When did you realise you were over average and what did it change into knowing it? (18+ only)

[Dangercurve]

When I was young, I watched a lot of porn, and I also compared my size with some objects . Once I was curious and I searched the internet for the average and several pages coincided, I took a ruler and made a measurement. It was gratifying to see that it was bigger than what was considered average. This was reinforced when I started having sex and compare. Many times people praised my size.

 

[Jacksbiguncutcock]

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I am uncut and that was very unusual where I grew up, so I was shy. However, my cock got a great deal of positive attention in school from both sexes. They wanted to see it and measure it. All of a sudden, I loved my cock. This attention made me the exhibitionist I am today!View attachment 94561491

Thanks for all the likes!!!

 

[deleted21788731]

First realized I was average in high school when we were comparing dicks in the shower in boarding. It made me realize that if I don't get dates or hookups, my big fat dick is there 4 me to play with

 

[marriedasian]

when enough women/men tell you that you're big and it's a consistent reaction for most of your sexual interactions, you will know.

this is how it was for me. almost every woman i've ever been with has always been pleasantly surprised and have told me so. at first, i thought they were just being nice but after repeated episodes of the same thing being said by various women whom did not know each other did it finally clicked for me.

i never boasted about it nor flaunted it. i just "knew" i had a big dick and went about my life. i was that "asian guy with the big dick" and it worked in my favor as many women were always curious about me but all the women who had asian fetishes came flocking. it was a blessing and curse at the same time.

i'm happily married now and it's not a big deal anymore. having a big dick doesn't really add value to your life as much as us men think it does. sooner or later, we all eventually figure that out.

 

[thickdonglatino]

when I was younger one of my moms boyfriends came in the bathroom as i was getting out of the bath and he made a comment about my size being impressive

 

[neintynein]

I always wondered how many guys have a long soft penis but, when erected, they reach just an average size.

When I'm fully soft, my dick is shrinking to around 10 centimeters at a point that I even forget its existence. I avoid letting it out on occasions such as gym locker rooms after observing that most of the other fellows carry bigger and looser softies (I assume they are not wandering irritated or semi-erected).

However, by challenging many of my friends that fit into this group to compare our hard-ons, I noticed that when they reached full glory, some were the same but most were smaller than me who I obtain an eggplant of around 21.5 centimeters. They were impressed as I was, calling my dick a magic sword. This is something I have also noticed with many pornstars.

I may take some dick photos of mine and post them here later.

Trying to find information about this phenomenon, I didn't reach explanations, but I'm still jealous of the "showers" who can feel confident standing soft in front of their partners or others and at the same time remain appealing.

I would like to belong to this group, I feel I'm missing so much fun and furthermore, I suppose that as I will be reaching a mature age, it may reduce my "growing" potential.

P.S. Does any of you guys know any trick to help prevent the shrinkage of my penis and help loosen it for some adequate duration? Thank you

10cm soft is actually bigger than average, if I remember rightly.

 

[ItalianBD]

I guess I realized in locker rooms and watching porn! I guess I've become more of a show off since then

 

[meadow7]

I guess I realized in locker rooms and watching porn! I guess I've become more of a show off since then

First girlfriend from England kept telling me, "you're sooo large" and was constantly compaining about being sore, but had sex woth me 70 times in 10 days during one visit. She had to cancel going to work when I came into town and had to sleep for 14 hours to get enough rest for having sex 7x per day (our record was 10x 3 times).

 

[PutItInHere691]

I knew from certain times in my life I was above average .. and then got bitched at by my brother.. I was 18 he was 21 . Because my dick was bigger than his..I just laughed and walked off

 

[Liftergio]

At first i only dated girls and when youre a teenager your just doing stuff randomly but when i was 25 or 26 my then girlfriend said i was stretching her out and that really surprised me. She compared me to others and said i was the first to make her quieef and squirt and have a very much girthier cock then the boys she went out with before. Also girls do look suprised at the shape of my cock its very fat, has a downward curve in the middle and 7" long, i dont bruise cervixes but i do make girls pussyfart and cream and go oooh waitwaitwait when i first go in a LOT. Does boost my confidence somewhat.

