Can’t Get My Wife With A Big Cock Out Of My Mind!

[deleted13136491]

Completely true story no BS nothing crazy


So I’ve been with my wife since high school. We are both 32 been married for 7 years now. Both attractive fit people. Have a good sex life when we have the time. Have never had sex with anybody else. Only kissed other people before we got together. I’ll try and make this short and to the point. I was more on the jealous side early on. I got more secure with myself as I got older. Eventually I got into the whole hotwife/cuckold fetish. Didn’t tell my wife obviously didn’t think she would be into it at all. I got her to wear a thong a few times at the beach because she has a great ass and it realllly turned me on and I think she liked the idea of showing her butt off. I would sometimes randomly pull her skirt up outside and her butt would be exposed with a little g-string and she would wait a few second before pulling it down. I was turned on by the fact somebody could have saw and I think she was too. So I obviously had a hot wife fetish. Because my wife is hot lol. One day a few years ago I was at work and asked her to send me a picture of her ass and she did. I ended up posting it on a website (which I know I shouldn’t of done) but I got a bunch of responses from guys. I told my wife and she was mad at first but I told her a bunch of guys responded and she was kind of flattered. She said are any of them cute haha. And I sent her some of the guys pictures that responded. A few of the guys were absolutely jacked and ripped and had massive dicks. Now they could have very well been fake pics who knows but she got a lot of responses none the less. When my wife saw the guys she was really turned on. My wife is a very shy and innocent woman, we have our fun and bed and has a fun side but for the most part very cautious. Her reaction was “damnnnn they are fucking! Want to have a threesome haha”. She was joking but some what serious. So from that rite there my interest in the fetish blew up lol. I was turned on that she was really turned on. I told her if she wanted to meet one of the guys she had my blessing if I was there of course. She really did humor the idea and was tempted. I got her as far as to actually exchange emails with one of the guys. He was built like an Olympian and had a huge dick. I read some of the emails and my wife got very very dirty with him. She sent another picture of his ass and he sent her a ton of pics of his dick and body and a few of him with cum on his abs saying he jerked off to my wife’s picture. He asked her to get a cucumber the size of his cock which he claimed was 11 inches but again who the hell knows and put it in between her tits and take a picture and send it to him and she did. Eventually We deleted the email account (I wish we didn’t) lol but some of the more dirty things she said to him was from what I can remember


-I can’t get your pictures out of my mind

-Your dick looks so heavy

-I bet you make guys at the gym feel inadequate

-If I saw that thing in real life I would have to touch it

-I would like make out with your dick

-I would lick from the bottom all the way to the tip of your dick which would take a while because your so huge

-My husband is above average but your soo much bigger

-I would take you as far in my mouth as I could. I can get most of my husbands dick in my mouth but Your so much bigger and thicker

-I would lick that thick cum off your hot abs

-I would sit on your face I bet you’d love that

-We can get in a 69 and it’s up to you if you want to hold my head down while I suck your dick

-Yes, you can get on top in a 69 and basically fuck my mouth

-I would squeeze your ass to pull you in closer

-You can fuck me from behind

-I’m so wet writing this


So there was a lot of other stuff but that’s what I remember and obviously she masturbated while emailing each other. She also said to me “he looks like he was created to breed”. And she said jokingly “what would you do if I got pregnant would you raise his child”. Which I can’t believe she would even say that to be honest. And this went back and fourth for about a month and he would send her a lot of pics and tell her dirty stuff he would do to her and she seemed to like it all. She told me she was tempted and if it wasn’t for her being a germaphobe she probably would consider actually fucking him. We both decided to end it because she said it was too distracting and she caught herself on her phone too much and thinking about it too much. I wanted to end it because she said something that bothered me, I asked her what would you do if I died would you meet up with him and she said yeah maybe he seems to be almost perfect. He was a really nice guy on top of being physically perfect and they had a lot in common. So that kind of scared me off I don’t know why. So that ended and we deleted the email. Since then we watch porn sometimes and my wife seems to gravitate into the whole cuckold porn. I’ll give her a choice of scenes to watch and she seems to always pick a scene where the guy has a big dick and she seems to always pick a scene where the husband watches the wife get fucked. Or 2 guys fuck a wife. So thats my loooong story if you read it thank you very much! My question I guess is what do you make of it?? Do you think my wife is really into the whole fetish? Is she really a size queen deep down? Does she deep down want to experience another man? Or a bigger man? Should I stop pursuing this considering she told me she won’t do it even though she seems to show interest? Any advice would be awesome thank you for reading!

