So to make it brief. my girl now loves me to death (apparently). We laugh alot, talk about whatever, generally have fun and she's told me I'm the first person she's ever truly loved.
So I'm trying to ask, even if she loves me as much as she says, Would she be able to get over her high sex standards, desire for bigger dick and lack of attraction to me? Is she even trustworthy?
She's moderately attracted to me at best, she's told me I'm "not her type" plenty of times. We turn each other on alot, she initiates sex occasionally, and she doesn't seem satisfied afterwards (get's up quickly, moves on to other thoughts, bearly any cuddling) . The last guy she was with before me "made her feel like a virgin" and she had the "best sex of her life" with him, she didn't tell me outright but I did some snooping that I regret. She told me she used him for sex and as an "escape" but she won't have sex with me if she's in a bad mood, and has dried up during sex and cited it as "my mind was somewhere else". Which is direct contradiction to using sex as an escape so I'm clearly not as good and who knows by how much.
She also told me she was a squirter before we started having sex and would talk about how wet she would get and how much liquid would come out. I only make her squirt about half the time in varying amounts, she would often say, "You should fuck me standing up and you'll see how much comes out" Needless to say I haven't made her squirt once standing up...she kind of stopped bringing it up once we started having sex.
I'm coming in at 7.8 x 5.5-5.8 (no pics deal with it) and she actually laughed when I told her every girl before her has told me I'm big. I know I'm not huge, but damn if you're laughing at that then wtf.
She also has expressed interest in one of my more "hung" friends, to the point where I actually broke up with her cause she made a pass at him in front of me (about his dick). I wouldn't have gotten back with her but she begged me for days and I really do love her its just troubling me.
I told her about how much that specifically messed with my head, it was like a passive way to say "I'm not satisfied and I want bigger cock".
She's doing everything she can to make me feel better after that, talking down a big dick we saw in a porno by saying "that looks so painful" we went to a sex shop and saw a 7 inch dildo, she grabbed her stomach and said "ugh i'm in pain just thinking about that", constantly telling me how "satisfied" she is with me.
Bitch please, I know you're lying to me to make me feel better, which makes me feel worse cause it makes me think of it even more. I know she likes rough sex, she's one of the few girls I've met that LOVES getting her cervix hit. Hard.
She also told me she vaginally orgasmed only ONCE in her life and never has come close to it again with any man, but she fucked up my self esteem and now I'm questioning that. Would women lie about something like that?
So what do ya'll think? She cares about me, but she lies to make me feel better which I appreciate in a way but mostly despise.
Women have you ever had a problem similar to this? Where you have to lie about sexual satisfaction to protect your man's feelings/wgo? If so than how did you feel about it, you care about him deeply but you are having a need not being met. If it's on your mind than won't you be more if not very likely to cheat, even if you love him but just to get that feeling back?
It's an issue that I know is going to come up again in some form, if you have had any experience with anything similar to this please be honest about how you felt and how you dealt with it for better or worse.
And obvs I need to get better at sex, it has to do with being in shape I have low stamina and get tired.
So I'm trying to ask, even if she loves me as much as she says, Would she be able to get over her high sex standards, desire for bigger dick and lack of attraction to me? Is she even trustworthy?
She's moderately attracted to me at best, she's told me I'm "not her type" plenty of times. We turn each other on alot, she initiates sex occasionally, and she doesn't seem satisfied afterwards (get's up quickly, moves on to other thoughts, bearly any cuddling) . The last guy she was with before me "made her feel like a virgin" and she had the "best sex of her life" with him, she didn't tell me outright but I did some snooping that I regret. She told me she used him for sex and as an "escape" but she won't have sex with me if she's in a bad mood, and has dried up during sex and cited it as "my mind was somewhere else". Which is direct contradiction to using sex as an escape so I'm clearly not as good and who knows by how much.
She also told me she was a squirter before we started having sex and would talk about how wet she would get and how much liquid would come out. I only make her squirt about half the time in varying amounts, she would often say, "You should fuck me standing up and you'll see how much comes out" Needless to say I haven't made her squirt once standing up...she kind of stopped bringing it up once we started having sex.
I'm coming in at 7.8 x 5.5-5.8 (no pics deal with it) and she actually laughed when I told her every girl before her has told me I'm big. I know I'm not huge, but damn if you're laughing at that then wtf.
She also has expressed interest in one of my more "hung" friends, to the point where I actually broke up with her cause she made a pass at him in front of me (about his dick). I wouldn't have gotten back with her but she begged me for days and I really do love her its just troubling me.
I told her about how much that specifically messed with my head, it was like a passive way to say "I'm not satisfied and I want bigger cock".
She's doing everything she can to make me feel better after that, talking down a big dick we saw in a porno by saying "that looks so painful" we went to a sex shop and saw a 7 inch dildo, she grabbed her stomach and said "ugh i'm in pain just thinking about that", constantly telling me how "satisfied" she is with me.
Bitch please, I know you're lying to me to make me feel better, which makes me feel worse cause it makes me think of it even more. I know she likes rough sex, she's one of the few girls I've met that LOVES getting her cervix hit. Hard.
She also told me she vaginally orgasmed only ONCE in her life and never has come close to it again with any man, but she fucked up my self esteem and now I'm questioning that. Would women lie about something like that?
So what do ya'll think? She cares about me, but she lies to make me feel better which I appreciate in a way but mostly despise.
Women have you ever had a problem similar to this? Where you have to lie about sexual satisfaction to protect your man's feelings/wgo? If so than how did you feel about it, you care about him deeply but you are having a need not being met. If it's on your mind than won't you be more if not very likely to cheat, even if you love him but just to get that feeling back?
It's an issue that I know is going to come up again in some form, if you have had any experience with anything similar to this please be honest about how you felt and how you dealt with it for better or worse.
And obvs I need to get better at sex, it has to do with being in shape I have low stamina and get tired.