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  1. Pierced Bollocks

    Gooning discussion and experiences

    I've not been able to find a specific thread about gooning so I thought I'd start one. So; I love edging and occassionally hit goon, usually after going through a sort of mind cleansing rhythmic trance like state. Now I know what gooning is I realise I've been in that state many times before...
  2. G

    I'm in a relationship and did not discourage nudes from a mutual friend, feeling pretty guilty.

    Been in a relationship for a while now. Recently a mutual friend who we have both hooked up with in the past sent me a message implying I should "see the real video" after I commented on some random post on socials. I said "send it" without really thinking. It was just a peek at his dick. We...
  3. A

    Help with body hair

    Hello. I don't know if this is the correct category to post this. I have always been insecure about my body hair. It's way too much and makes me feel ugly. Trimming them have always been a chore. I would get constant itching and the hair would poke out of the fabric pores. Do you guys have...
  4. B

    Fucking two bottoms

    I’ve been thinking about hiring two escorts - both bottoms - for a session. I’ve never hired an escort before - anyone have any experience of this? How was it? Any advice? It’s always been a fantasy of mine to have two bottoms side by side on all fours and using them both
  5. DK-Curious

    My GF doesn't have any sexsual fantasies or "kinks", but i have plenty...

    If this is a topic, that have been enlightened before, please refer to topic in comments :) Couldn't find any topic while i did the search (new to the site...) Little about us. So.. I’ve been with my gf for 3 years now, and we have a great time together and love each other more than words can...
  6. S

    Am I being unfaithful or unsatisfied?

    LONG POST Hi, I am a 22 year old closeted bi who's been in a relationship with a close friend for almost 3 months. To start it off, I have always been interested in dudes especially the male chest (weird, I know) as long as I can remember. Had some interest in women as well but for the past few...
  7. C

    Best Type Of Circumcision - British Adult Circumcision Advice

    I've always been turned on by guys with cut cocks. Growing up in Derbyshire I, like most of my mates, am not circumcised yet. I'm excited for the day I get to join the circumcised guys but I only have one chance to get this right. I'm a moderate grower, nothing excessive. What is the best type...
  8. S

    Simple But Comfy Underwear?

    Hi all, I am looking for some simple but comfy underwear with a bit of room on the front not to squish my junk. I am not looking for a push-up pouch, just roomy enough to fit me but without make it 'inappropriate' at work or at the gym. I am looking for something not too flashy, ideally in...
  9. B

    What Do You Guys Think About Ripped Jeans With Hairy Legs???

    So, I have hairy legs and I dont know if ripped jeans would go well with that or if I should stick to traditional jeans. What do you all think?
  10. M

    Onlyfans Advice?

    I know quite a lot of people on here subscribe to a range of OnlyFans accounts and have a wide-range of opinions about them More than any other site that I can think of. So, I'm curious what advice people would have for someone who is just starting one? What do people want out of it and what...
  11. J

    Experiences Dating Straight Women?

    Since discovering my bisexuality, I've found that in my experience girls, that identify as heterosexual wouldn't consider a bisexual man as a partner. This is both from personal involvement and from the opinions of several straight female friends I have asked. A couple reasons I heard repeated...
  12. C

    Gangbangs?

    So I am a fairly experienced bottom guy who recently just keeps having dreams about being gangbanged. The two main dreams that keep recurring are I'm bottoming for a group of indian/Pakistani guys who all fuck and breed me. The other is a group of chavvy guys (two or whom are friends of...
  13. F

    Advice On How To Get With A Dude No Strings Attached

    I have a friend who I find very very attractive and would really like to do more “stuff” with him. I don’t really know his sexuality, we have cuddled before but I don’t know how sincere that was. My gut feeling is that he is pretty open though. He also doesn’t know I’m gay. Whenever I want to...
  14. thirstyUKboi

    Premature Ejaculation - Options

    I've never lasted long so this isn't a new issue, but really hoping I can do something about it as I'm only 23 and it forces me to almost always have oral sex only so I can control my climax (as opposed to topping). I've tried a numbing spray but found it a bit tricky to get the dosage right...
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    Cock Ring Recommendations

    I’m really interested in getting one. Any recommendations of brands or your favorite type I’d appreciate thanks
  16. 1

    Lower Belly Fat

    Looking for some advice here. I was always a skinny kid and now as an adult I’ve become “skinny fat” where I’m mostly skinny but have an unfortunate spare tire around my mid section that sticks out. I’m not exactly an active person and try to eat fairly healthy. Any advice on diet and exercise...
  17. U