 

[glocker288]

Definitely pursue it. If not, when you are older you will wish you had. Also, if you both agree to pursue it you don’t have to worry about her cheating on you.

 

[deleted13136491]

I’m not really worried about her cheating to be honest. If she was gonna she would have done it in college and I’m almost positive she didn’t. I feel like I did pursue it and she gave me a little taste of it. She exchanged pictures and emailed dirty things back and fourth with another guy. And she admitted to masturbating to him and she fantasized about him while we fucked. Since they stopped emailing each other we have talked very little about it and I feel she humors me sometimes while we have sex but if I don’t bring it up I don’t think she would ever bring it up. So I dunno I don’t want to push the issue but would she really do that with another man if she wasn’t interested deep down?? I’m not sure

 

[deleted59763]

You won't be able to handle it after the deed is done,you need to keep fantasy, fantasy.
You are high school sweethearts ,you do what your doing and can pretty much say divorce will be down the road. Once you got that image of her fucking and sucking a bigger cock,you will feel very inadequate every time your dick gets close to here pussy,always asking yourself am I good enough,big enough.
You will always know after that ,that you will never please her like he had,been a lot of people do it and not make it,choose wisely.
Your life will not be the same once it is done,good or bad,good luck.

 

[nakedbro]

All good points but you planted the seed in some fertile soil(her mind) and added water(images). She wants to experience it now since you started. The seed sprouted (images back and forth) with text messages (sunlight). Now you have a small plant that is growing (her desire to try it).

Have the discussion with her to see if this is still a desire of hers. If she says no, then move on. If she says yes, either the two of you fulfill it or she will on her own without your knowledge. Remember a woman will desire something with her mind and if she wants it, she will get it.

As was mentioned before, this is a real risky proposition for which she has been exposed to and seemed to want. She was turned on by every part of it as a willing participant once you showed you were okay with it. Be prepared for her response that she wants to try it and if you go through with it hopefully all goes well. If you do try it, I highly recommend you do this fat away from home.

Good luck on your decision and let us know.

 

[deleted13136491]

You won't be able to handle it after the deed is done,you need to keep fantasy, fantasy.
You are high school sweethearts ,you do what your doing and can pretty much say divorce will be down the road. Once you got that image of her fucking and sucking a bigger cock,you will feel very inadequate every time your dick gets close to here pussy,always asking yourself am I good enough,big enough.
You will always know after that ,that you will never please her like he had,been a lot of people do it and not make it,choose wisely.
Your life will not be the same once it is done,good or bad,good luck.

Thank you for your advice. Your probably 100 percent rite. I’m sure I’ll be turned on by it but at some point I may get very jealous and feel inadequate.

 

[deleted13136491]

All good points but you planted the seed in some fertile soil(her mind) and added water(images). She wants to experience it now since you started. The seed sprouted (images back and forth) with text messages (sunlight). Now you have a small plant that is growing (her desire to try it).

Have the discussion with her to see if this is still a desire of hers. If she says no, then move on. If she says yes, either the two of you fulfill it or she will on her own without your knowledge. Remember a woman will desire something with her mind and if she wants it, she will get it.

As was mentioned before, this is a real risky proposition for which she has been exposed to and seemed to want. She was turned on by every part of it as a willing participant once you showed you were okay with it. Be prepared for her response that she wants to try it and if you go through with it hopefully all goes well. If you do try it, I highly recommend you do this fat away from home.

Good luck on your decision and let us know.[

All good points but you planted the seed in some fertile soil(her mind) and added water(images). She wants to experience it now since you started. The seed sprouted (images back and forth) with text messages (sunlight). Now you have a small plant that is growing (her desire to try it).

Have the discussion with her to see if this is still a desire of hers. If she says no, then move on. If she says yes, either the two of you fulfill it or she will on her own without your knowledge. Remember a woman will desire something with her mind and if she wants it, she will get it.

