What opened your bi side?

[lycraluvr223]

EIm definitely fortunate it happened to me when I was younger and how it happened. Felt "normal", "natural" and importantly safe and non-judgemental.

My bi opening happened via a massage, that progressed over time. If I knew that the massage was going to be sexual, I would not have entertained it. However, during the course of a massage, when your body is being rubbed all over and you are turned on, the hand release that happened at the end, was both welcomed, appreciated and needed. So having a good experience the first time, I naturally kept going over and over time, the massage progressed further and futher, of what he did to me and what I did to him. As he was much older and his home, I felt safe, comfortable and was able to express myself sexually without any concern. It was also a lot of fun.

That sounds so natural. That's what I had wished had happened when I was younger. Now it seems I am trying to condense it or rush to figure out what I need,want or desire. I still love women but these feelings more than linger.

 

[bi2]

That sounds so natural. That's what I had wished had happened when I was younger. Now it seems I am trying to condense it or rush to figure out what I need,want or desire. I still love women but these feelings more than linger.

For a guy that is bi curious, I would highly recommend getting a MM massage. See how it feels, what the experience is like and use that as a guide as to whether you want to progress further.

If you go to legit male masseur, expect nothing to happen, which is fine. If one happens to progress the massage further, if your comfortable, explore this.

 

[lycraluvr223]

For a guy that is bi curious, I would highly recommend getting a MM massage. See how it feels, what the experience is like and use that as a guide as to whether you want to progress further.

If you go to legit male masseur, expect nothing to happen, which is fine. If one happens to progress the massage further, if your comfortable, explore this.

That sounds like a great idea. Hadn't thought of that approach and I could really use a massage. Thank you for the idea.

 

[lycraluvr223]

I think I'll try sketching a storyboard of a massage encounter. I'll send it to you when I get done.

 

[Mister2101]

It was videos just like this that convinced me I wanted and needed to try sex with another man........watching and listening to the bottoms.......how hard their cock got while being fucked......how much cum they unloaded when cumming.....how loud their moaning was.....the physical sexual pleasure they are experiencing is so real, so powerful......I just knew I wanted to feel and experience all of that....combined with the simple pleasure of sucking another mans cock.......

 

[lycraluvr223]

It was videos just like this that convinced me I wanted and needed to try sex with another man........watching and listening to the bottoms.......how hard their cock got while being fucked......how much cum they unloaded when cumming.....how loud their moaning was.....the physical sexual pleasure they are experiencing is so real, so powerful......I just knew I wanted to feel and experience all of that....combined with the simple pleasure of sucking another mans cock.......

Great descriptions of the feelings.

 

[bi2]

That sounds like a great idea. Hadn't thought of that approach and I could really use a massage. Thank you for the idea.

Happy to help. Just think a legit massage from a guy is a great intro to see how comfortable you are with the experience. A nice one hour massage will give you a guide as to how you feel and think about during the session. Its totally harmless and at worst, you get a great massage, at best it can be the foundations of going to another level with a guy.

When I was younger and received my first massage, it felt so sensual and I felt incredibly sexy. Even though I naively it was legit. I was totally naked and draped with a cloth. However he always kept my ass cheek and or dick partially exposed. While I felt a bit vulnerable, I liked having it open and exposed. I was getting so very aroused and my dick started bouncing around and leaking precum everywhere. lol. While I was embarassed, he comforted me, when he would scoop it and massage my precum into me. It was such a turn on, it reinforced in me, that he was totally comfortable with my precum and this allowed me to feel at ease.

Even when he caressed my nipples with oil and my precum, I still didnt think it would progress sexually, again my naivety, inexpereince and being younger. Even when he then progressed to massaging deeply my groin and abdomen area surrounding my dick, I didnt think it would lead to anything. However at this stage, I communicated clearly to him, by spreading my legs and moaning that I was indeed enjoying the pleasure he gave me. I think this signal on my part, gave him the go ahead to "accidentally" grab my dick while continuing to massage that area. It took me literally last than a minute to cum once he began masturbating me via hand relief.

Of course after blowing my load everywhere, I had conflicting emotions of pleasure, relief, guilt and shock. However and importanttly he made me feel so reassured that everything was "fine", "normal" and nothing to be ashamed about I left his place relaxed and at ease.

