Colton underwood- american football player

Well apparently Colton doesn't deserve it according to some activists on here and other social medias lmao
I haven't seen anything say that, nor is that what I said. What I have observed however is that people are pointing out how he being received vs how other people in similar situations have been received. There is nothing wrong in calling that out. Period!
 
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We can acknowledge and talk about whatever mental health issues, insecurities, internalized phobias, sociological pressures Colton has perhaps gone through. I would also say that there is a bit of a double-standard. If this were a female under the same circumstances and journey she wouldn’t be getting nearly as much flack.

However, you can’t manipulate the facts. He has gotten the opportunities he’s been gotten and continues to get primarily because he’s white and conventionally good-looking to most. Last year he had a restraining order against him and was accused of harassing, badgering and tracking his ex girlfriend. He hasn’t denied any of this and has pretty much confirmed it in a round-about way. He claims that he wasn’t dealing with confusions, fluidity or contradictions. He knew that he didn’t have any legit interests in women. Yet, he still signed up to be “The Bachelor” and do all that mess on TV for years. While just last year he used being a “straight virgin” and his hetero relationship to promote a book. He chose to reveal his “gayness” in a self-promoting interview. While we did find out about his new Netflix show and new book deal the same day that interview aired. And it does appear that he has/had Conservative politics.

This is the reality of the shit. Whether you choose to support him or “forgive and forget” or wait to see how he behaves and presents himself in the future or you simply don’t care, that is up to you. But don’t try to manipulate the reality of things.

no one is manipulating the reality, he said sorry. People can forgive, probably not forget. Being born white is not someone else’s choice, same as being born gay. He capitalize on that, yes. But we all have to do something for a living. Did he fool a lot of people, yes. Did he say sorry for that, yes. If you cannot forgive, fine don’t support him. Just don’t be judgemental to those who will support him, or currently supporting him.
 
I’m sorry it’s just hard for me to be happy for him.(It might just be me)
Another good looking gay white male who is primarily going to associate with exclusively other gay white males. Who has been blessed with a Netflix show so I can watch two gay white elitist say shit like period, Yas, and other phrases made popular by black women.
Why should I be excited for Colton?
No one is telling you to be excited about him. What you should do if you cannot be happy for him: unwatchable this thread, don’t watch his special, don’t buy his book, unfollow all people associated with him so you can’t see him with other white guys. Also, nothing is wrong if he hangs out with just white guys.
 
No one is telling you to be excited about him. What you should do if you cannot be happy for him: unwatchable this thread, don’t watch his special, don’t buy his book, unfollow all people associated with him so you can’t see him with other white guys. Also, nothing is wrong if he hangs out with just white guys.
“Unwatch”
 
knowing what he did to his ex gf and the other stuff ... i mean sure u can be happy for him, watever, but does he actually deserve it after all of that? i dunno. i find him to be a real nasty person. i watched a couple of interviews, especially where he said a girls period is gross and what not, and yes, hes handsome, but damn, so unlikeable.
and him coming out in a big interview? such a PR move.

what he does, if hes genuinely coming out and whatnot, is not doing any good to all the guys and girls who struggle with their identity and essentially coming out or staying in the closet.
i dont rly care what he does for money but fuckin hell. what a moron. i seriously hope no one watches it. cause what advice could he give anyone? none. watsoever. he's privileged to no end and absolutely not relatable
 
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I haven't seen anything say that, nor is that what I said. What I have observed however is that people are pointing out how he being received vs how other people in similar situations have been received. There is nothing wrong in calling that out. Period!
"I haven't seen it so ot doesn't exist" lol
 
I’m probably more legit “straight passing” and “typically straight acting” than Colton is. While the fact that there are plenty of “masculine” white dudes who are coming at Colton or simply haven’t showed support completely undermines your lame ass theory, which has undercurrents of racism and femme-phobia. You’re also the one responding to a handful of posts and borderline trolling people. So, clearly you care as well. But you clearly don’t care enough to acknowledge the facts and the various criticism people. While the discussion isn’t really that much about Colton himself. It’s more about circumstances, privilege, identity politics, celebrity, consequences, etc.

As I said, reducing all the criticism to “bitter queens” who are mad that he’s white and decent looking just reveals what an ass you are. It’s not an argument or a defense. It’s just a deflection.
Lol someone is hitting them poppers