Which type of bisexual are you?

[Derringer]

I have only been in relationships with women and have no desire for a relationship with a guy.
However for purely sexual reasons I have engaged in sexual activity with other guys but only with female participation as well. I have a rampant SPH fetish which makes it undeniably enticing.
I get very aroused being exposed and compared to better endowed men in the presence of women and found out during the course of an engagement with another couple that I was very willing to concede to sexual "submission" to another guy when the 2 women involved requested it. He fucked me in front of them (a first for me) and it was incredibly exciting but I need a female presence even as just a witness.
I am definitely mostly heterosexual but I do get off on sexual contact with guys in this or similar scenarios and view a fair bit of porn of various types including purely homosexual , transgender activity always comparing my tiny penis to the better endowed. I put myself in the place of one of the participants whilst imagining some woman or women watching.
I definitely can't say I am %100 straight but because of my particular need for some female presence either real or imagined I can't say I am purely bisexual either.
I fantasize about being dominated and fucked by a better endowed transgender person but that also requires a female involvement as well.
I have actually confessed this to my girlfriend including the suggestion that she is fucked in front of me as well. She is intrigued by the idea.

 

[Luvcutdick]

Concurrent ...................

 

[deleted779386]

Hedonistic, its purely for the sex

 

[CuriousN]

interesting approach. I wouldn't call myself bisexual yet, but in this approach I recognize myself as being willing to have bisexual experiences to see what it's like, to satisfy a curiosity. I just never came across the right opportunity. Mostly suits exploratory or latent right?

Exploratory bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but have sex with another gender just to satisfy curiosity or “see what it’s like.

Latent bisexuals: Completely straight or gay lesbian in behavior, but they have strong desire for sex with another gender but have never acted on it.

 

[juanchojuan]

Hedonistic. I find males atractive just for pleasure

 

[Haggard_Wisdom]

Hedonistic. I find males atractive just for pleasure

I feel exactly the same. When I go out I'm checking out the women not the blokes. I like crossdressers and male-to-female transgender people more than men, but I will find pleasure if it seeks me out. If a bloke in the dunnies checks me or my cock out I''ll respond and usually get a blowie.

When I lived in Melbourne I went to saunas and adult theaters. Mostly male attention but I'd sit down with an erect cock and the action would come to me. Blowies then fucking.

 

[bigboaster]

Some of these being considered any kind ofbbisexual at all is a bigggg stretch but okay...

 

[deleted19462351]

I don't know honestly, been single for quite a while and I don't feel like dating anybody (men or women) also I don't like casual hook ups either.

 

[dhbike]

Shows the diversity of human sexuality.

 

[doreymike]

Concurrent I think. I am hetero emotionally, but enjoy sex with both genders.

 

[bi2]

Happily closeted lol.

 

[deleted29181791]

"Hedonistic bisexuals: Primarily straight or gay/lesbian but will sometimes have recreational sex with a different gender purely for sexual satisfaction."

This is me. Gave the whole "relationship" thing with a man a try once. Didn’t work out. Coz of me, mostly. Not into it, not my thing.

 

[Mr.curious]

I would fall into the exploratory, Other than being Raped when I was in my teens by 9 men, I have not had an experience other than a guy sucking me once (the best bj i ever got), have yet to have an affair with a man. I am interested in exploring all at least once with someone who can be gentle if I decide to try anal. Is that too much to ask for?

 

[perthguy81]

I think I'm Alternating plus Concurrent bisexual. When I've had relationships with women I will have sex with men, but when I've had relationships with men I normally stick with men.

 

[TowerATL]

Basically Hedonistic. Attracted to women and relationship with women but also have a strong interest in the male physique.

 

[WilliamG]

I would fall into the exploratory, Other than being Raped when I was in my teens by 9 men, I have not had an experience other than a guy sucking me once (the best bj i ever got), have yet to have an affair with a man. I am interested in exploring all at least once with someone who can be gentle if I decide to try anal. Is that too much to ask for?

Man... Sorry for your early experience. That's rough.

May I suggest trying a toy on yourself first to experience anal. Waiting for another guy to do it can be very awkward and even uncomfortable (or worse... painful). By exploring yourself first, you gain immediate experience to convey to the guy you meetup with. As far as making it happen, a website like Sniffies is the fastest way to hookup with a guy. Just be clear on what you want and don't want. I've made some fun connections on this app.

 

[KinkyFunExhibitionist]

There is no simple definition of bisexuality, and bisexual people are a very diverse group. There are several theories about different models of bisexual behavior. J. R. Little is a psychologist whose extensive research identified at least 13 types of bisexuality, as defined by sexual desires and experiences.

They are:

Alternating bisexuals: May have a relationship with a man, and then after that relationship ends, may choose a female partner for a subsequent relationship, and many go back to a male partner in the future.

