xlcowboy

I subscribed and paid $50 dollars for some pics to be sent to me. A month later still haven’t gotten them. When I ask he just says he is super busy and will get to it when he can. Definitely don’t recommend subscribing.
Hey dude, it’s XL. I was remaining anon and silent on here, but I just saw your comment and I can’t ignore something like this. I am so sorry that I let you down like this. I wasn’t aware that this happened, and I don’t know I let this slip through the cracks. I’m not making any excuses for my negligence - 1 month+ delay on a simple custom pic request is absolutely unacceptable. I hope you can believe me that it was an accidental oversight, and give me a chance to make it right. If you’ll reach out to me on any of my social media pages, I’ll refund you double the money you lost on this, through whatever payment platform you prefer. I’ll also either complete your original request, or make you a new custom of your choice, for free, and I’ll move it to the front of my content schedule as soon as you send the request.
I know it doesn’t make up for disappointment and lost time, but I really do care, and I hope this helps.
-XLC
 
I've been with guys where their dick is too big it literally can't get really hard and seems like it is a semi. Probably the case here.
Hey, it’s XL. That was because of a combination of plain vanilla stage fright from being new to filming porn, especially as a straight guy filming for an all-male audience; plus severe cumulative physical and mental exhaustion from working 100+ hours a week, (all outdoors, all hard manual labor) for 2 years straight while building my ranch and ramping up my new cattle operation; plus as-of-that-time undiagnosed and untreated severe depression and anxiety; plus insecurity from not liking how I looked at the time after 2 years of working myself to death, living alone in the woods in a camper, recovering from 5 different sets of broken bones, and not really having the time or opportunities to take care of myself the way I’d have liked to.
Combine all of the above, and it literally all but put my dick out of commission for months. It was some bad times, y’all 😂
 
Hey, it’s XL. That was because of a combination of plain vanilla stage fright from being new to filming porn, especially as a straight guy filming for an all-male audience; plus severe cumulative physical and mental exhaustion from working 100+ hours a week, (all outdoors, all hard manual labor) for 2 years straight while building my ranch and ramping up my new cattle operation; plus as-of-that-time undiagnosed and untreated severe depression and anxiety; plus insecurity from not liking how I looked at the time after 2 years of working myself to death, living alone in the woods in a camper, recovering from 5 different sets of broken bones, and not really having the time or opportunities to take care of myself the way I’d have liked to.
Combine all of the above, and it literally all but put my dick out of commission for months. It was some bad times, y’all 😂
hi xl. i just wanted to say you are really handsome!!! can we know how big is that thing?
 
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Instagram is same old stuff
Hey dude, it’s XL. Sorry to hear that my Instagram is mehhh. For the record, I think it is too lol. Although it’s not for lack of effort or desire to make it better. I’m a legit full-time cowboy, pretty much the polar opposite of any kind of social media influencer. I had zero personal social media prior to starting my OF last year. Tbh I’d rather be just reading a book, or even doing my fkn taxes, than getting on social media haha.
However, selling porn isn’t just selling porn anymore. If I want to compete, I have to suddenly have a fully-developed, engaging, trendy, believable, consistent online personality, modified to fit multiple different platforms with different rules and engagement behaviors, and cater to each of their very different audiences.

Did I mention I’ve never used any of these platforms until a year ago, plus I’m working a combined 90-100 hours a week, every week, between running my ranch and my OF?
I care deeply about anything I do for work, including my OF and related social media, and it’s important to me that I do a good job anything I attempt. However, for OF and social media, I’m literally trying to learn in a vacuum. There’s no data, no research, no 3rd party resources or consultants, and really not even good ways to share ideas and problems with other creators.
Most difficult and frustrating though, is the fact that I never get any actionable feedback from followers or even paid subscribers. And I do mean none whatsoever. Either I make something that ppl like, and I learn of it through engagement and sales; or I do something ppl don’t like / fail to do something they want, and they just disappear. Unfollow, unsubscribe, never explain why.
And it’s only now, that I’m hours down the rabbit hole of whatever this place is, trying to figure out how much of my content is being stolen and reposted for free…do I accidentally find for the first time, some valid, tangible feedback about stuff I need to change.
Dude. To you and everyone else on here….there are at least 3 platforms on which you can instantly contact me anytime. I’m not trying to throw shade at anyone, but for real if y’all would just tell me what tf you want to see, I will make it happen. Asap.
Think about it. It’s my job to show you and give you what you want, how you want it, when you want it. That’s the only way I get paid for this gig. So like…fuck…can’t we all just work on communicating a little better going forward, fellas? 😂 Seems to me like that would be good for everyone involved.
Sorry for the rant. Thanks for listening, if you made it this far. I appreciate each of y’all.
-XLC
 
