Cruising in the Gym Advice

[alwaysmale]

Hey, guys. So today, I was leaving my gym and before I did, I saw something I've never seen there before. Usually, it's a lot of older guys and not very interesting, but I saw one guy at his locker totally nude, and he was just my tyoe. Athletic, masculine with a great ass and in fully disolay, Now when I see men like that nude in front of me, the first thing I want to do is get naked and join them. But I had a feeling that maybe doing this at a gym with a guy I didn't know would be reckless, so I just went on my way.

So what do you think, guys? Should I have said fuck it and gotten naked in front of him? How have you played off situations like this, and was it worth the risk? If I do see him again, I'd like to be prepared. Thanks.

 

[Treek]

Hey, guys. So today, I was leaving my gym and before I did, I saw something I've never seen there before. Usually, it's a lot of older guys and not very interesting, but I saw one guy at his locker totally nude, and he was just my tyoe. Athletic, masculine with a great ass and in fully disolay, Now when I see men like that nude in front of me, the first thing I want to do is get naked and join them. But I had a feeling that maybe doing this at a gym with a guy I didn't know would be reckless, so I just went on my way.

So what do you think, guys? Should I have said fuck it and gotten naked in front of him? How have you played off situations like this, and was it worth the risk? If I do see him again, I'd like to be prepared. Thanks.

It depends. Is your gym a cruisy gym?

Assuming that it's not, my way of thinking is, if a guy is getting naked in a crowded gym, he knows he's going to be seen. There are ways to get naked without being seen. We see straight guys do it all the time. If it wasn't crowded at the time though, he probably assumed he had some privacy and you should respect that.

But assuming not, what do you have to lose? Get naked, but stay at a respectable distance. Don't touch unless invited to. And if you can tell he's not into it or into you, then back off. But if he's giving other guys play then be assertive and get yours.

 

[elklindoxxx]

Public Service Announcement....

People go to gyms to exercise. Not to look for sexual encounters. I go to the gym to get my work in. And trust me, I'm not really paying attention to anybody else. It's really not appropiate.

I like to get to my local JO club at least once a month, where all of us men can be men. That is a more appropriate setting.

 

[Kinglmao]

Jack off club ? What’s that ?

 

[Treek]

Public Service Announcement....

People go to gyms to exercise. Not to look for sexual encounters. I go to the gym to get my work in. And trust me, I'm not really paying attention to anybody else. It's really not appropiate.

I like to get to my local JO club at least once a month, where all of us men can be men. That is a more appropriate setting.

Public Service Announcement....

This is cap.

 

[luke_ttx]

Public Service Announcement....

People go to gyms to exercise. Not to look for sexual encounters. I go to the gym to get my work in. And trust me, I'm not really paying attention to anybody else. It's really not appropiate.

I like to get to my local JO club at least once a month, where all of us men can be men. That is a more appropriate setting.

Dude…I need to find a jack off club. Tell me more about how to find them.

 

[opinionman]

go to nyjacks.com and see links for jackoff clubs. I don't know of any in San Antonio. the closest one I know is The Club in Dallas, but that's really a sex club, not a JO club,and of course it's not near San Antonio

 

[opinionman]

Jack off club ? What’s that ?

Seriously?? You don't know what a jack off club is?
Nyjacks.com
philadelphiajacks.com

 

[Kinglmao]

Seriously?? You don't know what a jack off club is?
Nyjacks.com
philadelphiajacks.com

Never heard of it

 

[opinionman]

Oh, my! Well, you can check out those sites I posted. A jackoff club is a club that limits sexual activity to men jacking off--either themselves or others. I've been to several over the past 40 years. They totally rock. First, jacking off is awesome and everyone there is into it, as that is the nature (and rules) of the club.
Second, whatever that mysterious sense of camaraderie that occurs when men do this, these clubs have it in spades, so to speak. I always feel great while I'm there, and I tend to pay a lot of attention to other men, often kneeling on a couch and jacking off two guys at once. Then once I shoot my load I can relax in a place where men really understand each other. There's no substitute for that feeling. Do a google search for "jackoff clubs" and see

 

[luke_ttx]

I am visiting New York right now for work and looked up NY Jacks. I wish I’d known about it before now because I don’t think I can go this trip.