Circumstantial bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but will choose same sex partners only if they have no access to other-sex partners, such as when in jail, in the military, or in a gender-segregated school.

Concurrent relationship bisexuals: Have primary relationship with one gender only but have other casual or secondary relationships with people of another gender at the same time.

Conditional bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but will switch to a relationship with another gender for a specific purpose, such as young straight males who become gay prostitutes to make money or lesbians who get married to men in order to gain acceptance from family members or to have children.

Emotional bisexuals: Have intimate emotional relationships with both men and women, but only have sexual relationships with one gender.

Integrated bisexuals: Have more than one primary relationship at the same time, one with a man and one with a woman.

Exploratory bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but have sex with another gender just to satisfy curiosity or see what its like.

Hedonistic bisexuals: Primarily straight or gay/lesbian but will sometimes have recreational sex with a different gender purely for sexual satisfaction.

Recreational bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but engage in gay or lesbian sex only when under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol.

Isolated bisexuals: 100% straight or gay/lesbian now but has had at one or more sexual experience with another gender in the past.

Latent bisexuals: Completely straight or gay lesbian in behavior, but they have strong desire for sex with another gender but have never acted on it.

Motivational bisexuals: Straight women who have sex with other women to please their male partner who requests it for his own titillation.

Transitional bisexuals: Temporarily identify as bisexual while in the process of moving from being straight to being gay or lesbian, or going from being gay or lesbian to being heterosexual.

So....

Which type are you?

I started as a conditional bi but became more of a hedonistic bi

 

[deleted5502931]

I'd say a mix of concurrent/hedonistic

 

[bi2]

There is no simple definition of bisexuality, and bisexual people are a very diverse group. There are several theories about different models of bisexual behavior. J. R. Little is a psychologist whose extensive research identified at least 13 types of bisexuality, as defined by sexual desires and experiences.

They are:

Alternating bisexuals: May have a relationship with a man, and then after that relationship ends, may choose a female partner for a subsequent relationship, and many go back to a male partner in the future.

Circumstantial bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but will choose same sex partners only if they have no access to other-sex partners, such as when in jail, in the military, or in a gender-segregated school.

Concurrent relationship bisexuals: Have primary relationship with one gender only but have other casual or secondary relationships with people of another gender at the same time.

Conditional bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but will switch to a relationship with another gender for a specific purpose, such as young straight males who become gay prostitutes to make money or lesbians who get married to men in order to gain acceptance from family members or to have children.

Emotional bisexuals: Have intimate emotional relationships with both men and women, but only have sexual relationships with one gender.

Integrated bisexuals: Have more than one primary relationship at the same time, one with a man and one with a woman.

Exploratory bisexuals: Either straight or gay/lesbian, but have sex with another gender just to satisfy curiosity or see what its like.

Hedonistic bisexuals: Primarily straight or gay/lesbian but will sometimes have recreational sex with a different gender purely for sexual satisfaction.

Recreational bisexuals: Primarily heterosexual, but engage in gay or lesbian sex only when under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol.

Isolated bisexuals: 100% straight or gay/lesbian now but has had at one or more sexual experience with another gender in the past.

Latent bisexuals: Completely straight or gay lesbian in behavior, but they have strong desire for sex with another gender but have never acted on it.

Motivational bisexuals: Straight women who have sex with other women to please their male partner who requests it for his own titillation.

Transitional bisexuals: Temporarily identify as bisexual while in the process of moving from being straight to being gay or lesbian, or going from being gay or lesbian to being heterosexual.

So....

Which type are you?

In 2025, I really dont know what kind I am according to this post.

I enjoy sex with different women and get my emotional needs met through them, but only engage in physical MM sex with my current fuckbuddy who I hook up regularly once a month. I enjoy and crave being a sexual outlet for him as he is a top, neither of us want or need an emotional or intimate relationship so our hookups suit us both perfectly. To put it simply, he enjoys fucking and I enjoy being fucked, outside of that we go our seperate ways.

As much as our relationship is purely just lust and a physical carnal one, that moment when his body is spasming against mine and his grunts get louder, stronger and more aggressive and then he orgasms and cums deep inside me, its a wonderful intimate experience we share. Those precious few minutes we are one and having him give me a gift of his DNA inside me, really gives us all the intimacy we desire and crave. That moment post orgasm, I do feel a genuine closeness and happiness towards him. Its a very spiritual, sacred connection, for me at least, when my fuckbuddy takes me from behind and uses my body to bring him to orgasm to cum into me. It does overwhelm me with a deep connection with him, similarly him with me at this point of time. The spooning,"sleeping together" in his arms for a brief period while we recover and reset, does enhance a brief moment of intimacy.

 

[18wheeler]

I’m sadly “latent” but would definitely be something else, like “alternating” if I had been open about my sexuality when I was younger