 

[pallmall84]

In my late Teenage years. It changed a lot, because after the first few tries on Sex I thought I was doing something wrong. Turned Out, I just Had to adapt to my size.

 

[MDM8]

Several stories similar to mine on here. I really didn’t “know” I was big until spending time and sharing pics and vids here on LPSG. I didn’t have very many sexual partners (only 6 women total) and so when I heard comments from them about being “big” I figured they were just stroking my ego. And growing up watching early porn like John Holmes, I thought my size wasn’t anything special (even though looking back now I’m not much smaller than him…)
So porn definitely skewed my perspective. Then when the internet came out and penis size information started becoming more mainstream I realized that I was at the far end of the typical bell curve. Since joining LPSG I now realize that I am definitely larger than average and “big”. It hasn’t really changed anything except just giving me some more confidence. Wish I would have known when I was younger and could have experienced sex with more women!! But happily married now to a woman that appreciates my size and “fits me well”!!

 

[pappiepapie]

Being bigger in the locker room than adult men, when I wasn't done growing yet.

 

[deepvoicedan]

at that time I had a new gf and she was not on the pill. so we used condoms or tried to. I shredded them shortly after getting them on. this was early 70's, large condoms were not available, there was not a lot of info available about size like today's internet age. I was told I was big but no facts. it was based on the girl's experiences. anyway, we fucked "bareback" and I pulled out before cumming but that's not the most reliable. we broke up after a few months. I was actually too big for her on a daily basis, and she was afraid of getting pregnant as was I. I was very careful I did not become a daddy until I was ready.

Before I knew I was big I had issues with condoms tearing or slipping off (due to girth) but assumed other guys had the same issues. Eventually I tried XL and it was only when I found one brand that does them for very thick cocks that they fit comfortably and stayed on without breaking. Which is crazy: I'm big but there are guys who are way bigger than me. They must really struggle to get big enough condoms.

 

[lapdog2001]

Before I knew I was big I had issues with condoms tearing or slipping off (due to girth) but assumed other guys had the same issues. Eventually I tried XL and it was only when I found one brand that does them for very thick cocks that they fit comfortably and stayed on without breaking. Which is crazy: I'm big but there are guys who are way bigger than me. They must really struggle to get big enough condoms.

I've only had one (1) condom break while having sex, out of many hundreds of times of having sex with condoms. The key to prevent breakage is lube. I repeat, use lube!

I very quickly learned that despite her being very wet and prepared to take me in, that after a while her natural lubrication wasn't enough for her comfort. We started using lube, re-applying it if needed. Using lube from the start has allowed me to have many hundreds of wonderful sexual sessions without the worry of being able to enter her, condom breakage, etc.

 

[H.ricky]

I mentioned this before in similar thread. In P.E I was freeballing and my coach pulled me aside and basically told me there’s a time & place because my bulge was pronounced. At the time it then started to click that Im packing.

also being in the locker room and seeing others put that in perspective. You don’t really know what you have until you see what else is out there if that makes sense

and then early on in my sexual experiences just based on girls and their reaction

 

[jackie_p]

First time with a woman.

 

[BigAl9]

My answer would be similar to jackie_p.

 

[BillR31]

My first lover and first wife had a problem with my size, but she thought it was her, and it might have partly been. She was diagnosed with vagismus, vaginal spasm. This was the late 60s. My only previous experience was comparing size with a friend and I was a bit smaller. So until I divorced my first wife and began dating, I didn’t have much to go on, and never thought much about it.
My first sexual dating partners, all female started making me appreciate that I was over average. I remember one yelling “less, less!”, and one gave me a postcard titled “world’s largest organ”. Bumping into a cervix was all to easy, too. Later, when I was swinging, I never noticed any other guy who was as large as I was, but I wasn’t looking that carefully. The couples swapping were with smaller guys, too.
Later when I started m-m, I only found one guy who was larger than I was. I’m only 7+ × 5+, but that’s enough to be well on the right side of the bell curve.

 

[VIIby5]

I wish!!