Need advice.. wife and I been together since 1996, in 1998 I went to bootcamp and 2 weeks after I left she was hooking up with friend of a friend. She kept that secret for over 20yrs. But since then about 10 yrs ago we have "open" marriage and got into hotwife/cuckolding. This past year she addmited to cheating with the friend back in 1998 to about 2002. I love it. I even posted in the stories forum section. Well even more recently he texted me for business help. I've never spoke with him via text or even back in the day. Been texting often to help him out now tho. I want to let him know I am aware of what happened many years ago and that we are open to him being her bull now.
How do I approach that in a text or should I not?
How do I approach that in a text or should I not?