The funny thing is, I usually am. In person, I'm really friendly and balanced, analytical and thoughtful. But the comments by some guys in this thread pissed me off, to point of acting like a 5 year old. You know why? Because one of the things that pushes my buttons faster than almost anything, is hypocrisy. Gay men are the worst in this area because they want things like "equality" and "acceptance" but then they turn around and shame everybody around them with hateful comments about their income, looks, weight, body hair, cock size, intelligence etc... Like they are the dictators of what is acceptable or sexy about other people's bodies. And you can't reason with them or criticize them in a mature manner - it doesn't work, so you might as well just devolve into "fuck you and die in a fire" I really have zero tolerance for guys like that. And to be clear, this isn't about Connor or beards or any one particular thing - it's about elitist arrogant attitudes.