When did you realise you were over average and what did it change into knowing it? (18+ only)

[deepvoicedan]

Like one or two others said, I thought I was average at best and dismissed girls saying otherwise, assuming they said it to everyone to make them feel good. I was in my late 20s by the time I realised that average was smaller than I thought and that was also when I knew about average girth. My size is mostly thickness. Now I know and my partner often tells me, it really improves sex for me. The only problem is I can only watch big cock porn!

 

[DiomedesXVI]

HS showers

I know what you mean. I was in my oblivious and denying phase , but I too heard in HS that I had a tree trunk of a cock

 

[Bristolian69]

The only problem is I can only watch big cock porn!

Same here and they have got to be quite a bit bigger than me for it to have the impact. Which means my porn consumption seems to centre around a pretty limited group of performers.

 

[TryHarrd]

Same here and they have got to be quite a bit bigger than me for it to have the impact. Which means my porn consumption seems to centre around a pretty limited group of performers.

This is one of the side effects I didn't expect :-( Now I know how big I am and the tricks played in porn, I can't help look and think, 'Well, I'm bigger' completely ruining it. It's already getting to the point I'm leaning more towards women masturbating or lesbian clips because I'm becoming so critical!

How so much has changed in the last couple of months...

 

[littleguyhugecock]

HS showers

Same here
. Everyone was statein

 

[littleguyhugecock]

Same here
. Everyone was looking at my cock

 

[bigbucky]

at that time I had a new gf and she was not on the pill. so we used condoms or tried to. I shredded them shortly after getting them on. this was early 70's, large condoms were not available, there was not a lot of info available about size like today's internet age. I was told I was big but no facts. it was based on the girl's experiences. anyway, we fucked "bareback" and I pulled out before cumming but that's not the most reliable. we broke up after a few months. I was actually too big for her on a daily basis, and she was afraid of getting pregnant as was I. I was very careful I did not become a daddy until I was ready.

 

[clifton]

My father is monstrous, especially when he was younger. When I was younger (and didn't know better) I almost felt embarrassed when I was in public swimming pools or gyms with him. He was so thick (soft it must have been easily 6-7" around) and long also. When I was trying out condoms and wondering why they're so small and tight and always breaking. And seeing my dad's huge cock I wondered if mine was as big as his. I watched a lot of porn and thought that was the norm. Then people were talking about my size. And then girls always said it was so big and sometimes it didnt fit

 

[neintynein]

someone once said to me "You know that whole thing about how size doesn't matter?" "Yeah?" "I'm guessing nobody says that to you..." ""LOL!!!!"

But she may have been playing to my ego. Long here (maybe 7.75? wife measured me a bit below that bone pressed), but not girthy, wishing I could add some girth.

 

[deleted2553771]

I first realised I was hung when I didn’t fit into the speedos of other kids my age even though I was skinny.

 

[deleted2553771]

My father is monstrous, especially when he was younger. When I was younger (and didn't know better) I almost felt embarrassed when I was in public swimming pools or gyms with him. He was so thick (soft it must have been easily 6-7" around) and long also. When I was trying out condoms and wondering why they're so small and tight and always breaking. And seeing my dad's huge cock I wondered if mine was as big as his. I watched a lot of porn and thought that was the norm. Then people were talking about my size. And then girls always said it was so big and sometimes it didnt fit

Lmao I was very similar. My dad always made me look small at the gym.

 

[uncuttexasdad]

When I started camming. I always thought I was about average. People were wow you’re big. Nah, I’m not huge like some here. 7.5x6

 

[uncuttexasdad]

I am uncut and that was very unusual where I grew up, so I was shy. However, my cock got a great deal of positive attention in school from both sexes. They wanted to see it and measure it. All of a sudden, I loved my cock. This attention made me the exhibitionist I am today!View attachment 94561491

Nice big pole. Same here I’m a grower

 

[LiterallyAnythingElse]

