is so much male nudity and dick being seen. Back in the 70s and 80s, the only male nudity was Playgirl and hardcore porn. There were gay mags, but straighter men didn't have easy access to them outside of urban area/adult bookstores (would be seen as "gay"). Now male dick, male ass, male balls -- it's all the on steroids now. It's the reason why MFM's are so popular now. Some straight male porn star just said in an interview that MFM are the hottest thing right now (more than MFF and lesbian)

 

[d3m3trius]

Great post! Totally relate, buddy. Thanks for being honest.

I have a more bisexual side from so much exposure to male nudity online. Seriously, I never thought I'd find another man's ass hot (but I do now at times). I actually lust after it, even though I like pussy sex more (I'm not real into sex with men without a woman being in scene). To me, it's more just watching the male body, more than interacting with it.

I think a lot of men are curious because of there is so much male nudity and dick being seen. Back in the 70s and 80s, the only male nudity was Playgirl and hardcore porn. There were gay mags, but straighter men didn't have easy access to them outside of urban area/adult bookstores (would be seen as "gay"). Now male dick, male ass, male balls -- it's all the on steroids now. It's the reason why MFM's are so popular now. Some straight male porn star just said in an interview that MFM are the hottest thing right now (more than MFF and lesbian)

Your definitely on to something...
I feel the same way the amount of males viewing male on male content has risen

 

[BIGBULL29]

Your definitely on to something...
I feel the same way the amount of males viewing male on male content has risen

Some straight porn stud was talking about the big demand for MFM right now. You’re even seeing more male bi porn, too. A lot of buddies are little more into dudes because of all the male nudity online.

Dudes can be hot. I like watching male strippers at times. But I don’t like real interaction with men, through. I like them in my scenes, but not sucking each other’s dicks. I am open-minded. I could feel up a nice male stripper, I think, but I want pussy for a main entree.

I don’t care. What turns you turns you on.

 

[yld1]

Early age as my hormones were on fire..... Had some great times as a teen. Never gave a thought about gay, Bi or anything. Just when with it. Got married at 19 to a great woman we have enjoy are ourselves very much. I did tell her about my times with the boys as a teen and she was cool with it. All through our married I had the urges but never acted on them and that that lasted about 42 years. As I got older the urges were pulling hard on me. No pun intended. Met a contractor on a site out of town and one thing led to another and we did get together in my hotel room. So glad I did. It truly is me and I am a closet bi and I just enjoy feeling and sucking another mans cock.

How did it happen with the contractor