Which type of bisexual are you?

[shojishoji]

There is no simple definition of bisexuality, and bisexual people are a very diverse group. There are several theories about different models of bisexual behavior. J. R. Little is a psychologist whose extensive research identified at least 13 types of bisexuality, as defined by sexual desires and experiences.

They are:

Alternating bisexuals: May have a relationship with a man, and then after that relationship ends, may choose a female partner for a subsequent relationship, and many go back to a male partner in the future.

Circumstantial bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but will choose same sex partners only if they have no access to other-sex partners, such as when in jail, in the military, or in a gender-segregated school.

Concurrent relationship bisexuals: Have primary relationship with one gender only but have other casual or secondary relationships with people of another gender at the same time.

Conditional bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but will switch to a relationship with another gender for a specific purpose, such as young straight males who become gay prostitutes to make money or lesbians who get married to men in order to gain acceptance from family members or to have children.

Emotional bisexuals: Have intimate emotional relationships with both men and women, but only have sexual relationships with one gender.

Integrated bisexuals: Have more than one primary relationship at the same time, one with a man and one with a woman.

Exploratory bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but have sex with another gender just to satisfy curiosity or “see what it’s like.”

Hedonistic bisexuals: Primarily straight or gay/lesbian but will sometimes have recreational sex with a different gender purely for sexual satisfaction.

Recreational bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but engage in gay or lesbian sex only when under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol.

Isolated bisexuals: 100% straight or gay/lesbian now but has had at one or more sexual experience with another gender in the past.

Latent bisexuals: Completely straight or gay lesbian in behavior, but they have strong desire for sex with another gender but have never acted on it.

Motivational bisexuals: Straight women who have sex with other women to please their male partner who requests it for his own titillation.

Transitional bisexuals: Temporarily identify as bisexual while in the process of moving from being straight to being gay or lesbian, or going from being gay or lesbian to being heterosexual.

So....

Which type are you?

 

[msslave]

Wow! What a menu of Bi choices. I though we were just people who enjoyed both sexes.
Hedonistic bisexual, that would best fit me. I just enjoyed the pleasure. I guess women were my primary choice, but after sucking my first cock I realized I could enjoy both men and women. I haven't had as many male experiences as I'd like, but it's on my mind. I love looking at the big cock on this site, and enjoy SPH so I'm sticking around even tho' I small not large.

 

[SFLP]

Yes, that is quite the menu.

I believe some straight identified males may disagree with being bisexual under these classifications when they have experienced mutual masturbation with other males in early sexual development (treading carefully here with wording to not violate rules) to never repeat such experiences in adulthood, continuing on as exclusive hetero. Estimates in the U.S. are that up to around 30% of males have had such early experiences, but nowhere near that many identify as bisexual or gay as adults. Of course, labels and classifications are never perfect when it comes to humans, but I am not knocking the general definitions for each type. Seems that it may be more proper to be asking what type of bisexuality applies behaviorally as opposed to what type of bisexual someone is. Nuanced semantics.... Experiencing behavior that fits within these types of bisexuality is different than adopting a bisexual label for many. One is behavior oriented, the other is personal identity oriented.

There also maybe fluidity between some of the types overtime.

I believe with the given choices, concurrent relationship bisexuality has always applied to me.

 

[JackoffCool]

I gotta say...most of those types of people don't actually seem like Bisexuals. For example...Going straight to marry someone..That's not being bisexual, that's helping someone out; or transitional bisexual...the 'one foot out the closet' cliche applies here. This person isn't bisexual either. I'm just saying.

But I would say I'm a Latent Bisexual...I haven't acted on it yet but guys turn me on.

 

[Hoss]

Alternating bisexuals: May have a relationship with a man, and then after that relationship ends, may choose a female partner for a subsequent relationship, and many go back to a male partner in the future.

Seems to sum it up as I go for men and women according to who grabs my interest at the time. Have gone back and forth several times.

 

[deleted3782]

Lazy bisexual: Too bored or isolated to bother doing anything with anyone.

 

[EB2671]

concurrent relationship bi here

 

[dramlick]

Concurrent here as well

 

[craigsmith]

This bi sexual - No sex at home with the wife, I suck a cock once in a while, but I am usually to tired from work to even do that. So I don't get much sex at all. It has gotten to where it does not appeal to me anymore. I do like to look at cock pictures and porn, but that is about it. I don't even jack off but maybe once a month.

 

[jmn5]

Concurrent would be the label I best fit. I always play with the wife while exploring. Works for both of us nicely.

 

[PSG1964]

I don't seem to fit any of those categories, I tend to see a combo of personality, soul or spirit in the individual as well as if there looks do it for me. If they hapen to be a guy, then fine, if a female, then thats fine too.. In a way you could say I'm more "pansexual".

So I guess, whatever fate dishes out to me in my path through life is how I see it when it comes to meeting future partners.
I'm just glad that ultimately, human sexuality can be very fluid and I agree strongly with what the psychologist - Sigmund Freud said about everyone being born innately bisexual in the first place. Its just that family, cultural and social factors from day one influence us as to what "flavor" we get conditioned too. However, as one gets older and learns more about themselves, then the power of choice can take precedence.

 

[sleepiboi]

probably in the middle of Latent and Hedonistic. I don't completely want to be with a man, but it's like...if they day came where I wanted to, and the opportunity presented itself, and I was horny, then would probably give it a shot. Then become Isolated lol

 

[chiefone4u]

I would say I was this way to begin with -- Circumstantial bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but will choose same sex partners only if they have no access to other-sex partners, such as when in jail, in the military, or in a gender-segregated school.

Though, I now feel I fit this definition better -- Concurrent relationship bisexuals: Have primary relationship with one gender only but have other casual or secondary relationships with people of another gender at the same time.

 

[notsoshabby]

I prefer a relationship with women but I gotta suck cock or get fucked by a guy once a month or so. My current GF knows about it and let's me play with guys. Quite often we play with the guy together. I've tried dating a guy but can't do it so I'm guessing I'm either a "bad Bi" or a "cock sucking bottom straight guy"??

 

[damnimbi]

I always considered myself 'hetero-romantic', but 'bi-sexual'. Only once have I met a man that stimulated me emotionally (aside from an amazing cock).

 

[man2013]

i am just interested in getting fucked and eventually sucking cock, would prefere to get it from one those goregeous real TS but its almost impossible to find one

 

[shojishoji]

Wow, so mostly "concurrent" seems to be the norm here guys. Thx for the insight

 

[dgaf0020]

Non of those really match me. I'm in a hetero relationship but like gay sex. There's never been any feelings for the guys I've been with nor could I ever see being in a relationship with one.

 

[deleted22397]

We seem to be missing something from this list...

I will sleep with someone if I find them attractive, or have a relationship with someone I fall in love with and it doesn't matter one iota whether they are male, female, or transgender, or even if it came to it a Martian! It's the individual themselves that I am interested in.

What would that be categorised as?

 

[bailaidan]

Somewhere between concurrent and transitional, but well on my way and loving it.