When I was about 23 or 24 I hooked up with a "cougar" she was 41
The first time she felt my equipment through my jeans.
she said " Wow your cock Is huge! I have to see it!" We then went to her place and started to fool around . She instantly went for my crotch and unfastened my pants, and yanked them down. She replied, this is one of the biggest cocks, I have ever seen!
"Trust me I have been around the block a few times!"
On a Trip to Reno one time me and a buddy decided to see what an Asian hot oil massage was all about. I am in one room and
my buddy was in another, During my session when the happy ending time of the massage happened, The girl giving the massage removed my towel and her eyes got big and she just stood there staring at my tool. Then she said accuse me I will be right back, she quickly left, then came back with another girl and they both spoke to each other in their native tongue, for a few seconds,
The new girl in English said to me that the first girl was startled a bit about how big my penis was and wanted her to help massage me also has she felt that her hands where too small and four hands would be better.
I laughed about that one later!
These two times are the most memorable.

So did they both stroke it?

 

[Sandymat]

When i went to nude beach and want to hold it next to there’s

 

[pbmonkey]

So did they both stroke it?

yes the other girl helped the first one

 

[GetMeAnotherInch]

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I actually found video and grabbed frames off of what very probably was first completed attempt at a facial and, after quite a while, what a facial!!!

We had no clue about real sex, we used to watch some porn together and when she forgot being shy we would also "perform" on the early internet era beginning of new millenium, until now we were almost sure all dicks being huge and cumshot being Peter North so we both thought being average even tho she used to give some great performances but never thought of my dick to be anything not falling in if not below average.

When we broke up I know she had some other experiences and once back at me I can tell she was enjoying me even tho she never made any mention, actually I got commented about 10 years ago when entertain myself with a 10 years older lady who kept screaming in Spanish for almost an hour and the only thing I could grab was she asking not to get near her other hole

Later on I met a woman I still date on and off, she had quite some experiences and it was fun the first time we had sex, on the very first date, she went to the restroom to wash and once back I was, surprisingly to myself as I am quite shy and self conscious about both my body and dick, still naked and she passed a comment on my size and she also commented in front of her friends once we went to one of theirs house and she made me blush to the moon and back, the worse was when she, a bit high, said "lui ha un bellissimo cazzo" (you translate) when we were sitting in front of a club waiting to get back in...

Unfortunately for me even tho I never had any complain, besides one which I then later fixed, and a few appreciations I never thought high of me in that dept (as well as in others) mostly because of built-in poor confidence (it would take another thread to discuss psychology of self esteem) and too much porn, I guess that knowing being well endowed or, let's say, above average gives a great boost to confidence.

 

[rybkapipka]

I remember reading once that a penis should be around 15 centimeters in length. I thought: OK, my penis definitely has that much. Only later did I read that it should have this much in an erection. I was surprised because I did the measure when my cock was flaccid

I also remember watching porn with my friends for the first time in my life. They were commenting that the guy had a big dick and at the same time I thought I actually had a bigger one.

But in those days it was better not to say it out loud, lest you be considered an idiot...

 

[rope9839]

Right after I turned 18. I became really obsessed on finding ways to fuck older women that whole summer before college.

 

[Lion24]

I always wondered how many guys have a long soft penis but, when erected, they reach just an average size.

When I'm fully soft, my dick is shrinking to around 10 centimeters at a point that I even forget its existence. I avoid letting it out on occasions such as gym locker rooms after observing that most of the other fellows carry bigger and looser softies (I assume they are not wandering irritated or semi-erected).

However, by challenging many of my friends that fit into this group to compare our hard-ons, I noticed that when they reached full glory, some were the same but most were smaller than me who I obtain an eggplant of around 21.5 centimeters. They were impressed as I was, calling my dick a magic sword. This is something I have also noticed with many pornstars.

I may take some dick photos of mine and post them here later.

Trying to find information about this phenomenon, I didn't reach explanations, but I'm still jealous of the "showers" who can feel confident standing soft in front of their partners or others and at the same time remain appealing.

I would like to belong to this group, I feel I'm missing so much fun and furthermore, I suppose that as I will be reaching a mature age, it may reduce my "growing" potential.

P.S. Does any of you guys know any trick to help prevent the shrinkage of my penis and help loosen it for some adequate duration? Thank you