Bi, love men and women but as a get older, men peak my interest more.

[MagnumV]

Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. I'm an older man, Bi, happily married to a women and have adult children. Do not want to change any of that. Friends and family are mostly straight. As I get older, my sexuality draws me more towards men and I have some great bi and gay friends. I have met a few men in similar situations. Any one else have this experience.

 

[56cappdogg]

Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. I'm an older man, Bi, happily married to a women and have adult children. Do not want to change any of that. Friends and family are mostly straight. As I get older, my sexuality draws me more towards men and I have some great bi and gay friends. I have met a few men in similar situations. Any one else have this experience.

Told my wife about me being bi, she accepted it. Told me not to play around.

 

[pedroram4567]

Same thing; have you done anything about it?

 

[diver6]

As I get older my options open up more and more! I did have bro time as a teen though.

 

[bravesoldier]

I have always heard that a lot of bi men really gravitate toward their same sex desires as they get older. Have heard they just mellow out and don't give a damn anymore, figuratively speaking. Men seem to be open more to quick, no commitment sex which can be so gratifying. I stopped by a buddy's house the other day on the way home, blew him, swallowed his load and he went back to work. Yes, he was able to leave work for a few minutes, come home, get sucked off and go right back.

My experience, when a couple of gay or bi guys get together, the very first thing they do is have sex, no question. This past summer a good friend came to town to get a load of lumber from me, but he stopped by my house first. I nursed his big cock good, he fucked and bred me then we went and got the lumber. It was so hot while loading that lumber knowing he'd just pumped me full of his cum.

 

[allin4cum]

YES, I have been BI all my life though I only acknowledged it in my 30's. I always said I was equally gay and straight. Now though, I'm 70 and find that I probably lean gay more than straight as I really crave sucking a cock more and more.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

Yep. Me too. I love MM sex. Suck a relaxing relief but don’t what to change my married life and family. Wish I could have it all….. just more randy and more open as I get older. My wife is less randy and less open.

 

[GeorgiaMan]

I posted in a different thread that bisexuality has generally confused me. Not the part about being attracted to both men and women but really how one reconciles it with the relationships they pursue (if they choose to pursue them).

I'd say the age 55+ crowd of guys now didn't really have the ability to be as open about their sexuality when they were younger so a lot of gay men married women, had families, and are now at the age where they decided to just be open and go for it. I have one such friend now who came out to his wife at 50 after having never been with a guy, they divorced, and he's been dating and sleeping with men ever since. He's more handsome and in better physical shape now than when he was 40.

In my early 30s I had some trysts with a guy who married his high school girlfriend knowing he liked guys too, they were married for several years, eventually divorced because he was fooling around with guys, he began sleeping with men regularly, then a few years after we lost touch he shows up on Instagram, married to an attractive younger woman and has two kids. He always claimed he was bi and not gay so I guess he got it out of his system or maybe not and she just doesn't care.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

I posted in a different thread that bisexuality has generally confused me. Not the part about being attracted to both men and women but really how one reconciles it with the relationships they pursue (if they choose to pursue them).

I'd say the age 55+ crowd of guys now didn't really have the ability to be as open about their sexuality when they were younger so a lot of gay men married women, had families, and are now at the age where they decided to just be open and go for it. I have one such friend now who came out to his wife at 50 after having never been with a guy, they divorced, and he's been dating and sleeping with men ever since. He's more handsome and in better physical shape now than when he was 40.

In my early 30s I had some trysts with a guy who married his high school girlfriend knowing he liked guys too, they were married for several years, eventually divorced because he was fooling around with guys, he began sleeping with men regularly, then a few years after we lost touch he shows up on Instagram, married to an attractive younger woman and has two kids. He always claimed he was bi and not gay so I guess he got it out of his system or maybe not and she just doesn't care.

So what’s wrong with that? “Got it out of his system”. What does that even mean? It’s not a binary either, or question. It can be both and someone can commit to a relationship. Bi doesn’t necessarily mean promiscuous.

 

[Cock-a-Hoop]

Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. I'm an older man, Bi, happily married to a women and have adult children. Do not want to change any of that. Friends and family are mostly straight. As I get older, my sexuality draws me more towards men and I have some great bi and gay friends. I have met a few men in similar situations. Any one else have this experience.

Yes !!!!! and my theory is that the older we get i.e the weaker we get , we can no longer be the alpha and just want to fuck anything that will let us

 

[Lovetobetouched]

Yes !!!!! and my theory is that the older we get i.e the weaker we get , we can no longer be the alpha and just want to fuck anything that will let us

Probs. Good theory. Older I get the less I’m shocked or surprised by myself. It’s all fun.

 

[Funbmwdriver]

Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. I'm an older man, Bi, happily married to a women and have adult children. Do not want to change any of that. Friends and family are mostly straight. As I get older, my sexuality draws me more towards men and I have some great bi and gay friends. I have met a few men in similar situations. Any one else have this experience.

Uh…. That’s me!

 

[odave]

Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. I'm an older man, Bi, happily married to a women and have adult children. Do not want to change any of that. Friends and family are mostly straight. As I get older, my sexuality draws me more towards men and I have some great bi and gay friends. I have met a few men in similar situations. Any one else have this experience.

I can definitely relate to this. For me, the more I mature, the more gay I become, and the more I desire to be sexual with men.

 

[Funbmwdriver]

I can definitely relate to this. For me, the more I mature, the more gay I become, and the more I desire to be sexual with men.

I can saw…much better at head! And like having sex every other day!!

 

[raddude]

As someone who identifies as bi as well I have noticed that the older I get the more I tend to pursue men more than women even tho I am still attracted to both.

 

[Lovetobetouched]

As someone who identifies as bi as well I have noticed that the older I get the more I tend to pursue men more than women even tho I am still attracted to both.

Agree

 

[dana2]

I am 100% gay but currently being pursued by someone exactly in your situation. Unfortunately I am not very attracted to this person but he is really hungry for my cock.

 

[WilliamG]

Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. I'm an older man, Bi, happily married to a women and have adult children. Do not want to change any of that. Friends and family are mostly straight. As I get older, my sexuality draws me more towards men and I have some great bi and gay friends. I have met a few men in similar situations. Any one else have this experience.

This is very common. But the $64k question is how you deal with it. So many guy post over on Reddit in the bi-married subs... So many. I struggle with this as well. The wife and I still have great sex after all these years (though not nearly enough). Maybe it's the fact sex with another man adds the "taboo" that tends to go away with years of male female sex. But it is a thing!

 

[Cock-a-Hoop]

Probs. Good theory. Older I get the less I’m shocked or surprised by myself. It’s all fun.

And that is what we need in later life .... Fun who cares what gender is pleasing you , or that you are pleasing , which mouth your cock is in ??? or is in yours

 

[mmmniple]

I have known men who happened what you described BUT also others on the opposite situation : they thought they were gay all their life and suddenly, often after 4x,they felt very confusing because they began to develop attracting about women.
I believe than the age makes us thinking about the past, what we have lost mixed with the feeling of being more independent (in sense than what others think about us affect less) and we tend to want go deeper, trying things which we thought it was forbidden or bad..