 

[opinionman]

Well, see if there's any way to do it. It totally fuckin rocks. Great guys.
The very first time I tried to find it was in 1985 and some of the streets in NYC were confusing (not the grid streets of course... I think there was a difference between "4th st" and "West 4th st" or something) and so I didn't make it . The next time a few weeks later, BINGO. Found my way down stairs to this basement club time area, panting with excitement and nerves, and the first thing I saw wa sa fit dude standing under a pin light and jacking his big dick for all it was worth. That fuckin sent me thru the roof!
I've been several times over the years and it's always worth it.
Make the effort. If you do go, locate the venue on 37 st ( I think that's right) and get there 5-10 minutes head of opening time.

 

[luke_ttx]

Well, see if there's any way to do it. It totally fuckin rocks. Great guys.
The very first time I tried to find it was in 1985 and some of the streets in NYC were confusing (not the grid streets of course... I think there was a difference between "4th st" and "West 4th st" or something) and so I didn't make it . The next time a few weeks later, BINGO. Found my way down stairs to this basement club time area, panting with excitement and nerves, and the first thing I saw wa sa fit dude standing under a pin light and jacking his big dick for all it was worth. That fuckin sent me thru the roof!
I've been several times over the years and it's always worth it.
Make the effort. If you do go, locate the venue on 37 st ( I think that's right) and get there 5-10 minutes head of opening time.

I will plan ahead next time. I visit NY a few times a year for work.

 

[Kinglmao]

go to nyjacks.com and see links for jackoff clubs. I don't know of any in San Antonio. the closest one I know is The Club in Dallas, but that's really a sex club, not a JO club,and of course it's not near San Antonio

Dallas has one?

 

[luke_ttx]

Dallas has one?

I saw online that Austin has one.

 

[Treek]

I saw online that Austin has one.

Austin does

 

[opinionman]

Dallas has one?

Again, "the Club" in Dallas (assuming it's still in existence) is a sex club, not a jackoff club. In the latter, there is no "insertion of anyone's anything anywhere." In other words, jacking off, frontage, etc is allowed but no oral or anal sex.

 

[luke_ttx]

Again, "the Club" in Dallas (assuming it's still in existence) is a sex club, not a jackoff club. In the latter, there is no "insertion of anyone's anything anywhere." In other words, jacking off, frontage, etc is allowed but no oral or anal sex.

I would like to hear more about the sex club in Dallas. Are there others in Texas? Austin? San Antonio?

 

[opinionman]

The one in Dallas on Swiss Ave is a typical sex club. There is (or was) a weight lifting/gym area, which no one uses, tho' I did once, making sure anyone could see my jockstrap peeking out from my shorts.It's got small and med sized rooms, a sauna, a pool, a steam room an open shower with a hot tub. Guys just walk around cruising, usually wrapped in a towel. I myself wear a jockstrap. Guys are friendly enough and they're all there for the same reason, of course. I liked getting sucked off in the sauna... always had a thing for that.
I guess they're still in business.

 

[luke_ttx]

The one in Dallas on Swiss Ave is a typical sex club. There is (or was) a weight lifting/gym area, which no one uses, tho' I did once, making sure anyone could see my jockstrap peeking out from my shorts.It's got small and med sized rooms, a sauna, a pool, a steam room an open shower with a hot tub. Guys just walk around cruising, usually wrapped in a towel. I myself wear a jockstrap. Guys are friendly enough and they're all there for the same reason, of course. I liked getting sucked off in the sauna... always had a thing for that.
I guess they're still in business.

That’s so hot. I’ve always wanted to visit a place like that but never had the balls to go. I’m DL and always afraid someone’s gonna see me