Curtis From Sean Cody Is Trans?

It is not a pejorative when Curtis has not made the request himself. We are speculating over a Grinder profile.

Two, it is only a pejorative if it is intended hatefully. Acquiescence is may appear polite but when it flies in the face of objective facts, it is just promoting a degeneration of all meaning. Subjective reality now overrules objective facts at a whim.

We do not want to live in that world. Trust me.

And I was thinking that only my country has this gender issue and pronouns. I don't understand too much about it, but, if he wants to be called as "she", it's ok, my life won't be worse if I say "she" instead of "he". But, I know that if I do it, her life can be better. And I can see that some people here are using the pronoun "he" as a pejorative thing. Shame...
 
You deserve a prize. Being a victim is not virtuous. Elevating victims as superiors doesn't make you virtuous either. Just pathetic and irrational.

We can treat each other with tolerance and reason. But when people wander in and expect basic facts to be thrown out the window to accommodate a blatant political agenda that is perversely and deeply rooted in ones self-worth...eventually somebody is going to say "the Emperor has no clothes!" and yes, all Hell will break loose.

A lot of gay men have gone off the deep-end and can't even see how their professed beliefs are totally hypocritical and irrational anymore.

You’re using a lot of words but not saying anything profound but go off.
 
Man, I believe that some people are creating a victimization world, dividing people and raising a rage with all this of "don't say it", "don't do that", "it's offends me". But, about the gender, for me it's just a pronoun. It's matter for me, but, can be some important to some one.



It is not a pejorative when Curtis has not made the request himself. We are speculating over a Grinder profile.

Two, it is only a pejorative if it is intended hatefully. Acquiescence is may appear polite but when it flies in the face of objective facts, it is just promoting a degeneration of all meaning. Subjective reality now overrules objective facts at a whim.

We do not want to live in that world. Trust me.
 
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it doesn't matter to me*

Man, I believe that some people are creating a victimization world, dividing people and raising a rage with all this of "don't say it", "don't do that", "it's offends me". But, about the gender, for me it's just a pronoun. It's matter for me, but, can be some important to some one.
 
Honey, you seem to think I am totally unexposed to the deconstructive, novel ideas of university social science departments.

Newsflash. If sex and gender are bullshit social constructs, then so is the idea LGBT unity.

In fact a number of feminist lesbians recently critiqued the concept and they got mercilessly attacked. I respond to objective facts and logic, not moral posturing. Intersectionalism is pure political bullshit. Stinky, nasty bullshit that only attracts simple and uncritical minds.

I have nothing against people confronting gender dysmorphia. Studies have shown roughly 33% of self-identified gay adults have dealt with the issue. I will respectfully accommodate those I am confronted with. I do not feel violated if men wanting to be identified as women or women wanting to be identified as men enter my personal space. It is not a problem because I realize their lives do not revolve around me. They wish to exist. We have a right to that.

However, I expect the same courtesy in return. There is science, sweetheart. Your chromosomes do not change. Science (to date) cannot alter that. You cannot surgically alter, chemically alter and behaviorally adapt all you want, the DNA doesn't lie.

Nice try pulling the intellectual authority card. Won't work with me. I will devour you. Unless you have a secret PHD hidden in your briefs, the only thing you bring to this table is a remarkable set of abs, an oversized and uncut dick and a profound sense of leftist moral superiority not buttressed by anything resembling objective fact.

I love Curtis and want his happiness. If he asked me to call him a she. It would break my heart but I would obliege out of couresy. However, his nine inch dick doesn't need you to speak for him. :p

Statement critique: ".. sex and gender are bullshit social constructs ..." and " Intersectionalism is pure political bullshit "

Sex is not a social construct because it is a biological fact, and is not something that is/can be defined differently depending upon abject social criteria.

Gender on the other hand is a social construct as we as a society developed and assigned social, and biological attributes to ideologies of gendered characteristics and roles. An example of this is how most cultures globally recognise multiple gender identities, which attribute the same characteristics to different gendered identities.

