relationship

  1. L

    Question.

    So I've been with my bf 8 years he's 41 I'm 29... Well over a year now since we have any intercourse we just kiss he has very mild depression but blames that on not having any type of sex oral etc but I'm finding it really hard to not go out nd cheat I haven't I miss affection and sex I've spoke...
  2. A

    Dealing With First Love Advice

    Super new to the site, but thought it wouldn't hurt to give this a try.. As a little backstory, I am 22 years old and have never fallen in love until this past summer. My teenage years were spent heavily in the closet and my college years were spent trying to navigate my new life as an out gay...
  3. A

    Is Sending Nudes To Guys Cheating In A Relationship?

    Wondering if there are any guys on here who are in a relationship and still send nudes to guys either on Snapchat or wherever and whether they consider that cheating? I’m in love with my partner and happy in our relationship but I just get such a thrill from showing off my hard dick and ripped...
  4. RG97

    Wanting To Top When You’re The Bottom

    I was wondering if anyone had experienced this or had any advice. I am “the bottom” in my relationship and don’t get me wrong, the sex is great and I love it. That said, I do have the urge to top from time to time. I did bring it up to my partner and although he was ok with idea in concept, he...
  5. E

    Broken Up With For Being A Total Bottom, Chastity, Kink

    I've been seeing a Man for 5 months. He is Dom and the dynamic is laced with quite a bit of kink. Chastity was one of His requirements. At first it was very very sexual and we never really left the apartment together because these are COVID times and it's NYC, but recently I've begun to meet...
  6. B

    Saw My Bf Nude Pics And Don't Know What To Do Now

    Hey guys! Something really weird happened and it kinda has shaken my friendship. I really would appreciate your opinion on the topic. It's going to be a big text, because I want to give some context. I have a really good friend, who I really trust and is almost like a brother to me. We are...
  7. C

    What Does It Mean If Your Partner Says “thank You” After Intercourse...?

    I have had this happen twice, both times it confused me. I didn't know if they were pleased or their way of saying " I wanted a penis in me, and you provided that."
  8. C

    What Does It Mean When A Woman Says Thank You After Sex..?

    I have had this happen twice, both times it confused me. I didn't know if they were pleased or their way of saying "I wanted a penis in me, and you provided that."
  9. C

    What Does It Mean When A Woman Says Thank You After Sex...?

    I have had this happen twice, both times it confused me. I didn't know if they were pleased or their way of saying "I wanted a penis in me, and you provided that."
  10. M

    Looking For A Man Of More Than 30 Years Old

    I'm single horny and romantic latin guy of 25 years old, looking for a partner write me to my email mistermanagua@gmail.com
  11. M

    Would You Date A Person That You Don't Find Physically Attractive?

    Imagine. You are dating a guy, he is a really great person, he treats you well, he has a great job, interesting hobbies... he is an interesting person. But physically they are ugly (simply ugly), fat, they don't take care of their physique, their hair, the clothes they use... basically they...
  12. O

    Gay Guys In The Bay Area Looking To Date

    SF here 27 years old 5’11 Techie black bottom Looking to see what’s out there I encourage everyone to post here if they are looking for someone special during this pandemic.
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    Is It Weird?

    Is it weird that i just want a big cocked friend? Yeah a good friend thay could turn into a lifetime friend but also I've never been arpund actually big cock or men like that. To have a bro. Not a "Broooo" but a good friend. Or maybe im just a horny fuck that wants to play or see big cock...
  14. S

    I'm In Love With My Straight Best Friend.

    I have a friend who I'm so close with, we practically tell each other everything. He's straight and he knows I'm gay. We've been hanging out so much new feelings have popped up. I dont know what to do, should I be honest with him? Or keep it a secret in order to protect my friendship?
  15. TrueB2

    Does Sex Make A Relationship (for You)?

