Loved reading all of these responses and the different perspectives. I'm a shower, big but not massively hung, so while my bulge can be prominent in certain clothes, I never feel as though it's over the top conspicuous or inappropriate. In school I used to get the occasional comment asking if I was erect, because back then I used to lay it to the side in my briefs instead of straight down. Today I dress for comfort, which means briefs with a larger pouch. This means I always have a bulge or VPL down the left leg, and I love the feeling of not being compressed in a tiny pouch all day. Whether I'm in the office or walking to the store, I don't feel that people are paying that much attention to my crotch. In fact, my biceps seem to attract the most attention overall. The one difference is if I'm in a gay space, e.g. club, bar, pool party, etc. In those spaces, men are not shy about noticing, staring, touching, or discussing dicks. The exhibitionist in me comes out when I'm in these spaces. I know the right shorts or jeans to wear that will put it on display, and I enjoy the attention. As a gay man, I also appreciate the view of a nice bulge.