Intersectionalism, is simply a way of identifying the compounding impact of multiple social forces on an individual or group, for the purpose of decreeing a more holistic understanding said impact. Maybe if you took a more intersectional view of intersectionality you would be in a better position to analyse its relevance in these types of discussions ;)

NB, if your talking about @Cdkcdk92 I wholeheartedly agree with your statement about his " remarkable set of abs, an oversized and uncut dick "
 
Man, this is one mean thread. Basically, what half of the thread can’t / won’t respect another human being enough to refer to them how they choose? Instead argue biology, or leftist agenda or whatever, but not that a person, like all of us just wants respect. And the rest, who may be right, devolve into soapboxing and mean talking. Which isn’t showing much respect either. And does language make a difference? Does it just make people play the role of victim? “That’s so gay” “you throw like a girl” Nothing wrong with that? I guess when you hear shit enough times it sounds normal but it’s not. It’s just not ok. And it is good when people speak up.
 
My only question is, does Nikki have the same hang ups about black men that Curtis/Nick had?

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BTW he look goot swallowing dick.
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...and taking it up the ass. Work them toes honey!

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...and getting that bussy fingered.

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...And cuming for daddy.

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Oh the memories don snatched my wig and everything.

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With 46 vids under his belt (admittedly I was more a Nixon/Shaw/Joshua/Early Brandon Guy) did he perform poorly with the...well even less than a handful of black regulars on SC? Lets be honest, I really mean Landon, because we both know SC was focused on a specific model type for MANY years. 0

My only question is, does Nikki have the same hang ups about black men that Curtis/Nick had?

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BTW he look goot swallowing dick.
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...and taking it up the ass. Work them toes honey!

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...and getting that bussy fingered.

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...And cuming for daddy.

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Oh the memories don snatched my wig and everything.

VjDsuY.gif
 
Okay, sir. You are operating on my level, unlike the idiot OP I responded to. You get respect points.

Context is key. 80's? Sure you win. But today it is all a moot point. It is something to mercilessly capitalize on for ones advantage. I still argue insectionalism is bullshit. There is nothing after this existence. Failure to rationally serve yourself is idiocy which is the definition of collectivism. Collectivism does have a basis in a functioning society that must be respected...but the legal framework of society establishes that, clearly. Beyond that, you are making foolish sacrifices that weaken your relative position. There is no reward for that. Other than diminishing your own comfort and safety without any long-term gain. I suppose satisfying your own subjective morality is a gain...for the sick and dysfunctional.

Hardened Catholics, Protestants, Jews, Muslims and Hindus can stand toe-to-toe with me and say I am damned for my selfishness as an objective, external authority dictates true morality and my values defy that. You cannot argue with that. It is a stalemate. Modern leftist Marxists? Ha! Their submission to collectivism without a basis in an external moral authority is hilarious. And tragic.

Statement critique: ".. sex and gender are bullshit social constructs ..." and " Intersectionalism is pure political bullshit "

Sex is not a social construct because it is a biological fact, and is not something that is/can be defined differently depending upon abject social criteria.

Gender on the other hand is a social construct as we as a society developed and assigned social, and biological attributes to ideologies of gendered characteristics and roles. An example of this is how most cultures globally recognise multiple gender identities, which attribute the same characteristics to different gendered identities.

Intersectionalism, is simply a way of identifying the compounding impact of multiple social forces on an individual or group, for the purpose of decreeing a more holistic understanding said impact. Maybe if you took a more intersectional view of intersectionality you would be in a better position to analyse its relevance in these types of discussions ;)

NB, if your talking about @Cdkcdk92 I wholeheartedly agree with your statement about his " remarkable set of abs, an oversized and uncut dick "
 
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Interracial always gets me going especially when some white twink seems to be able to take a bbc. maybe landon will fuck nicki/curtis at SC if she ever goes back.
 