As was mentioned before, this is a real risky proposition for which she has been exposed to and seemed to want. She was turned on by every part of it as a willing participant once you showed you were okay with it. Be prepared for her response that she wants to try it and if you go through with it hopefully all goes well. If you do try it, I highly recommend you do this fat away from home.

Good luck on your decision and let us know.

Thank your for your advice. I’m stuck in limbo because I pretty much have flat out said this can happen if you want and she said no. So yeah I know I should leave it at that but I legit can’t stop thinking about it. It kind of sucks to be honest. I’m stuck in limbo because she says no and I know it’s mostly because she is cautious and a germaphobe. She’s religious too that plays a part. I’m religious as well. But what keeps me in limbo is knowing that she would deep down love to fuck this guy. I mean what girl would want to hook up with a mode with a huge cock am I rite? The fact that she exchanged such dirty emails tells me that she is turned on by the idea but yet she tells me no. So I guess that possibility of her wanting it is what keeps me craving it. I should just keep it as a fantasy though but it drives me wild!

 

[lbj15]

First, if you decide to follow through, I come to NYC regularly and am very experienced with this.

Second, as others have mentioned, once you do this, you can never go back. Be sure you're cool with making this particular fantasy a reality.

Most importantly though, have you considered that she knows this is a fantasy of yours, and is just trying to play along with it? It's one thing to get her to exchange dirty e-mails that she knows you read; it's another for her to be up for taking another cock inside her.

 

[deleted13136491]

I’m sure she would like you! Yeah I suppose once my wife is fucked there is no un-fucking her lol. I have considered it may just be her indulging in a fantasy and having no interest in actually doing it. I think that is it actually. It’s little things like her always seeming to be interested or turned on by guys with huge dicks in porn. And little comments here and there about big cocks. That makes me suspicious that she may be very interested in actually trying a big cock. I just think the fact that she sent such dirty pics and such dirty emails and masturbated with this guy means she does. I don’t know what to do lol I just wanna see my wife fucked by a big dick but at the same time I dunno if I could actually handle it

 

[MilfBanger78]

I know the fantasy well. Its something you really need to be 100% about. I've done it with ex's and loved it, but the first time I did it I'll admit I was a little uneasy. As I got older it became much hotter. My advice would be, keep it casual. SHe shouldn't be talking to the guy on the side, all correspondence should involve you both. (with regards to these types of situations..I know some have other rules where they are more open...In my opinion its best to start like this though just so everyone is secure). NEVER do it with someone you "know" IE a friend coworkers etc. That lends itself to more possible feelings on insecurity & jealousy.. Plus you never know with close proximity if feelings could develop.

One thing that troubles me, is your wifes response to you asking if she would date that guy, if you werent in the picture. And she said she liked him aside from his body and cock etc. Thats a red flag to me, indicates the convos have gotten way too intimate for a scenario like this.

I've been involved in swinging for 20 yrs from almost all scenarios..sharing my GF, fucking other mens wives, and couple-swaps, orgies etc. Ppl react in different ways and its not always predictable. I've seen guys have this fantasy so badly, and then it happens and they're shattered. Dreaming about your wife with a huge cock is one thing, actually witnessing it, and seeing how much pleasure she's getting can be quite another. (I've looked at your pics, youre no slouch in the dick department! so you should feel pretty secure. I know u just want that MONSTER cock experience lol. I can relate)

 

[LargeUnit]

I’ve been the bull - and I can also say that I enjoy my girl showing off and getting attention from other men.
She is not the type to fuck other men - but I allow her to have some fun without going into details.
I love watching her be sexy- there is nothing hotter to me.

Anyway- 2 things…..
1) Never allow her to go alone - it all must be done together with you always present. If you allow her to go alone - you have rough waters ahead.
2) Your relationship must be SOLID. Talk about it - rules, boundaries and make sure she knows it’s purely sexy desires - not connections.
I can’t stress this enough.
Maybe do a baby step thing to where you take her out and she shows off a bit - maybe some light play to see how things feel to you. Sex can be a devastating thing that destroys if you’re not careful.

 

[nailz]

One thing that troubles me, is your wifes response to you asking if she would date that guy, if you werent in the picture. And she said she liked him aside from his body and cock etc. Thats a red flag to me, indicates the convos have gotten way too intimate for a scenario like this.

