Sorry for my broken english.
I´m spaniard and here, your question is a big problem because We have law called of "equality" that is anything less equality. Is againt the presumption of innocence and againt that everyboy is equal before the law.
A example: if a woman slap to a man are a fine of 60 euros. But is a man slap to a women are four years of jail.
The other part is that a woman don´t need any legal evidency to report a man to policy. And the minimal is that the man passes one day in a cell. Even can be a trial legal witout evidency, the policy and the judge know that a fake report but the lawa say that the woman allway is right. Besides she can say that was psychological maltreatment and the crime is the same.
Many women use this law and this fake reports like revage, chantage or to manipulate during a divorce. Harming the real victims that are found out that legal remedies are saturated.
Then here my own experience with your question.
The first woman was 45 years old but had Elektra complex for her dead father. She She was trying to have an infantile and capriccioso behavior all the time. She was very into B&S is member of a club B&S and she was model for some bondage shows.
Well, I dominat but don´t like some do the thing that she before meet me. She was into a style of submission very theatrial, all about protocols, costumes and norms until the ridicule and same time very hard. She show me some old photos, her previus master He made things, mainly when he lent her to other people. Things that got me very angry, it is not my way of domination. But then I I realized that that had happened because she had wanted it.
A day she say to me that she wished to be slapped when she misbehaved. And she mean In everyday life, no the submissive sex. Slapped very hard And taking her to a corner to think about her fault. Some time afterwards, I should have finished the punishment reprimanding her lovingly. (Infantile behavior and father daughter rol)
Her the most Arousing experiece was when a boyfriend slap her very hard in the midle of the street for one small fault.
And NO! I never slap her. I had enough problem in my life. If I slap her, ten minutes afte the police are Knocking at the door.
Any way we end short time alter. I was so soft and unsophisticated for her taste. And she was too much crazy to me besiade she had a very little vagina and zero interest for hung cocks.
The last that I know about her is that was the toy of everyone in her B&S club.
The second woman was a tiny redhead, 40 year old five feet and two inches, dance teacher for little girls, We look like thhe beauty and the beast. She was a porcelain doll hindina a lustful sizequeen. She said that my young hen was the masculinity's epitome and she was willing to make any things to please my cock ( not to please to me, I was this weird thing paste to her perfect cock toy) And for a few mouth She proved that she told the truth. Anything without limits.
Usually we meet in hotel´s bar or in recepcion like strangers, beggins a game of silent seducion, Solo insinuating glances and gestures until i gave her a paper with the number of the room.
A time alter, she knocked at the door and witiut a word I undres undressed her, many time under the coat she only wore lingerie.
Then begen a lot of hard and dirty sex. She wished to be used for me. Be a sex marionette, without otherpurpose that adore my cock.
But all the things are a end. One time, after the sex, lying the bed, she said That she wanted I push her out of the room. While she was even naced, that I threw her the dress and close the door.
A good show for the security cams in the corridor. But lucky, I am too stupid and I did not think about that. Really I think that she was kidding, so I laught and fuck her one more time.
Was the last time I can meet her. intenté contactar varias veces pero fue imposible. Some time alter she text to me tos ay that she love thar I was a nice guy, humble and honored. (this mean “your are a true moron, boy”) and that my cock even was pefect. This was the last I know about her.
The other side, I have really rude sex with some women worry-free because there was a mutual trust. I mean hard spanking, face slap, really dirty talk…
Then If you think about men afraid about a fake report, you must think also about women afraid about look for this type of hard sex and don´t know if he is the righ guy. Is he going to think that I am a whore? Will respect me the day after? Will he respect the limits? Is I say thar wish be used Will he interpret it like permission to rape me?
Is complicate for both. I only can say respect, confidence and mutual consent.