Are you tops annoyed when your bottom jerks himself off?

[1334118]

Why would anyone be annoyed by that????
Unless they’re an asshole or have issues with their sexuality?

 

[deleted1177572]

I have never been with anyone who was annoyed by it. If the top jacks or sucks me off, that is fine. However, I usually jerk myself after he shoots. I do like to wait some time with the hope of getting him hard again as I stroke myself. If that happens, I might not even finish. If I am with a guy, I might cum once for every three of his loads... I am just not much of a cummer. Some boys are turned on if I dry orgasm over and over.

 

[diver6]

Not at all go for it, it feels good when he cums and I’m in his ass.

 

[Sklar]

They are free to cum all they want.

However, just because they have cummed, doesn't mean we're done.

They know from the start that we're not done until I am done.

Sklar

 

[ohiorod]

Because I have experienced a mixture of hands on and hands off the dick, I don’t have a particular preference. Sometimes it is hot to see your partner so turned on by a fuck that he is ready to orgasm. This is never the end of the encounter, so I still get satisfied.

 

[1491072]

Okay so I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but I usually tell my bottoms not to touch their cock when I fuck them. I'm not sure if this is simply mental or anything, but for me it's just a boner killer when they start masturbating themselves when I fuck them. It's not also this but usually guys who masturbate while they're getting fucked also cum quite quickly which is somewhat of a disappointment. Now, don't get me wrong, I do take care of the bottom's cock during sex but it's just that I prefer to be the one who stimulates his penis while working his ass instead of himself. Plus, I find it a waste for him to waste both his hands on his cock while he could use them for far better things.

I had a fuckbuddy who couldn't keep his hands off his penis when we first had sex so I had to tie his hands for our second time. He told me he enjoyed it far better and it was one of the best orgasms he had. For granted, he could've been bluffing, but it didn't seem like he faked it.

What do you guys think about his? I'm interested in hearing opinions from both bottoms and tops. I just hope I'm not the only dude around here who is somewhat annoyed by this.

Top’s/Alpha’s choice every time. I look to him for my cues.

However, if your bottom has a difficult time following orders, or just can’t keep his hands off himself, put him in a jock strap two sizes too small. That should do the trick. This way his dicklet is in-accessible while at the same time his hole is easily accessible. Plus, his hands are still free to give you pleasure. It’s a win-win whichever way you look at it.

On an altogether different note, you sound like a lot of fun.

 

[1491072]

They are free to cum all they want.

However, just because they have cummed, doesn't mean we're done.

They know from the start that we're not done until I am done.

Sklar

As it should be.

 

[1491072]

Done properly the bottom shouldn't have to do anything!!!!!! Just sayin.....

Hear, hear!

 

[indyfrat79]

I love it when my bottom jerks off. It means that he’s getting pleasure from my cock. That turns me on. I’ll take that any day vs a sad limp dick that doesn’t react to me being in his hole.

 

[malakos]

The entitlement and hinting at nonconsent peppered throughout this thread is really gross.

 

[tito21]

Are you tops annoyed when your bottom jerks himself off?

I would spit in his face.

 

[10285021]

Okay so I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but I usually tell my bottoms not to touch their cock when I fuck them. I'm not sure if this is simply mental or anything, but for me it's just a boner killer when they start masturbating themselves when I fuck them. It's not also this but usually guys who masturbate while they're getting fucked also cum quite quickly which is somewhat of a disappointment. Now, don't get me wrong, I do take care of the bottom's cock during sex but it's just that I prefer to be the one who stimulates his penis while working his ass instead of himself. Plus, I find it a waste for him to waste both his hands on his cock while he could use them for far better things.

I had a fuckbuddy who couldn't keep his hands off his penis when we first had sex so I had to tie his hands for our second time. He told me he enjoyed it far better and it was one of the best orgasms he had. For granted, he could've been bluffing, but it didn't seem like he faked it.

What do you guys think about his? I'm interested in hearing opinions from both bottoms and tops. I just hope I'm not the only dude around here who is somewhat annoyed by this.

As a bottom, this is exactly how I would expect it to be. Part of the process for me is giving up control.

 

[TylerV69]

He does this every time before and after and doesn't mind

 

[deine_huendin]

I was trained that it is the Top who is in charge of my orgasms. He might allow me one and then again maybe he won't.He is in charge and that it is none of my business.
Most know how to fuck me so i can cum handsfree, but most don't allow me to cum. Which is fine with me.
I am there for his pleasure and he can use me anyway he sees fit. I am a submissive and have been all my life.

for HIS pleasure, for HIS needs... thats the key...

 

[LICNYCgay]

Yeah, I don’t get it either. But I don’t get the whole dim/sub thing either. I’m bottom and sex for me is a 2 way Street.

Now, that being said, I never touch my cock when I’m being fucked. Not a submissive thing at all though. I’m a greedy cock pig and the longer I can put off my orgasm the longer I can draw out the session. My goal is to always hold out until my top guy cums. At least once and preferably 2x or more. The longer I can keep his cock inside me the better.

