relationship

  1. M

    The Couples' Massage - a short story

    Themes/TWs: Massage, Public, Infidelity/Cheating, Cuckold === The warm scent of eucalyptus filled the room as Dustin lay on the padded massage table, his fingers loosely intertwined with Jeremy’s across the gap between them. Today marked their second anniversary, a milestone he’d been planning...
  2. goldcowboy

    relationship advice / only been with one person

    hey guys, this is something i’ve been mulling over in my head for a couple months now. Growing up, other gay guys never really took a liking to me and I hadn't had my first sexual experience or kiss for that matter until I was 22. It was with my current partner who I adore and love more than...
  3. C

    Twins

    When I was in my mid twenties I loved to dance for hours. Sometimes I would end up in just a thong before the end of the night. I guess you could say I was one of those guys that walked around with my pants unbuttoned. Mind you I didn't have sex till I was 24. I was starved for attention...
  4. T

    How can I be better sexually?

    Hi you guys, I'm sorry in advance for the long post. I just want to be as detailed as can be. There's a summary down below if this is too much to read. I appreciate any advice etc. I can get. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- My boyfriend (25M) and I (25M)...
  5. T

    How can I be better sexually?

    Hi you guys, I'm sorry in advance for the long post. I just want to be as detailed as can be. There's a summary down below if this is too much to read. I appreciate any advice etc. I can get. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- My boyfriend (25M) and I (25M)...
  6. K

    If I don’t find love in the next year then why should I live ?

    What’s the point tbh . The guys I like aren’t my preference nor do I really like them back in a romantic way. A lot of them just want sex or are too possessive or I just like as friends but it’s been a five to six year dry spell, life kinda sucks for me as it does alot . But at this point I’m...
  7. G

    My pandemic fling made me extremely cautious of being in a relationship

    Part 1 (I had to cut it after realizing this was gonna be a long ride): To start things off, I'm mostly into men but I have romantic feelings for women, so I don't know how to classify myself. Anyway, on to the story, this fling started in March 2020 when I met my godparent's secretary at...
  8. T

    What do you do when you mess up with a guy?

    I didn’t know where to post this since there’s no general question directory. I really like this guy a lot but I didn’t at first. I was head over heels with this one guy so obviously I ignored him since I was seeing someone at the time. Things didn’t work out and I want him but he’s mad at me...
  9. G

    Showing off boyfriend/partner

    Anyone else obsessed with showing off their boyfriend online? (obviously with their consent) I just get so horny thinking about another guy eyeing up my man, but knowing he can never touch. Constantly having fantasies of him being seduced by some guy online and sending them some teasing photos...
  10. T

    How can I be better for my partner?

    Hey guys, I'll try not to type too much. I'm 24(M) in a relationship with another 24(M) for about a month, however, we'd been dating for the last 9 or so months. I'm his first boyfriend, he's my first boyfriend. I've only been experimenting with guys for about a year and some change. Up until...
  11. Dr.Milkerz

    Tips on casual dating?

    Hi everyone! I've been meaning to put myself out there soon and start dating. But my initial response when I would find a guy is that I will catch feelings immediately and consider whatever first encounter a possible relationship. Now I'm trying to break the habit and I've received some advice...
  12. fuckee

    What do you do when your partner is cheating?

    Hi guys I think there have been similar questions before but as I think that is important for gay men I would like to know your opinion. Opinions differ and my personal impression is that there is a lot of hypocrisy too. I am sure that there are men who have only sex with their partner or don't...
  13. B

    Telling my girl about all this?

    Hey all! So I’ve started a relationship recently, and we’ve been able to be very honest and open about a lot of stuff so far. However I’ve never really told someone about my online antics, IE snapping guys pics of me, being on cam, posting on forums like this, etc etc I haven’t told her about...
  14. E

    Masturbation instead of sex

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now and recently we've been living together. One thing that bothers me is that he prefers masturbation to sex with me. I am a very sexual person and he is not, despite watching porn every day, which I also do. However, I'd prefer a...
  15. T

    We ended things and now I feel broken

    I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but I could really use some advice right because I just don't feel good at all. I can't remember the last time I've felt this way. I'm (24M) bisexual and have never dated a guy until a couple of months ago. Honestly, this was the year (Late January) that...
  16. P