With 46 vids under his belt (admittedly I was more a Nixon/Shaw/Joshua/Early Brandon Guy) did he perform poorly with the...well even less than a handful of black regulars on SC? Lets be honest, I really mean Landon, because we both know SC was focused on a specific model type for MANY years. 0
He NEVER performed with a black model. Somewhere it got out that he wouldn't do it because of his conservative background. I don't have the receipts right now but that's what I remember reading.
 
Okay, sir. You are operating on my level, unlike the idiot OP I responded to. You get respect points.

Context is key. 80's? Sure you win. But today it is all a moot point. It is something to mercilessly capitalize on for ones advantage. I still argue insectionalism is bullshit. There is nothing after this existence. Failure to rationally serve yourself is idiocy which is the definition of collectivism. Collectivism does have a basis in a functioning society that must be respected...but the legal framework of society establishes that, clearly. Beyond that, you are making foolish sacrifices that weaken your relative position. There is no reward for that. Other than diminishing your own comfort and safety without any long-term gain. I suppose satisfying your own subjective morality is a gain...for the sick and dysfunctional.

Hardened Catholics, Protestants, Jews, Muslims and Hindus can stand toe-to-toe with me and say I am damned for my selfishness as an objective, external authority dictates true morality and my values defy that. You cannot argue with that. It is a stalemate. Modern leftist Marxists? Ha! Their submission to collectivism without a basis in an external moral authority is hilarious. And tragic.

Thought you didn't rebut any point I made, nor make any assertions contrary to my observations, I'm assuming that this response you wrote was an attempt to tangentially lead me into to a discussion past that of your original statements about sex and gender. And although you kinda went on a somewhat unintelligible and hard to follow rant about collectivism, you provided me with a response, so I shall endeavour to do the same.

Ironically from what I concluded from your statements, your contradicting yourself. Intersectionality is oppositional to collectivism, one is about taking an individual as they are and acknowledging the different forces that operate to oppress them, and how that oppression manifests. The other is about taking the individual out of the picture in order to think of the best interest of the collective, over that of the individual. ie - looking at person who is queer and a POC, recognising that they will face both queer-phobia and racism, and looking at how to best mitigate both with equal prejudice, as opposed to a collectivist approach which would say that in the queer community, the former is what needs to be dealt with as a higher priority as it affects the majority, and the latter only affects the minority within the minority and is less problematic and may not even even be actioned if enough of the queer community also harboured racist views.

Another example, which is also ironic in these circumstances, would be the fact that within the queer community if someones being homophobic the community will back them and demand action, where as if someone is being specifically transphobic, members of the community like yourself are like "well at least they aren't attacking me, better not get involved, might even join in the attack".

Also, historically minority groups have always banned together in an attempt to be a larger force, as to no succumb so easily to will of the majority. There has also always been infighting along these 'Intersection', but they were largely quashed, as to not disturb the advancement of the majority of the minority. Examples of this are seem globally in pushes for civil and political rights like the rights of Women and POC to vote, were you usually found that Women of Colour would be silenced for speaking out against aspects of the communities they identified within, as to not hinder the progression of the cause.

I'm an atheist so I don't have some random moralistic sky daddy telling me right from wrong. But I form my own morals and ideologies from what I experience, and the experience pervade to me from those around, especially those who identify within my communities as being queer and Indigenous, as I am (No, before you assume that I'm a some 'flamboyant black queen' [not that there is anything wrong with those fabulous bitches] who is offended by everything and only has my opinions to form my ideologies, I'm actually a formalistic/legalistic conservative, who is socially progressive, white passing, pansexual, and have multiple degrees ;)). I call the queers out if they are being racist, and I call other Indigenous People out if they are being queer-phobic. I don't believe that it degrades my position or identity within either community, in fact it strengthens them both.

This is all not to say that I don't believe you have the right to your own opinions (I'm even happy for you that you feel that sure about them you are ready to go to war on a porn forum over them against a majority you know don't agree with you), I just don't personally have much time for people who are complicit in the oppression of others, let alone those within their own communities for illogical reasons.
 