hi xl. i just wanted to say you are really handsome!!! can we know how big is that thing?
Hi there :) Thank you, that’s very kind of you to say.
My honest, accurate measurements, to the best of my knowledge on how to take them, are 8.5” x 6.5”. That’s length measured on top of the shaft, bone pressed at 0” and pulled taut parallel to the shaft, with length determined as the point where you would see the end of the tip of my cock under the ruler if you were looking down from directly above it. If that makes sense (Some ppl lay the tape on top of their cock and roll it down with the curvature of their head, which gives a falsely higher length.
Disclaimer: those are my measurements from an absolutely perfect, laser-focused, throbbing erection. Like one where you look at it and go “yup, that’s my cock being it’s all-time best self right there!”😂
For your average Tuesday, bored and hammering on it after work erection, it’s gonna be closer to 8”.
Soft - nobody knows from one minute to the next, least of all me 😂 I’m very much a grower. When I’m soft, it could be pleasantly chubby and heavy, hanging well over 6” at times. Or on the other hand, like earlier today when I was 20ft in the air on a ladder and caught a stiff breeze while reaching up to screw in a rafter….that fucker made like a turtle, headed inside, and wasn’t any more than 2” when I made it back to the ground 🤣🤣
 
Hey dude, it’s XL. I was remaining anon and silent on here, but I just saw your comment and I can’t ignore something like this. I am so sorry that I let you down like this. I wasn’t aware that this happened, and I don’t know I let this slip through the cracks. I’m not making any excuses for my negligence - 1 month+ delay on a simple custom pic request is absolutely unacceptable. I hope you can believe me that it was an accidental oversight, and give me a chance to make it right. If you’ll reach out to me on any of my social media pages, I’ll refund you double the money you lost on this, through whatever payment platform you prefer. I’ll also either complete your original request, or make you a new custom of your choice, for free, and I’ll move it to the front of my content schedule as soon as you send the request.
I know it doesn’t make up for disappointment and lost time, but I really do care, and I hope this helps.
-XLC
So you’re not AI generated ? You’re real 🫣
 
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Hey dude, it’s XL. I was remaining anon and silent on here, but I just saw your comment and I can’t ignore something like this. I am so sorry that I let you down like this. I wasn’t aware that this happened, and I don’t know I let this slip through the cracks. I’m not making any excuses for my negligence - 1 month+ delay on a simple custom pic request is absolutely unacceptable. I hope you can believe me that it was an accidental oversight, and give me a chance to make it right. If you’ll reach out to me on any of my social media pages, I’ll refund you double the money you lost on this, through whatever payment platform you prefer. I’ll also either complete your original request, or make you a new custom of your choice, for free, and I’ll move it to the front of my content schedule as soon as you send the request.
I know it doesn’t make up for disappointment and lost time, but I really do care, and I hope this helps.
-XLC
I hope this person gets their money back but your page has PPV along with a subscription fee. You also said that manual resubscriptions don't unlock a free PPV so some people (myself included) see this as a cash grab added with that person's experience with not getting a paid custom.
Honestly, if you did not have the time for the custom, you should not have taken the money or at least sent it as a locked message or insisted on locked messages instead of taking the tip first.
 
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Hey dude, it’s XL. Sorry to hear that my Instagram is mehhh. For the record, I think it is too lol. Although it’s not for lack of effort or desire to make it better. I’m a legit full-time cowboy, pretty much the polar opposite of any kind of social media influencer. I had zero personal social media prior to starting my OF last year. Tbh I’d rather be just reading a book, or even doing my fkn taxes, than getting on social media haha.
However, selling porn isn’t just selling porn anymore. If I want to compete, I have to suddenly have a fully-developed, engaging, trendy, believable, consistent online personality, modified to fit multiple different platforms with different rules and engagement behaviors, and cater to each of their very different audiences.