    23 yo latin from Chile

    Hello, this is my first post. I'm Nick from Chile, and I'm 23 years old. I'm versatile. I love nature and videogames. I'm looking for a friendship or a relationship. The distance is not a problem, I can travel or you too. I speak Spanish, English and Portuguese. Also I want to learn German and...
  17. J

    Consejo en relación

    Hace unos meses estoy saliendo con un chico y las cosas van en serio. Lo malo es que no le gusta chupar culo ni siquiera dilatarme con los dedos Solo quiere meterlo y me dice que yo debo estar listo para todo No se si debería seguir o que hacer
  18. J

    Questions I have always been to shy to ask

    Hi all, I've been out and gay for most of my life but have been together with my partner since almost the beginning, as was he. We are both curious about a lot of things but have no one to ask! Here are my questions: 1. do guys sometimes suck dicks after they were in the bottoms ass? Do you...
  19. L

    Relationship advice

    Hello everyone. First of all, thank you in advance to those who read me. I don't really know where to start, I don't even really know why I'm writing this here, but the truth is that I need advice from more experienced people. In short, I don't know what to do with my relationship. Me and my...
  20. D

    Me (31M) and Him (25M) we are coworkers that have gotten fairly close and now its confusing

    Both myself and my coworker (I'll call him M) are openly gay. M started working in my department roughly 5 months ago. We started talking casually about work and then moved things over to telegram (messaging). We started talking daily and eventually hung out one on one a few times as well as...
  21. F

    The Ultimate Dream Guy: Physical and Mental Checklist

    We all have certain types of guys we find attractive, and sometimes we have multiple types. But have you ever met the ultimate dream guy who ticks all the physical or mental boxes or both and is almost like a living fantasy? If so, how did it go when you met him? If not, describe him.
  22. HunkReinolds

    my str8 gym crush is “killing me”

    I have a massive crush on this straight guy in my gym, and I’ve been discussing this issue with some members in other related threads, but I decided to create a separate thread for this matter since it’s escalating really quick (you guys gave me the courage to engage lol). I’ll be posting here...
  23. D

    Sexless relationship

    Hi guys, I am going through a very difficult situation and I wonder if any of you has gone through this and how did you deal with it? my boyfriend and I haven’t had sex at all in the last year and I could say maybe 1 or 2 times in the last 2 years. I am going crazy, I always try to speak to him...
  24. Y

    Newly committed

    Hey guys, Am 22 and I started dating my boyfriend since September and we officially became together since February. The problem is I guess I am a polyamorous and I know for sure he is a monogamous. We live in a homophobic country, you can imagine the risks, so we have zero to little sexual...
  25. W

    Seducing the curious one?

    It's probably one of the most stupid question I've asked my entire life, but I have a crush on - let's call him a classmate. I'm pretty sure he's straight. He is soooo cute, but unfortunately at first he wasn't ok even with simple flirting (he was super shy) and I was like "ok, that's the...
  26. J

    25 M. Texas Single looking for something serious

    As the title suggests. 25 male, 5’8, 260 Lbs (I’m working on it, gym 3-4 times a week, while also working a warehouse job 45 hrs a week). Looking for something serious, and just tired of feeling lonely honestly. I’m on the thicker side, I will admit but I’m working on that because I wanna love...
  27. P

    Gay Relationship advice - what should be done here?

    Hello everyone, I am usually quite self sufficient and don’t need to ask for advice. I have been seeing a therapist for many years and I deal quite well with my feelings and situations. Background: I’ve been with my partner for 6+ years together in a closed relationship. I know since years...
  28. T

    How do you guys balance bisexuality in a relationship?

    I'll try to make a long story short but I'm bisexual. No one knows except me and I've never done anything with another guy before, I've never even talked to one as more than a friend. Of course, I've had crushes over the years but I've never acted on my feelings for obvious reasons. I've been...
  29. A

    BEST PRACTICAL tips and advice for the PERFECT dating pics and profile on apps like Hinge, Tinder, OkCupid, etc?

    Hi! I don't find myself attractive. I'm not saying this for sympathy. If you're like me, the dating world is scary and frustrating at times especially with dating apps asking for pics (I'm not anything close to a photographer) and summaries (definitely not a writer). I understand it's natural to...
  30. asianduck8

    SEA guy never have relationship

    Hi, everyone I am 33 yo from SEA, 52kg 164cm I never have relationship in my live, because I found many gay here in my country have unhealthy relationship also it is ilegal here. I don't know if I am considered virgin or not, just got BJ couples of times but did not F**king so I don't know if I...