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I (22M) have been single pretty much my entire life and have no experience in dating or sex (and have no clue how to find other gay men around London).
I also don't want to rush into things because I feel like I would regret it but seeing so many friends looking happy in relationships, getting married, having kids, it can make me feel like I'm missing out. I don't even really have friends that I am able to see often because all my friends are either online (only ever been able to meet one online friend) or have their own busy lives.
I don't know what to do really. I try not to think too much about it, and usually I am relatively happy with my life, but sometimes it's impossible not to. I don't like drinking and I'm not huge on stuff that's popular for my age such as clubbing (I'm quite introverted and usually prefer quiet places) so that's out of the question, and most other things I enjoy tend to have an older demographic or be online.
TL;DR
I guess what I'm getting at is that I just feel behind in life and need reassurance that it's okay to not have things figured out yet and not have any experience in the gay dating world.
I also don't want to rush into things because I feel like I would regret it but seeing so many friends looking happy in relationships, getting married, having kids, it can make me feel like I'm missing out. I don't even really have friends that I am able to see often because all my friends are either online (only ever been able to meet one online friend) or have their own busy lives.
I don't know what to do really. I try not to think too much about it, and usually I am relatively happy with my life, but sometimes it's impossible not to. I don't like drinking and I'm not huge on stuff that's popular for my age such as clubbing (I'm quite introverted and usually prefer quiet places) so that's out of the question, and most other things I enjoy tend to have an older demographic or be online.
TL;DR
I guess what I'm getting at is that I just feel behind in life and need reassurance that it's okay to not have things figured out yet and not have any experience in the gay dating world.
the time will come and your person is out there !