    I suppose I could've asked this anywhere, but ehh. To the point, is sex something you require to be in a long term relationship? As a person that does not have much interest in sex (I consider myself on the Asexual spectrum), I'm curious as to how important sex is to others
  16. BecauseImHorny

    Looking For A Boyfriend

    I'm looking for a boyfriend. Until I find him I'll enjoy looking at the pictures and videos. Let's get this out of the way right now: I'm poz & undetectable since 2003. Undetectable = untransmittable. Know your status. Let's get this out of the way too: Anally, I'm a versatile bottom. I...
  17. 1

    Gay Dad’s For Sons Anyone Else In A Similar Situation?

    So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years (LDR and not an open relationship) we have talked about being “gay dad’s” he is 30 I’m 25. Gay dad’s in the sense that we want to help care and help youth 25 and under. When we eventually live together be able to offer our house as a home...
  18. L

    Weird But I Need To Ask

    Im a gay guy, never been with a woman (or wanted to be). I’ve was a bit of a late starter, being shy etc. When I started I was top but didn’t enjoy it much and didn’t do it often. I did btm for a few guys including my only proper boyfriend, but it was never that fun. Recently I’ve developed...
  19. D

    Any Tops In Belgium? I'm Open For A Relationship Too.

    Bottom here, feel free to send a message. Hugs x
  20. B

    Porn Problems

    So I tried talking to my boyfriend of 2 years about maybe watching porn tohether. Before we got together he watched it all the time now that we are together, his story has changed and he doesnt wath porn at all... Ever... Im not stupid. We both watch porn.. But the fact that he still continues...
  21. 1

    Regard In Man - Woman Relationship

    It could be hard to discuss it at all, but I'll try to ask you how do you show respect in man-woman relationship. Respect not in the meaning of feeling of admiration for someone elicited by abilities or achievements, but due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of other person. This is a...
  22. twtrob88

    Dating with the looming stigma attached to hiv.

    Hey everyone, I rarely post, but I have seen many older posts on this topic and wanted to revive the conversation, because I’m sure it can help positive and negative guys. I myself was diagnosed as being positive when I was around 23 years old. As soon as I found out, I was in total shock. It...
  23. D

    Kik: temindra, black, bottom 28, open for a serious bf. add me up. xx

    Kik: temindra, Black, bottom 28, open for someone serious who wants to settle down too. Add me up. xx
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    Help us! we need your experience...

    Hi! Pet and I are visiting Dallas in a few weeks and we want to have some fun. We would like to try a public Dungeon or Sex club. We are primarily looking for a place to meet nice people while feeding our exhibitionist and voyueristic streaks. We may only watch or if she is up to it we may want...
  25. S

    Temptation island 2019 anyone watching with opinion/views

    Curious to know if people think this show is real or scripted? Anyone have an opinion on which couples well leave together or break up? Which couple is your favorite?
  26. M

    A crush that drives me crazy!

    hello guys, I’m a 20 yo bisexual guy and it’s been a couple of months since I have a crush on this guy from work; we try to see each other when we can as our shifts don’t allow us to see often. But when I spend time with him, I get really confused on what he’s after, he often teases me...
  27. N

    So the spark can come back...

    My hubby and I have been together 14yrs. Things got tough for a few years. My libido died because of the struggles in our relationship and other stresses. We have both been unfaithful. We've been in counselling for 9 months. It was my idea, and it took months of pressure to get my husband to...
  28. D

    Am i wrong is he wrong?

    so I need advice on what to do... so here is how it goes, I am working with someone that is gay (I’m obviously gay too) and he is a manager. He always came around me and asked why I was nervous around him, my excuse was “I’m a shy person” which I’m not I just thought he was cute. Anyway later on...
  29. I

    So my gf just told me that i'm tiny just like my ex did...

    I've been going out with my gf for a lil over 3 months now. I really love her because she's helped me through some difficult times and she is actually only the 2nd gf that I've had. We actually work at the same place together and I know you're going to say don't mix work and relationships...
  30. G

    The end.. or new beginning

    Hey All, Never done anything like this before but here goes.. Just walked from a 12 year gay male relationship for various reasons, some mental abuse, constant put downs, constant walking on egg shells.. i swear i have some good resilience as ive gave everything and jumped every hurdle with...