Did I mention I’ve never used any of these platforms until a year ago, plus I’m working a combined 90-100 hours a week, every week, between running my ranch and my OF?
I care deeply about anything I do for work, including my OF and related social media, and it’s important to me that I do a good job anything I attempt. However, for OF and social media, I’m literally trying to learn in a vacuum. There’s no data, no research, no 3rd party resources or consultants, and really not even good ways to share ideas and problems with other creators.
Most difficult and frustrating though, is the fact that I never get any actionable feedback from followers or even paid subscribers. And I do mean none whatsoever. Either I make something that ppl like, and I learn of it through engagement and sales; or I do something ppl don’t like / fail to do something they want, and they just disappear. Unfollow, unsubscribe, never explain why.
And it’s only now, that I’m hours down the rabbit hole of whatever this place is, trying to figure out how much of my content is being stolen and reposted for free…do I accidentally find for the first time, some valid, tangible feedback about stuff I need to change.
Dude. To you and everyone else on here….there are at least 3 platforms on which you can instantly contact me anytime. I’m not trying to throw shade at anyone, but for real if y’all would just tell me what tf you want to see, I will make it happen. Asap.
Think about it. It’s my job to show you and give you what you want, how you want it, when you want it. That’s the only way I get paid for this gig. So like…fuck…can’t we all just work on communicating a little better going forward, fellas? 😂 Seems to me like that would be good for everyone involved.
Sorry for the rant. Thanks for listening, if you made it this far. I appreciate each of y’all.
-XLC
Tried to DM you. Wouldn’t let me.
 
Hey dude, it’s XL. Sorry to hear that my Instagram is mehhh. For the record, I think it is too lol. Although it’s not for lack of effort or desire to make it better. I’m a legit full-time cowboy, pretty much the polar opposite of any kind of social media influencer. I had zero personal social media prior to starting my OF last year. Tbh I’d rather be just reading a book, or even doing my fkn taxes, than getting on social media haha.
However, selling porn isn’t just selling porn anymore. If I want to compete, I have to suddenly have a fully-developed, engaging, trendy, believable, consistent online personality, modified to fit multiple different platforms with different rules and engagement behaviors, and cater to each of their very different audiences.

Did I mention I’ve never used any of these platforms until a year ago, plus I’m working a combined 90-100 hours a week, every week, between running my ranch and my OF?
I care deeply about anything I do for work, including my OF and related social media, and it’s important to me that I do a good job anything I attempt. However, for OF and social media, I’m literally trying to learn in a vacuum. There’s no data, no research, no 3rd party resources or consultants, and really not even good ways to share ideas and problems with other creators.
Most difficult and frustrating though, is the fact that I never get any actionable feedback from followers or even paid subscribers. And I do mean none whatsoever. Either I make something that ppl like, and I learn of it through engagement and sales; or I do something ppl don’t like / fail to do something they want, and they just disappear. Unfollow, unsubscribe, never explain why.
And it’s only now, that I’m hours down the rabbit hole of whatever this place is, trying to figure out how much of my content is being stolen and reposted for free…do I accidentally find for the first time, some valid, tangible feedback about stuff I need to change.
Dude. To you and everyone else on here….there are at least 3 platforms on which you can instantly contact me anytime. I’m not trying to throw shade at anyone, but for real if y’all would just tell me what tf you want to see, I will make it happen. Asap.
Think about it. It’s my job to show you and give you what you want, how you want it, when you want it. That’s the only way I get paid for this gig. So like…fuck…can’t we all just work on communicating a little better going forward, fellas? 😂 Seems to me like that would be good for everyone involved.
Sorry for the rant. Thanks for listening, if you made it this far. I appreciate each of y’all.
-XLC
I’ll be honest and say I was probably one of those who unsubscribed and didn’t give a reason. I never thought creators paid attention to that kind of stuff. I’ve left feedback and suggestions before on other creators’ pages and they have restricted me from commenting or messaging lmao and it was never from a place of malice. It was something like “hey, I can’t really see a preview for this video but 10 seconds is not worth this much for what you’re charging”

I can’t speak for others but I mostly unsubscribed because of the high costs for cum videos.
Each one was the cost of a subscription to your page or another page so that left a bad taste in my mouth. I don’t remember seeing that on any of your socials. That’s usually a common bait and switch tactic used by a large number of OF creators.

But one thing you could do is make a wish list and have people tip you that way so you’re getting the most out of the tips.
 
Hey dude, it’s XL. Sorry to hear that my Instagram is mehhh. For the record, I think it is too lol. Although it’s not for lack of effort or desire to make it better. I’m a legit full-time cowboy, pretty much the polar opposite of any kind of social media influencer. I had zero personal social media prior to starting my OF last year. Tbh I’d rather be just reading a book, or even doing my fkn taxes, than getting on social media haha.
However, selling porn isn’t just selling porn anymore. If I want to compete, I have to suddenly have a fully-developed, engaging, trendy, believable, consistent online personality, modified to fit multiple different platforms with different rules and engagement behaviors, and cater to each of their very different audiences.