    Big Dick But Single Af

    Don’t know where else to go but, I was in a 3 year LTR with a POS up until a year ago. I had to finish up school so I didn’t seek out a relationship very hard. Now that I am seeking something more than just a hookup, I just am feeling like a walking 9” dildo. Everyone loves my cock and I get...
  18. LucBry

    I’m Straight- At Least I Was About A Week And A Half Ago.. I Don’t Know Tbh

    Hey, gents and ladies and whichever terms you prefer to be called. Let me just start off in the beginning so you all know the full story. I’m about 19 y/o, in the military and straight-ish- or at least i thought so. I had an encounter with a neighbour of mine, whom I’ve known ever since i...
  19. D

    Please I Need Advice.

    I met a guy in scruff and I need help. He messaged me and I went to his house to hook up. I knew he was going to be big. I thought muscular but, I was wrong he was fat but I still have him a chance, I didn't wanna judge. Went to his room and started making out. He had cigarette breath. We took...
  20. D

    Please I Need Advice.

    I met a guy in scruff and I need help. He messaged me and I went to his house to hook up. I knew he was going to be big. I thought muscular but, I was wrong he was fat but I still have him a chance, I didn't wanna judge. Went to his room and started making out. He had cigarette breath. We took...
  21. freshbussy

    What Supplements Do You Take?

    In the PE research that I’ve combed through on the web I’ve come across supplements that are supposed to help with gains. Supplements like; L-Arginine(good for blood flow; take 1 daily and 2 before PE), L-Lysine(good for tissue growth; take 1 daily and another 1 before PE), BCAAs(for muscle...
  22. F

    Trying To Bottom

    Today, I was in a threesome. I was bottom (I don’t bottom usually, this was my third time. First time was bad, second was perfect), one was top and one was vers. Firstly we all kissed and I sucked their dicks. Then I laid on a bed so vers could fuck me. He tried, entered a little, but he...
  23. goldcowboy

    My Friends Boyfriend Might Be Into Me?

    not entirely sure if this thread belongs here but im gonna post it here anyway. So I’m kind of looking for advice here? To preface the situation, I am a really friendly person. When a friend of mine hangs with other people I don’t know, I try to make an effort to befriend them and always say hi...
  24. A

    Dealing With First Love Advice

    Super new to the site, but thought it wouldn't hurt to give this a try.. As a little backstory, I am 22 years old and have never fallen in love until this past summer. My teenage years were spent heavily in the closet and my college years were spent trying to navigate my new life as an out gay...
  25. J

    100% Top / 100% Bottom

    Hi everyone, I'm 29 yo and I've bottomed in all my sexual encounters (more than 10 years now), no interested in topping at all. I was wondering if there are real 100% tops out there, since sometimes even when I've dated tops, they've asked me at some point to top them because they are in a...
  26. Howwyhere_92

    Slipping Your Number To A Guy In The Gym Changing Rooms

    Advice needed. Joined a new gym around 4 weeks ago, some guy who has a similar morning schedule to me has been occasionally looking at me around the gym, walking close to me between sets, and doing pretty much anything to train close to me. Things took another turn around 3 days ago, Sunday...
  27. S

    Advice Needed: I’m Failing At Sucking Dick

    I am a submissive bottom and love to please, but I am failing to suck my boyfriends dick well. He is very well endowed; over 9 long and about 7 around with a great up-curve when he is really enjoying himself. I’ve managed to deepthroat him fairly well on a number of occasions, but when he gets...
  28. S

    Sucking Big Dick, Teeth Scraping, Need Advice

    I am involved with a man who is over 9 inches and thick. When He is really enjoying himself it has a steady upward curve. It’s really an awesome cock! I have always enjoyed sucking cock but never felt I was excellent at it. We are having a problem where when I am attempting to deepthroat him...
  29. C

    Big Guy New To Topping, Need Advice

    Hi all, I've been out for 15 years but I'm still new and relatively inexperienced to topping, believe it or not. Pretty new to bottoming as well, but that is not what I need help with... I feel like I am not getting as much pleasure out of the topping experience as most other guys. Maybe this...
  30. L

    How To Ask A Straight Guy From Work If He’d Like A Blow Job

    So I work in a factory, there is this guy who is gorgeous, I literally love him, nobody at work knows I’m bi, and I’d prefer that, how can I subtly ask the guy if he’d want a blow Job, or is it too risky?