Why Do Men Tend To Be More Size-obsessed Than Women?

[BigNavy]

Dick size is a measure of a man's sexuality and prowess. Nature hands the big dicks out to men at random. No amount of money or social position can replace or compensate for a big dick.

If I had $10 dollars for every time that some moron approached me in a locker room to tell me about his sports car / home in some exotic locale / newest expensive toy, while he stood there naked and small penis hanging (if it could), I would be a very wealthy man.

Exactly this

 

[hoag]

It's because we have the parts so obviously we're going to be more keen to compare them ("we have the same organ, but what's the difference between yours and mine?"). It's the same reason why women compare breast sizes more than men.

 

[deleted4500261]

Speaking from my own experience, men seem to be taught by each other at an early age that dick size indicates superiority as a male. It has gone on for a long time and has become ingrained in society. Phrases like “big swinging dick” “biggest dick in the room” “dick measuring contest” all imply, or outright state that having a big dick is an indicator of power or leadership.
So at an early age men and some women are indoctrinated into thinking that big dicks are important. That leads to men being obsessed with their cocks because they feel “less than” if they don’t literally measure up.
We know that penis size has nothing to do with actually power, or effective leadership or even great sex. If the mind attached to the cock is ineffectual then so will the cock be.

 

[chrisrobin]

This isn’t to say women can’t be size queens, obviously they can. However, I do notice that men tend to care more about dick size than women do.

Maybe it’s a primal thing? What do you guys think?

I think its a thing guys on various sites have, they think bigger is better.

 

[mrtman327]

Listen dude I love big cock a whole lot but there’s definitely more to being a man than your dick. And yeah BDE is very real but plenty of small guys have that kinda confidence too. Hell I’m average sized and I’m very confident with who I am as a person because I know I have a lot to offer. My skills in the bedroom are but a small part of that.

There’s a proper hole for every pole.

 

[deleted4500261]

U might care about other things but the most important thing is cock size.

A number bigger than most u say? Is that why u literally pay 10k for a 10 inches? I guess it definitely is bigger than most.

Yeah, I doubt 99.99% is correct. Even if it is, u'd probably cheat on a guy because there's always a bigger fish in the sea and u are a size queen. It's self explanatory.

I see it this way.
A good could be top notch, good looks, good body, good personality but u'd still pick big dick with questioning other traits over a guy with everything else. U might say u wouldn't, but truth is you would. Because I guarantee u, that if you are taken rn or not idk that guy is packing anaconda and his everything else comes in second (looks, personality, body, intelligence).

You’re coming in pretty hot for a person who has been here for 3 days.

 

[TinyPrincess]

You’re coming in pretty hot for a person who has been here for 3 days.

Actually think it's amazing how he knows women more than we do.

 

[TinyPrincess]

U might care about other things but the most important thing is cock size.

Wrong. But hey, you're a real man and I'm only a woman. Who am I to try to explain you anything, right...

 

[elklindoxxx]

Why are men obsessed about size: Porn/insecurity

My partner and I go with other couples and there are men who are bigger dicked than I am and I could care less. And I have seen others blast cum that would easily put Peter North to shame. Just get over it.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

So basically u look at men purely based on cock size in other words. Exempting, the moving part.
So he could look like chernobyl in the face, be obese, and have a 10 inch dong and he'd be a keeper? Interesting. Idk why but I always thought women that look like are like that, and that seem to be the truth. I suppose my inner self was correct this time

Did you read their entire post? “if he checks all the boxes AND has..,”

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Actually think it's amazing how he knows women more than we do.

Yeah. I decided yesterday to use the gender-neutral condensplain, but now the original applies.
So much mansplaining going on in here.

As far as why guys care about another guy’s peen, I’d say there’s likely a range of answers with differences for homosexual, bisexual (including curious and flexible) and pansexual men, straight dudes, and women who are attracted to penis-havers.
As the latter, I can say I don’t care about size unless it’s too small to function. Or too large to function. Or problematic because he’s all obsessed.

 

[deleted18278]

Evolutionary biology:

Men are programmed to want to produce as many offspring as possible:
1. Males compete with each other across all characteristics, those that rise in the dominance hierarchy are selected more often by women and therefore copulate more
2. Male sexuality is visually oriented, so one area of competition among men is cock size
3. Well developed genitalia is a sign of good health, masculinity, and testosterone.
4. Under developed genatalia will have a lower conception rate.

in millions of years of evolutionary history, based on analyzing DNA in the current population, there have been approximately twice as many females ancestors as males ancestors. It means half of human males that lived over millions of years didn't produce a currently living descendant, the other half produced two.

A big dick plays to all 4 factors, so men recognize that and emphasize it in their sayings, interactions, relations, and what they find hot makes sense.

Women are biologically and socially more narrative oriented so the fact that a male rose in the dominance hierarchy is more important than a big dick per say...but having a big dick doesn't hurt.

We aren't all walking around with 3 ft dicks because it obviously has disadvantages in sanitation, hunting, war, etc. That said Men have high variance in cock size because they basically work at all sizes so there isn't strong selective pressure to a specific size.

 

[Stanmeister]

Men tend to be visual creatures. We are energized and excited by what we see. Women tend to be energized and excited by what they experience. For them, life is so much more of a relational thing. Men compartmentalize a whole lot more. Women see dicks as part of something much more. Men can compartmentalize them out, and view them independent of the one who has a dick. It doesn't hurt either that men's sexual organs are so public.

 

[Hairy_pecs]

We just love to compare

 

[Stu311]

Speaking from my own experience, men seem to be taught by each other at an early age that dick size indicates superiority as a male. It has gone on for a long time and has become ingrained in society. Phrases like “big swinging dick” “biggest dick in the room” “dick measuring contest” all imply, or outright state that having a big dick is an indicator of power or leadership.
So at an early age men and some women are indoctrinated into thinking that big dicks are important. That leads to men being obsessed with their cocks because they feel “less than” if they don’t literally measure up.
We know that penis size has nothing to do with actually power, or effective leadership or even great sex. If the mind attached to the cock is ineffectual then so will the cock be.

Yep, it’s a societal thing in my view. Growing up you always hear about big dicks denoting something cool/manly/powerful, and small dick is used as an insult. Even though most guys I know, including myself, don’t really care about size and understand the vast majority of women don’t either, we do concede that society as a whole probably focuses too much on penis size - heck, there’s even a Wikipedia article on it. Dick size is also super variable and flaccid size, which is what most guys ever see in flesh besides their own, is a very poor indicator of erect size, adding to their insecurities.

 

[14668321]

having a big dick is ok, but you have to know how to use it. If you can't move with it, fuck the right way or say the right things its kinda not as fun. I can get off on an average cock just as well if you check the other boxes. But when you have a guy with a huge cock that can do it all - that is a keeper!

Probably not the right place to post this, but perhaps we should talk

 

[Magnum10x2]

Assuming there's a connection and passion...

When it comes to actual sex - they all seem to LOVE a big cock that can make them cum hard.

There are probably a lot of women who have never had their fornix entered or who have had a vaginal orgasm... Why would they obsess if they never had that feeling of being stretched and filled up or having a body-shaking vaginal orgasm?

Guys with big cocks, know how amazing it is - perhaps one of the many reasons bigger cocks are here - birds of a feather!

 

[deleted17370731]

I thought I was the only one who thought this. I’ve noticed women actually often get intimidated and men go through a wider variety of reactions.