From my (limited) experience of sex with a mother, your tearing and stitching assumption is spot on.I've never personally had sex with a woman who has had children, but a good friend of mine made a point to mention his wife was even tighter after she gave birth to their child. Vaginas will typically tear during birth and need to get stitched up, so I would expect it depends on how that goes.
Nope, never noticed a difference. All of the pussy I've ever experienced was really, really good!I've heard women say they need more girth from a man after delivering children.
I was wondering if you can feel the difference with your penis?