I enjoyed the massage so much I came over a few days later. I was still very nervous as I sheepishly knocked on his back door to avoid being seen by anyone. He was so friendly, welcoming and accomodating without any judgement.

As I kept coming around for "massages", he kept giving them to me, each time he slowly and very strategically progressed with what he did to me, what I did to him and what we did together. It was beautiful.

 

[lycraluvr223]

I'm starting to fantasize about getting a massage. Dripping precum.

 

[HemmingwayI]

I'm starting to fantasize about getting a massage. Dripping precum.

It is just too bad that we can't see that!

 

[lycraluvr223]

Happy to help. Just think a legit massage from a guy is a great intro to see how comfortable you are with the experience. A nice one hour massage will give you a guide as to how you feel and think about during the session. Its totally harmless and at worst, you get a great massage, at best it can be the foundations of going to another level with a guy.

When I was younger and received my first massage, it felt so sensual and I felt incredibly sexy. Even though I naively it was legit. I was totally naked and draped with a cloth. However he always kept my ass cheek and or dick partially exposed. While I felt a bit vulnerable, I liked having it open and exposed. I was getting so very aroused and my dick started bouncing around and leaking precum everywhere. lol. While I was embarassed, he comforted me, when he would scoop it and massage my precum into me. It was such a turn on, it reinforced in me, that he was totally comfortable with my precum and this allowed me to feel at ease.

Even when he caressed my nipples with oil and my precum, I still didnt think it would progress sexually, again my naivety, inexpereince and being younger. Even when he then progressed to massaging deeply my groin and abdomen area surrounding my dick, I didnt think it would lead to anything. However at this stage, I communicated clearly to him, by spreading my legs and moaning that I was indeed enjoying the pleasure he gave me. I think this signal on my part, gave him the go ahead to "accidentally" grab my dick while continuing to massage that area. It took me literally last than a minute to cum once he began masturbating me via hand relief.

Of course after blowing my load everywhere, I had conflicting emotions of pleasure, relief, guilt and shock. However and importanttly he made me feel so reassured that everything was "fine", "normal" and nothing to be ashamed about I left his place relaxed and at ease.

I enjoyed the massage so much I came over a few days later. I was still very nervous as I sheepishly knocked on his back door to avoid being seen by anyone. He was so friendly, welcoming and accomodating without any judgement.

As I kept coming around for "massages", he kept giving them to me, each time he slowly and very strategically progressed with what he did to me, what I did to him and what we did together. It was beautiful.

It all came together. That's so cool. How did you feel during the first time he was in your mouth? And when he came? How was it?

 

[lycraluvr223]

As a teenager I’d never once looked at a man in a sexual way. In the locker room everyone was a bit shy so no one ever flaunted. But one time, one of the guys stripped off completely. I turned and saw this huge uncut cock dangling over the edge of the bench as he sat down. Can picture it to this day. I think my jaw must have dropped and I almost came on the spot. Was quite confusing as a relatively try man but it obviously awoke something primitive.

Well said. Awoke something primitive. I also never thought about guys at all. But peering thru the hole I saw in the flickering light stretching his cock . Breathless, insides churned and my minds eye spoke. Telepathically, I pleaded for him to bring it here. Slowly it poked thru and I realize I'm inches away from him. I was running on autopilot. Spongy , soft, warm. The memory of that night is burned into my mind even though it happened in 84. I didn't think about that for decades. Like it never had happened but a soloflex brochure turned on a switch in me. Why am I craving cock now? Why did I back then? How could it lay dormant for so long? What if I had gone home with him then? I'd be a different person right now

 

[Jonny5isalive]

I am 30 and always had an attraction to lads/men. My biggest regret is this…..

On a stag doo I was sharing a room with my good looking best mate. We were both lying on separate beds after the day session, just before getting ready for the night. I looked over and saw him with a massive hard on in his boxers on his bed. Didn’t think too much of it but was horny, especially since both of us had a drink.

He then got up a few mins later, wipped his boxers off with a semi on and asked “do you think I’ve got a big cock” then walked towards the shower. Turned round and asked if I was getting in the shower with him. He did have a big cock and nice body.