Did I mention I’ve never used any of these platforms until a year ago, plus I’m working a combined 90-100 hours a week, every week, between running my ranch and my OF?
I care deeply about anything I do for work, including my OF and related social media, and it’s important to me that I do a good job anything I attempt. However, for OF and social media, I’m literally trying to learn in a vacuum. There’s no data, no research, no 3rd party resources or consultants, and really not even good ways to share ideas and problems with other creators.
Most difficult and frustrating though, is the fact that I never get any actionable feedback from followers or even paid subscribers. And I do mean none whatsoever. Either I make something that ppl like, and I learn of it through engagement and sales; or I do something ppl don’t like / fail to do something they want, and they just disappear. Unfollow, unsubscribe, never explain why.
And it’s only now, that I’m hours down the rabbit hole of whatever this place is, trying to figure out how much of my content is being stolen and reposted for free…do I accidentally find for the first time, some valid, tangible feedback about stuff I need to change.
Dude. To you and everyone else on here….there are at least 3 platforms on which you can instantly contact me anytime. I’m not trying to throw shade at anyone, but for real if y’all would just tell me what tf you want to see, I will make it happen. Asap.
Think about it. It’s my job to show you and give you what you want, how you want it, when you want it. That’s the only way I get paid for this gig. So like…fuck…can’t we all just work on communicating a little better going forward, fellas? 😂 Seems to me like that would be good for everyone involved.
Sorry for the rant. Thanks for listening, if you made it this far. I appreciate each of y’all.
-XLC
Hey XL!

Any chance you’d consider making a vip page where everything is posted for a flat sub rate? I think you’re super hot but I hate the formats of having to buy every individual thing
 
Hey dude, it’s XL. Sorry to hear that my Instagram is mehhh. For the record, I think it is too lol. Although it’s not for lack of effort or desire to make it better. I’m a legit full-time cowboy, pretty much the polar opposite of any kind of social media influencer. I had zero personal social media prior to starting my OF last year. Tbh I’d rather be just reading a book, or even doing my fkn taxes, than getting on social media haha.
However, selling porn isn’t just selling porn anymore. If I want to compete, I have to suddenly have a fully-developed, engaging, trendy, believable, consistent online personality, modified to fit multiple different platforms with different rules and engagement behaviors, and cater to each of their very different audiences.

Did I mention I’ve never used any of these platforms until a year ago, plus I’m working a combined 90-100 hours a week, every week, between running my ranch and my OF?
I care deeply about anything I do for work, including my OF and related social media, and it’s important to me that I do a good job anything I attempt. However, for OF and social media, I’m literally trying to learn in a vacuum. There’s no data, no research, no 3rd party resources or consultants, and really not even good ways to share ideas and problems with other creators.
Most difficult and frustrating though, is the fact that I never get any actionable feedback from followers or even paid subscribers. And I do mean none whatsoever. Either I make something that ppl like, and I learn of it through engagement and sales; or I do something ppl don’t like / fail to do something they want, and they just disappear. Unfollow, unsubscribe, never explain why.
And it’s only now, that I’m hours down the rabbit hole of whatever this place is, trying to figure out how much of my content is being stolen and reposted for free…do I accidentally find for the first time, some valid, tangible feedback about stuff I need to change.
Dude. To you and everyone else on here….there are at least 3 platforms on which you can instantly contact me anytime. I’m not trying to throw shade at anyone, but for real if y’all would just tell me what tf you want to see, I will make it happen. Asap.
Think about it. It’s my job to show you and give you what you want, how you want it, when you want it. That’s the only way I get paid for this gig. So like…fuck…can’t we all just work on communicating a little better going forward, fellas? 😂 Seems to me like that would be good for everyone involved.
Sorry for the rant. Thanks for listening, if you made it this far. I appreciate each of y’all.
-XLC
Baby, I speak on everyone's behalf when I say that we wanna see your tight pink hole. We also wanna see you collab with other men.
 
Baby, I speak on everyone's behalf when I say that we wanna see your tight pink hole. We also wanna see you collab with other men.
You do not speak for everyone. Not everyone wants to see that. It’s kind of gross that you would say that directly to someone so bodly. Speak just for yourself.
 
hey xl , can you release old solo vid instead of charging individual vid , like one video for 2 weeks . And adding new content showering , flexing , teasing ,.... . Everything is behind PPV which i think not worth for resubscribe
 
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I’m gonna take a guess and say he’s not going to take this feedback and go back to running his page the same way it was with the PPVs?