Thought you didn't rebut any point I made, nor make any assertions contrary to my observations, I'm assuming that this response you wrote was an attempt to tangentially lead me into to a discussion past that of your original statements about sex and gender. And although you kinda went on a somewhat unintelligible and hard to follow rant about collectivism, you provided me with a response, so I shall endeavour to do the same.

Ironically from what I concluded from your statements, your contradicting yourself. Intersectionality is oppositional to collectivism, one is about taking an individual as they are and acknowledging the different forces that operate to oppress them, and how that oppression manifests. The other is about taking the individual out of the picture in order to think of the best interest of the collective, over that of the individual. ie - looking at person who is queer and a POC, recognising that they will face both queer-phobia and racism, and looking at how to best mitigate both with equal prejudice, as opposed to a collectivist approach which would say that in the queer community, the former is what needs to be dealt with as a higher priority as it affects the majority, and the latter only affects the minority within the minority and is less problematic and may not even even be actioned if enough of the queer community also harboured racist views.

Another example, which is also ironic in these circumstances, would be the fact that within the queer community if someones being homophobic the community will back them and demand action, where as if someone is being specifically transphobic, members of the community like yourself are like "well at least they aren't attacking me, better not get involved, might even join in the attack".

Also, historically minority groups have always banned together in an attempt to be a larger force, as to no succumb so easily to will of the majority. There has also always been infighting along these 'Intersection', but they were largely quashed, as to not disturb the advancement of the majority of the minority. Examples of this are seem globally in pushes for civil and political rights like the rights of Women and POC to vote, were you usually found that Women of Colour would be silenced for speaking out against aspects of the communities they identified within, as to not hinder the progression of the cause.

I'm an atheist so I don't have some random moralistic sky daddy telling me right from wrong. But I form my own morals and ideologies from what I experience, and the experience pervade to me from those around, especially those who identify within my communities as being queer and Indigenous, as I am (No, before you assume that I'm a some 'flamboyant black queen' [not that there is anything wrong with those fabulous bitches] who is offended by everything and only has my opinions to form my ideologies, I'm actually a formalistic/legalistic conservative, who is socially progressive, white passing, pansexual, and have multiple degrees ;)). I call the queers out if they are being racist, and I call other Indigenous People out if they are being queer-phobic. I don't believe that it degrades my position or identity within either community, in fact it strengthens them both.

This is all not to say that I don't believe you have the right to your own opinions (I'm even happy for you that you feel that sure about them you are ready to go to war on a porn forum over them against a majority you know don't agree with you), I just don't personally have much time for people who are complicit in the oppression of others, let alone those within their own communities for illogical reasons.

You didn't touch on this point, but I swear I saw someone else did.

Until Curtis/Nick/Nikki comes out and says anything, in this specific circumstance it is a misnomer of an issue, over the pronouns they prefer. However, if it is such an issue in a circumstance like this to call someone you seem to actually like by pronoun they may actually wish to be known by, you seem like a disrespectful person in general.

And if your fine with that, thats cool too. Just know that people will have an issue with you, they may think your a proper cunt because of it, and they may not want to engage with you, or act hostile towards you.

Just think of it like this, your an individual with dignity and autonomy. You can call people names they don't want to be called (when they havent affected you, and the name doesn't personally affect you) or eat bricks if you want to. I would personally suggest against doing either.
 
Yeah i heard something a while ago about him being racist but with his grindr profile now saying he wants 9 inches+ he might be down to take some bbc lol. Not that i believe the whole "nikki" thing. Something seems off, but then again, in the documentary the skype call with his "wife" also seemed kinda off. And Will Braun was obviously lying in that documentary too so i'm not really sure what to believe honestly. I know straight men can still find pleasure through anal stimulation cause of the prostate but if it IS just acting as they seem to suggest in the documentary then he deserves an oscar. What straight man can cum on cue hands free while being fucked?
 
Just read comments from nick himself/ herself on discuss.com he / she says he’s bi but for sex only str8 for relationships