I'll try to answer your questions one by one, based on my own experience:
What is the best type of circumcision style?
I think if I were to get it done again, I'd get a high and loose circumcision, and leave the frenulum alone. As long as the glans can be free, there is no real need to remove the frenulum or a lot of inner skin. I'd want to be able to push inner skin onto the glans for masturbation easily, even if it's just a few millimeters. I know, everyone is always like, "yeah, high and tight!", but actually, there's no need, and you can have more fun with a bit of loose skin while still having a bare glans on full display.
How tight do I get cut?
Like I said, I'd go loose, but not so loose that you get coverage involuntarily.
Should I keep some shaft skin?
I'd keep it till about one finger's width behind the glans.
Where's the best place for the scar?
One finger's width behind the glans.
Keep or ditch the frenulum?
Keep, and save yourself the sutures there.
What type of circumcision did you choose?
I got a freehand circumcision and had the frenulum removed. The choice was made by the doctor though. I had no idea there were different styles.
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What are the pros/cons?
It looks very good, but I wish I could push some skin onto the glans when erect more easily.
How tight are you when soft?
Not very. In theory, I could pull the skin over the glans, and on cold days, it might stay there, but it won't push forward by itself. Here what it usually looks like:
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And I can even do this, though I don't (I like the glans out):
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The underside looks like this - a v-shaped wedge, to make it look less cut, and more like a retracted foreskin; I don't see the point. I think they could have cut it straight, a bit looser, and left the frenulum in place:
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How tight when hard?
Not very.
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Does your shaft skin touch your head when soft?
Yes, it bunches up against it.
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Let me know what you think is best!
I think one should be able to do this when hard; I can do this when semi erect only, but by the time it gets really hard, I can't really reach the glans anymore. I've tried restoring a little to be able to pull it onto the glans, but my girlfriend doesn't want me to:
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