Are you tops annoyed when your bottom jerks himself off?

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kesmss said:
Okay so I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but I usually tell my bottoms not to touch their cock when I fuck them. I'm not sure if this is simply mental or anything, but for me it's just a boner killer when they start masturbating themselves when I fuck them. It's not also this but usually guys who masturbate while they're getting fucked also cum quite quickly which is somewhat of a disappointment. Now, don't get me wrong, I do take care of the bottom's cock during sex but it's just that I prefer to be the one who stimulates his penis while working his ass instead of himself. Plus, I find it a waste for him to waste both his hands on his cock while he could use them for far better things.

I had a fuckbuddy who couldn't keep his hands off his penis when we first had sex so I had to tie his hands for our second time. He told me he enjoyed it far better and it was one of the best orgasms he had. For granted, he could've been bluffing, but it didn't seem like he faked it.

What do you guys think about his? I'm interested in hearing opinions from both bottoms and tops. I just hope I'm not the only dude around here who is somewhat annoyed by this.
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Personally, I like to suck him off while I fuck him...yes..quite flexible. Nothing hotter than him cumming in my mouth while I'm cumming in his ass!
 
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kesmss said:
Okay so I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but I usually tell my bottoms not to touch their cock when I fuck them. I'm not sure if this is simply mental or anything, but for me it's just a boner killer when they start masturbating themselves when I fuck them. It's not also this but usually guys who masturbate while they're getting fucked also cum quite quickly which is somewhat of a disappointment. Now, don't get me wrong, I do take care of the bottom's cock during sex but it's just that I prefer to be the one who stimulates his penis while working his ass instead of himself. Plus, I find it a waste for him to waste both his hands on his cock while he could use them for far better things.

I had a fuckbuddy who couldn't keep his hands off his penis when we first had sex so I had to tie his hands for our second time. He told me he enjoyed it far better and it was one of the best orgasms he had. For granted, he could've been bluffing, but it didn't seem like he faked it.

What do you guys think about his? I'm interested in hearing opinions from both bottoms and tops. I just hope I'm not the only dude around here who is somewhat annoyed by this.
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I never touch my cock when I'm getting fucked I'm to busy enjoying the fucking I'm getting
 
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Doesn't bother me at all. When I bottom I have to jerk off or I lose my erection. The first guy I topped went completely limp almost as soon as I penetrated him. I thought he wasn't enjoying it, but turns out he was loving it - just couldn't keep a hardon. He was still able to cum and had the best orgasm he's every had, but he didn't really use his penis at all.
 
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kesmss said:
Well, the top should have most of the control over the bottom.

The pleasure of my bottom is my no 1 priority when I top, but why allow him to do something that greatly diminishes that pleasure when I'm in control? It's like allowing your lover to harm himself.
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The top should only have control like you say when its a pre-discussed scenario, dom and sub, bdsm etc. It sounds like the bottom you tied up likes being tied up, not necessarily liked not touching himself. You obviously like power transfer sex more than vanilla and I would recommend you seek that out to keep yourself happy during.

As a bottom I will jerk myself if I want to, not necessarily to completion but to keep hard or for the feeling, It does not in any way mean im not enjoying the tops performance I just want to supplement it with my own pleasure. If I am giving more power to the top I will do as they wish, but if its mutual satisfaction we are after then its the tops own insecurities if they think I am not pleased cause I am touching myself.
 
So Sergio comes over. An eager 20 something kid wanting to be fucked by a big dick. It takes a little for him to take my dick. He is jerking his cock while he is trying to take it. We finally get it in and I start slowly shoving my dick. He lasted about 30 seconds before he is shooting cum so hard it is hitting his face.

Next time Sergio comes over, he promises to not cum so quick. Once again, I start to slowly slide my hard dick in his ass. He grabs his dick. But this time I am having nothing of that. I pin his hands above his. head and slowly start fucking him. He is doing much better this time not being able to touch his cock, until he has that look on his face. You know that look. Seconds later he starts shooting his cum load once again all over his face. This time the whole fuck lasted about 5 minutes maybe. Yeah better than the first time, but more training is needed.

The point is, everyone is different. I am ok if a bottom wants to jerk off a little while I am fucking them. But they better have enough control to last or else they are getting their hands pinned down above their head and I will fuck the cum out of them myself.
 
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weho48 said:
Done properly the bottom shouldn't have to do anything!!!!!! Just sayin.....
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I've never had a too be able to get me off from fucking alone. Or keep me hard for that matter. No matter how big, the angle, the pace, their experience. It just doesn't work for me. And I'm knowledgeable of my own body enough to not cum quickly if I'm being fucked. So I touch my dick a bit and keep it hard so if they finish or we change direction it's there. But no. Tops doing everything right can't keep a bottom hard if the bottom isn't able to. Some people are just different.
 
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I'm never annoyed. I like to see people happy. I especially love to see a guy smile in bed. Just because I'm the "top" doesn't mean I don't want to experience my lover enjoying himself, too. If he feels the urge to cum, that's cool. If he prefers to restrain himself, and focus on just me, that's cool, too. I'm not the only one in the bed. Plus, if you've ever been inside someone while he's cumming, then this question should answer itself. :)
 
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