I have an addendum to this. I still try to hold out until my top guy cums at least once, hopefully twice. But I was at a sex party a while back and this largely endowed sweet man was putting me through my paces exquisitely. And he asked me if he could suck me off before he came in my ass. I had never continued fucking after my own orgasm so I was nervous about accommodating him and voiced my concerns. He was a perfect gentleman and understood but still wanted to taste my cum before he finished. Our expectations being agreed upon, he pulled out of me and started sucking me.

Turned out he was a very talented cocksucker and brought me to a shattering climax. He let me catch my breath, then slid his cock back inside me. To my surprise (and delight) my hole was eager for more and ready for him. He drilled into me for maybe another 15 minutes and had his own shattering climax. After a minute or two he pulled out, thanked me, and headed off into the crowd of the other naked men in attendance. I ended up getting fucked by a few other guys and finally came a second time about 45 minutes later.

Now I’m a little curious about how many times I can cum and still keep going. I guess the moral of the story is, don’t assume you can’t handle it until you’ve tried. You may surprise yourself.

 

[Vertigo1814]

I would rather he didn’t at the start. I don’t like feeling I’m racing the bottom to cum. I also would rather get him there anally if I can.

It’s also a vibe thing. If they just start wanking straight away you wonder if they would rather be topping and that can be a turn off. As someone else said, as a top you wanna feel like you’re in control and controlling his orgasm.

Another thing is, I can usually go again after 10 mins of cumming and if he’s already cum then he might not be ready yet. But if he hasn’t yet, he’s still on the hook. I usually ask them not to cum until my final load.

And then jerking off is great. I like to jerk them myself cos I love the bottom to cum at the same time as me because the sphincter tightens when they cum which makes my orgasm better.

 

[Ilovedp]

Okay so I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but I usually tell my bottoms not to touch their cock when I fuck them. I'm not sure if this is simply mental or anything, but for me it's just a boner killer when they start masturbating themselves when I fuck them. It's not also this but usually guys who masturbate while they're getting fucked also cum quite quickly which is somewhat of a disappointment. Now, don't get me wrong, I do take care of the bottom's cock during sex but it's just that I prefer to be the one who stimulates his penis while working his ass instead of himself. Plus, I find it a waste for him to waste both his hands on his cock while he could use them for far better things.

I had a fuckbuddy who couldn't keep his hands off his penis when we first had sex so I had to tie his hands for our second time. He told me he enjoyed it far better and it was one of the best orgasms he had. For granted, he could've been bluffing, but it didn't seem like he faked it.

What do you guys think about his? I'm interested in hearing opinions from both bottoms and tops. I just hope I'm not the only dude around here who is somewhat annoyed by this.

I would not want to get fucked by you. Put your ego aside and let him jerk off when he gets fucked. It's his way of pleasure too.

 

[ILoveGames48]

When I top a guy.. it’s ok he strokes his cock after over fucked him about 15 to 20 minutes.. then he can jerk off as I keep fucking his ass.. then when he cums and his insides begin to tighten around my shaft and releasing .. throbbing as he cums.. actually feels pretty good

 

[Lamposta12]

So Sergio comes over. An eager 20 something kid wanting to be fucked by a big dick. It takes a little for him to take my dick. He is jerking his cock while he is trying to take it. We finally get it in and I start slowly shoving my dick. He lasted about 30 seconds before he is shooting cum so hard it is hitting his face.

Next time Sergio comes over, he promises to not cum so quick. Once again, I start to slowly slide my hard dick in his ass. He grabs his dick. But this time I am having nothing of that. I pin his hands above his. head and slowly start fucking him. He is doing much better this time not being able to touch his cock, until he has that look on his face. You know that look. Seconds later he starts shooting his cum load once again all over his face. This time the whole fuck lasted about 5 minutes maybe. Yeah better than the first time, but more training is needed.

The point is, everyone is different. I am ok if a bottom wants to jerk off a little while I am fucking them. But they better have enough control to last or else they are getting their hands pinned down above their head and I will fuck the cum out of them myself.

i need to bottom for you so bad this was so hot to read

 

[dana2]

Okay so I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but I usually tell my bottoms not to touch their cock when I fuck them. I'm not sure if this is simply mental or anything, but for me it's just a boner killer when they start masturbating themselves when I fuck them. It's not also this but usually guys who masturbate while they're getting fucked also cum quite quickly which is somewhat of a disappointment. Now, don't get me wrong, I do take care of the bottom's cock during sex but it's just that I prefer to be the one who stimulates his penis while working his ass instead of himself. Plus, I find it a waste for him to waste both his hands on his cock while he could use them for far better things.

I had a fuckbuddy who couldn't keep his hands off his penis when we first had sex so I had to tie his hands for our second time. He told me he enjoyed it far better and it was one of the best orgasms he had. For granted, he could've been bluffing, but it didn't seem like he faked it.

What do you guys think about his? I'm interested in hearing opinions from both bottoms and tops. I just hope I'm not the only dude around here who is somewhat annoyed by this.

I am just the opposite of you. I LOVE it if I am fucking someone and they JO. First off, it's highly arousing knowing I am giving them pleasure. And it increases the pleasurable sensations on my cock. When someone is JO while you fuck them you can feel the sensations of them JO on your own cock inside them. Especially when they start to get close it feels like their insides are massaging your cock.