I just froze at the time. Gutted really as I wished I got in now. He’s wifed up with two kids now but I definitely believe something would have happened that night.

What you reckon?

 

[AHandfull]

So...my mother made a mistake by putting my friend and I together in the same bed at a sleepover. It was my sister's room but she was gone for some reason. Lying in the dark I grabbed one of her small stuffed animals and I was joking around with it and stuffed it down my tightie whities and we laughed.

Then he said let me see it. I said nope. Go get it. And to my surprise my buddy, who was a much smaller stature than me, proceeded to try to reach inside the band of my underwear and we wrestled in bed for a minute until he managed to slide his hand inside. Okay fine. I will admit, I sort of wanted him to be able to get inside after feeling some latent desire.

We continue to struggle and finally he wrapped his hand around the animal's neck and my full erection in one grip and we stopped. I remember the stirring feeling in my body to this day and I remember seconds passing while we were breathing heavy neither of us said anything at all. After about 5 Seconds he pulled his hand out and we both laid back down and stared at the ceiling. Then he says you ever play Truth or Dare?

Of course I hadn't at that point and so we proceeded to ask progressively sensitive questions and eventually ended up naked under sheets because of dares... and eventually had to touch the other guy's cock for 10 seconds and then eventually wrap our lips around the other guy's cock and pretend that it was disgusting and that we were trying to "endure" the 10 seconds .....and that's as far as it went.

And succeeding years at a canoe trip in a tent and then in a cabin on a hunting trip with buddies we would always magically end up in the same room or in the same tent and we would pretend to pick up our game of truth or dare and it would last about three questions and we ended up sucking each other off in the dark.

I was twice his size in terms of girth and ball size and so I found that thrilling I guess from a dominance perspective? I also loved taking his entire cock and balls in my mouth as he was hung like a thumb and watching his eyes roll back in his head. He always came in less than a minute, so I never really got a whole lot of practice.

Anyways I am rambling. This happened maybe a half dozen times in our life, we are still best friends, both married with kids, but our interactions are few and far between and now he objects to his past behavior based on religious grounds. It's a shame. We can't even talk about it. I have sent him a couple emails thanking him for the early experiences as that is what opened my eyes to intimacy with another man and I don't get a lot of response in return. Disappointing.

Regardless I am thankful for that early experience in my life even though back in the'80s I was fearful that that meant that I was gay and in reality now I just know that I'm somewhere on the spectrum like we all are. Walking down the streets I see 20 women that make my head snap every day and I'm in love with women and I don't "see" attractive men, but there's something about sharing an experience with a close buddy, another married man that is undeniably attractive.

 

[Jonny5isalive]

Any other lads with same sex thoughts absolutely wank themselves silly over their mates they find attractive? I must have done it over about 50+ lads in my lifetime. Cum every single time too then have to act ‘normal’ when I am around them. ‘Mentally’ had sex with the majority and sneakily checked a lot of them out when they have been topless/naked etc, checked out plenty arses too. Some of them with girlfriends/wives, I imagine them having sex sometimes which turns me on.

Am I abnormal?

 

[zaratoga]

Any other lads with same sex thoughts absolutely wank themselves silly over their mates they find attractive? I must have done it over about 50+ lads in my lifetime. Cum every single time too then have to act ‘normal’ when I am around them. ‘Mentally’ had sex with the majority and sneakily checked a lot of them out when they have been topless/naked etc, checked out plenty arses too. Some of them with girlfriends/wives, I imagine them having sex sometimes which turns me on.

Am I abnormal?

No. You're being honest --- Several have been curious before you:
Finally Seeing Someone Naked

 

[deleted158076]

It was actually seeing my wife's ex at a nude beach....... It was as big soft as me hard ....

 

[ANYHONYK]

Opportunity came out of nowhere and I just did it, then wanted/ want more sine

 

[HemmingwayI]

Are men who are attracted to transvestites bisexual or straight?

 

[halcyondays]

Are men who are attracted to transvestites bisexual or straight?

Depends on the individual. I'm bi and I've been.

 

[Mister2101]

Are men who are attracted to transvestites bisexual or straight?

I love trans women......