Taking big cock advice

[cptviper]

Please keep that in mind

Thank you kind stranger

 

[supersayian29]

Thank you kind stranger

Your welcome. You deserve better remeber that.

 

[Nawty_Man65]

Hey community, I feel almost ungrateful posting this but I genuinely need advice from someone who's maybe been in my position.

Firstly I am not a virgin, I'm 32 and have been around the block for half that time. I especially pride myself on my ability to suck cock and deep throat and I really live to please my top.

However....

Last night I met up with a guy who I really like, we've been talking for some time. He's 19 for later context.
He mentioned a few times that he has a big dick and to be honest I assumed he was exaggerating, as most guys do.

Fast forward to later in the evening and we're at my place. I pull his pants down and begin to blow him. Before I know it, it feels like my throat is being ripped open and I barely make it 3/4 way down my throat. After multiple attempts I had to abandon the idea of going balls deep. Any further attempts could honestly lead to hospitalisation .

Then he gets super eager to fuck me and I think to myself, ok sure, no problem, I've played with bigger toys. Boy was I wrong.

It felt like I was taking cock for the very first time, and not in a good way. No matter how much I tried it hurt like a bitch, but I was determined to get him in. So against my own better judgement we just kept going till I had him inside me. To be honest I honestly can't so whether it felt good or bad. My body was rejecting him.

Then I kept praying that it will just be a few minutes then he'll finish and it will be over.

I was wrong.

That 19yr old mf just did not stop. He just kept going and going. Taking brief breaks, without pulling out, and then resumed the pounding. I honestly thought I might die.

Eventually after about an hour he finally came and I was so glad it was over.

We cuddled for a bit, but not even 20 minutes later he was rock hard again. I was under the impression that at least my hole has been warmed up to his size so it won't be an issue the second time.

Again....I was wrong.

It was like taking him for the first time all over again.

This went on about 3 more times till 4am. And by that point I was almost crying.

Now I'm sitting here, feeling like I've been tripled fisted in prison and he's so eager to make plans to see me again.

I don't know if I can go through that experience again. I'm all for a good time but apparently there is such a thing as too big.

The worst part is that all I ever wanted was to experience a big cock one day, thinking it will never happen, and now I realised how naive I was.

What should I do?

Don’t feel bad it’s not your fault.

Just be honest…

Tell him the truth and let him go. I’m sure there are others he will fit better with.

There’s a lot of factors that go into finding a man that’s the right fit..as it were. It’s not just about size! Sure length and girth can be important, but technique is almost as important. Getting pounded can be amazing but as you sorely discovered (pun intended), sometimes its not!

 

[2021697rm]

Man up and take it. 8 inches doesn’t sound too big to take . Think how lucky you are, others would kill to have an 8 inch cock to suck on or take up their ass .

 

[2021697rm]

Update: As stupid as I am, he wanted to see me again but I told him that I couldn't do anal again as I was still sore down there and he agreed, saying we can do other things. Later in the night he began asking for anal again and I said no, but eventually gave in, asking him to go slower. Overall it was better than the last time and we only had one fuck session. But I knew something was wrong. Skip a few days ahead and the area was still sensitive with uncomfortable BM. Shortly thereafter I started leaking pus from the area. So I realised I had developed an infection. Clearly my hole reached it's limit and something tore inside. I went a week with this infection but it did not clear up so I got antibiotics. Today is the last day of the course but the problem is persisting. So I'll most likely go see a doctor. As you can imagine the whole experience has put me off anal sex for the foreseeable future.

Sidenote: I keep telling him that he is too big for me, and he tells me other people take him no problem. So either my hole is smaller than most or he is gaslighting me.

Not worth it man. Your health is more important than some hung dude trying to stretch your ass beyond its limits. He’s playing mind games with you. Lose him now

 

[bigtoddster]

I've been there man - I've gotten myself into situations where my urge to take a big dick wasn't in check with the reality of the man's girth. I got lucky and wasn't injured, but on one occasion hurt myself and was left in pain for a solid week. I've learned to be honest and up front with bigger guys and temper the expectations of guys who might otherwise get a little too aggressive with their oversized manhood in the heat of it all.

 

[eridim]

Seems the topic has turned into general advice on taking big cock than on advice for the OP. Here's my two cents, it all comes down to how horny you are. If you lose horniness during the process, it will be difficult or impossible to take a big cock.

Sounds easy, but I've lost horniness just because I was eager to take it, and I'd concentrate entirely on fitting that big cock in that I forget what's actually happening and it all becomes a physical exercise and maneuvering rather than a hot experience. I always open myself a bit with a finger then two if the top doesn't do it himself and like to start with very small iterative jumps to insert it progressively and feel how deep he is in and how my ass is reacting.

Hitting your wall has little to do with size but with angle and position. I've had normal guys of 15-16 cm hit it, and I've had the biggest guys of 20-22 cm not hit it. I love getting fucked balls deep, and just feeling that hard cock stay deep up my ass, so I'll push my ass slowly against his cock feeling which angle and direction to go until we pick up a rhythm. Both standing up with him behind me is a great one, similarly with doggy on your twos instead of your fours, and squatting on his cock while he's laying down are some positions that generally work well for me. Missionary will almost always have him hit my wall unless he finds a good angle, which he often doesn't care about because hitting your cock against a wall inside the ass makes you feel like you have a bigger cock than you do.

Just last week I met this guy who looked like he has a normal cock, but in reality was very big and girthy. The surprise was so pleasant and his cock was so nice that when he started to fuck me I was impressed how smooth it went in, with no warming up or lube just spit, like knife through butter. Hornyness is the best lube.

 

[chrisrobin]

Just last week I met this guy who looked like he has a normal cock, but in reality was very big and girthy. The surprise was so pleasant and his cock was so nice that when he started to fuck me I was impressed how smooth it went in, with no warming up or lube just spit, like knife through butter. Hornyness is the best lube.

This is where it all comes to fruition when you are really hot and horny and ready for sex and you discover that he really does have a big weapon. Much is down to how receptive you both are to sex, sometimes eager can be heaven, a cock sliding inside you, spit lube and skill.
Like you I got picked up this week by a guy who looked average even when he got naked, but foreplay he was a grower, it grew thicker and longer and we both got a bit eager. A spit wet finger owned me up, a spit wet cock found the way in and in and in, both of us feeling bodies with free hands till he was deep fucking me, shooting his spunk inside me, taking my load in his hand, dripping through his fingers. Then relaxed he waited and went again, so did I.
After, as he retracted I was amazed at the size of it, I'm sure if I had known how big it was going to get I'd have turned him down to prevent splitting.
But glad I didnt.