1) Never allow her to go alone - it all must be done together with you always present. If you allow her to go alone - you have rough waters ahead.
2) Your relationship must be SOLID. Talk about it - rules, boundaries and make sure she knows it’s purely sexy desires - not connections.

This!

To someone experienced in threesomes your post (OP) is full of red flags
It doesn't sound like either of you are ready for a threesome (or worse - some kind of cuckold scenario) without putting your relationship at serious risk

If you do decide to pursue it then you should go back to what should have been step one and establish some ground rules.
-The first should be that you both need to approve everything and either one of you can nope out at any time.
-The second should be that all communication with a third party be done as a couple.

What you've been doing so far is basically encouraging her to jump back into the dating scene and start relationships with other men

 

[hzs3fg]

Sometimes I wish my wife had a big cock...

 

[LargeUnit]

I think it’s more common than we know. I love when my gf shows off and if a guy got his big cock out and rubbed it on her boobs - it would be totally erotic. I’ve got a sizable cock and she knows I satisfy her and she doesn’t want to fuck and jeopardize what we have ….but she still enjoys other men’s looks and attention and I sure can’t blame her. Sexuality is the most powerful thing in the world- even more than greed. Embrace it - but don’t let a woman have free reign with other Men- you’ll regret it.
That’s why I said baby steps - decide on a few scenarios and play them out and see how it feels.

 

[3HandsfulofDick]

I suggest you keep it in your mind. If you can take your wife getting fucked by a much larger guy (satisfying her in ways you can’t, her making noises with him that she doesn’t with you) then cool.. If you can’t, don’t take it out on your wife.. Remember you opened the door she just chose to walk through it..

 

[LargeUnit]

I suggest you keep it in your mind. If you can take your wife getting fucked by a much larger guy (satisfying her in ways you can’t, her making noises with him that she doesn’t with you) then cool.. If you can’t, don’t take it out on your wife.. Remember you opened the door she just chose to walk through it..

so true- if you allow and enable it, you can never hold it against her for enjoying it.
I would suggest if you do embark on it… Have her make sure she is making you a focal point during the sex so you feel like she is also doing it for your enjoyment as you watch her enjoy it

 

[deleted5199391]

This looks very similar to my situation, but a bit on steroids
For me is quite settled, we know it's a fantasy and it's not a danger for our relation. Maybe one day it will happen maybe not, doesn't matter.

I'll take your story as totally true.
It's clear that she is really sexually involved with this guy.
You should ask her if this is just for sex or there's something more.
For sure the fact she couldn't act her fantasies is making them stronger.

I was disturbed by the "if I die" part. This stuffs should be about life, even if I sound silly.
You have to love, be loved and enjoy sex. Sometimes you cuddle, sometimes you wank while your wife fuck a big cock. In the end of the day you should go to yourself (and so she) and live your life as normal. A kink shouldn't define your whole self.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Completely true story no BS nothing crazy


So I’ve been with my wife since high school. We are both 32 been married for 7 years now. Both attractive fit people. Have a good sex life when we have the time. Have never had sex with anybody else. Only kissed other people before we got together. I’ll try and make this short and to the point. I was more on the jealous side early on. I got more secure with myself as I got older. Eventually I got into the whole hotwife/cuckold fetish. Didn’t tell my wife obviously didn’t think she would be into it at all. I got her to wear a thong a few times at the beach because she has a great ass and it realllly turned me on and I think she liked the idea of showing her butt off. I would sometimes randomly pull her skirt up outside and her butt would be exposed with a little g-string and she would wait a few second before pulling it down. I was turned on by the fact somebody could have saw and I think she was too. So I obviously had a hot wife fetish. Because my wife is hot lol. One day a few years ago I was at work and asked her to send me a picture of her ass and she did. I ended up posting it on a website (which I know I shouldn’t of done) but I got a bunch of responses from guys. I told my wife and she was mad at first but I told her a bunch of guys responded and she was kind of flattered. She said are any of them cute haha. And I sent her some of the guys pictures that responded. A few of the guys were absolutely jacked and ripped and had massive dicks. Now they could have very well been fake pics who knows but she got a lot of responses none the less. When my wife saw the guys she was really turned on. My wife is a very shy and innocent woman, we have our fun and bed and has a fun side but for the most part very cautious. Her reaction was “damnnnn they are fucking! Want to have a threesome haha”. She was joking but some what serious. So from that rite there my interest in the fetish blew up lol. I was turned on that she was really turned on. I told her if she wanted to meet one of the guys she had my blessing if I was there of course. She really did humor the idea and was tempted. I got her as far as to actually exchange emails with one of the guys. He was built like an Olympian and had a huge dick. I read some of the emails and my wife got very very dirty with him. She sent another picture of his ass and he sent her a ton of pics of his dick and body and a few of him with cum on his abs saying he jerked off to my wife’s picture. He asked her to get a cucumber the size of his cock which he claimed was 11 inches but again who the hell knows and put it in between her tits and take a picture and send it to him and she did. Eventually We deleted the email account (I wish we didn’t) lol but some of the more dirty things she said to him was from what I can remember


-I can’t get your pictures out of my mind

-Your dick looks so heavy

-I bet you make guys at the gym feel inadequate

-If I saw that thing in real life I would have to touch it

-I would like make out with your dick

-I would lick from the bottom all the way to the tip of your dick which would take a while because your so huge

-My husband is above average but your soo much bigger

-I would take you as far in my mouth as I could. I can get most of my husbands dick in my mouth but Your so much bigger and thicker

-I would lick that thick cum off your hot abs

-I would sit on your face I bet you’d love that

-We can get in a 69 and it’s up to you if you want to hold my head down while I suck your dick

-Yes, you can get on top in a 69 and basically fuck my mouth

-I would squeeze your ass to pull you in closer

-You can fuck me from behind

-I’m so wet writing this


So there was a lot of other stuff but that’s what I remember and obviously she masturbated while emailing each other. She also said to me “he looks like he was created to breed”. And she said jokingly “what would you do if I got pregnant would you raise his child”. Which I can’t believe she would even say that to be honest. And this went back and fourth for about a month and he would send her a lot of pics and tell her dirty stuff he would do to her and she seemed to like it all. She told me she was tempted and if it wasn’t for her being a germaphobe she probably would consider actually fucking him. We both decided to end it because she said it was too distracting and she caught herself on her phone too much and thinking about it too much. I wanted to end it because she said something that bothered me, I asked her what would you do if I died would you meet up with him and she said yeah maybe he seems to be almost perfect. He was a really nice guy on top of being physically perfect and they had a lot in common. So that kind of scared me off I don’t know why. So that ended and we deleted the email. Since then we watch porn sometimes and my wife seems to gravitate into the whole cuckold porn. I’ll give her a choice of scenes to watch and she seems to always pick a scene where the guy has a big dick and she seems to always pick a scene where the husband watches the wife get fucked. Or 2 guys fuck a wife. So thats my loooong story if you read it thank you very much! My question I guess is what do you make of it?? Do you think my wife is really into the whole fetish? Is she really a size queen deep down? Does she deep down want to experience another man? Or a bigger man? Should I stop pursuing this considering she told me she won’t do it even though she seems to show interest? Any advice would be awesome thank you for reading!

You wife was likely just experimenting with the idea of another, because you wanted it.

Overall, this reads like you pushed and she wanted to make you happy.
Here is the thing about fantasy, women are stellar at knowing what’s a fantasy and what is reality.
Some get frenzy with a new interest, I see it in women in the kink world. While it isn’t gender specific, some women tend to immerse in a new activity to a dangerous level.
Look up “sub frenzy.”
Once that flush is over, we can be astoundingly rational about kink.

And you don’t have a “fetish” in this case. A fetish is an object or activity that is required for arousal.

Your wife said she doesn’t want to do this. She tried it and it felt wrong.
Respect that.

 

[LargeUnit]

I will also add…. The woman absolutely must know how to separate an erotic fun episode from gaining feelings or wanting to connect.
So many don’t know how to do that - that’s one thing you better discuss. It’s simply a sexy situation and then it’s over - on to the next or on with life.

sex with the same person is like glue ….. it begins to get sticky and becomes difficult to separate from it if you continue going back to the same person.
Make it an event - not a relationship.

 

[Thonglovingmate]

Well said both of the above posters